Two questions.
1. What hurts more -- his thickness or his length?
2. My guy said I need to prep and clean my ass first.....what does that entail?
1- I have always had a history of being tight, because of being tense and nervous. The thickness and width always hurt me because an erect cock stretches tight anal rings as it pushes forward deeper to fit. When a top finally penetrates me comfortably with his cock all the way in, the length has never been a problem. It is just the few minutes of painful and pinching feeling of my asshole wrapping and forming a grip around my top's shaft.
- You can work on this so you can get used to your sphincter being stretched open for penetration, with butt plugs and a
dildo of you choose. The key thing is to relax, and lube up well with patience and TAKE YOUR TIME! ;-) . I always used my anal toys in the shower to keep myself used to being a little more "looser" and penetration won't hurt. It's your personal preference too in what position you like, prefer and will be at your most comfortable when you are going to bottom. Experimenting is fun!
-When a top with a smaller cock wants to fuck me, I am comfortable and enjoy penetration to be fucked doggy. When a top has a larger cock, I lay on my back with my knees open so penetration is more comfortable as I am more relaxed! When you have more experience, you will naturally find what works for you! I have had some tops who were impatient inside porn booths, or curious booty calls, in they try to ram themselves in me and it hurts to hell, so I will always emphasize patience!
2. Prepping and cleaning your ass is absolutely important! I learned from the gay males to get an enema, any kind sold from Walgreen's to porn shops, and to insert in your anus and clean yourself out. It can get messy if you don't clean yourself out with an enema and I personally use baby wipes as well to follow up the cleaning! It takes some prepping if you want to bottom or anal play.

I personally enema first, then shower to wash my body, bush and asshole to prep for the fun!
I hope you have fun!
