Getting waxed, what should I get done?

[BrownBoi89]

Hey peeps! Before I tell you how the waxing went, I'm just letting you know I will definitely post pics later tonight. Probably before I go to bed like I did last night. Maybe not as late since I have school tomorrow, probably around 11:30ish. I just don't want people to get all angry and calling me a liar or anything for not pics. I promise tonight! And then you can compare the two and see the difference.

So as to how it went. Not as painful as I thought it was going to be. And my back was surprisingly the least painful, for some reason I thought it would be the most painful. I think the chest was the most painful. But other than that I did not cry and I did not yell or scream! I am so proud of myself! I probably made faces and flinched a lot after the strip came off, but yeah it wasn't so bad. But I was in there for an hour and a half! And she said she used the entire jar of wax on me! LOL!

As for how I think I look, I think it looks pretty good. I am so effing pale in my midsection though! At least I think so! I do feel colder now and my clothes feel looser, which sucks because I am all about tight clothing lol. Also since like I said this salon doesn't do bikini when I looked at myself naked it looks like I'm wearing furry booty shorts! lol! Yeah I am totally getting my butt and the rest of leg waxed at a different salon. Still kinda hesitant about getting the balls and shaft waxed, I might just trim those areas when I trim my pubes. Or I could ask the salon to trim for me. But there are pros to being hairless! No more shedding everywhere like animal! I don't have to use that much soap now when I shower! And I can dry myself off faster too! But yeah just need to finish off what I started, I really don't think I can go through with a self-waxer or shave that area myself so I'll leave it to the professionals

 

[Latimer]

You look to be a very handsome guy. Now that you've shed the hair you need to cut the carbs and hit the gym and get hard. You've got the makings of a real heartthrob.

 

[BrownBoi89]

You look to be a very handsome guy. Now that you've shed the hair you need to cut the carbs and hit the gym and get hard. You've got the makings of a real heartthrob.

LOL...um...thanks, but I'll stick to the workout routine I currently do at home. I don't like being all gross and sweaty in front of people. Not attractive at all. But I'm curious as to what you mean with the word "hard". Because I really am not all that interested in become super hugely buff just want to get rid of my tummy and moobs lol. Yes I am probably the only guy in the world who could care less about having a six pack. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't I could care less. I am already proud of the accomplishments I've made regarding my body. I used to wear a size large now I'm a small. I used to wear like size 38 or 36 (can't remember now) jeans, now I'm down to a 31/32. And here's the real kicker! I used to weigh 185 lbs (84 kg, 13st 3lb) and now weigh 145 lbs (66 kg, 10st 5lb)! Ya sure I may have a shit ton of stretch marks on my body that are way more noticeable now that I'm not hairy, but if any guy gives me shit about them I'll just say "I'd like to see you lose 40 lbs and 5 inches off your waist! Let's see how perfect you look then?" "And I'm spent"

 

[QuinnRider]

LOL...um...thanks, but I'll stick to the workout routine I currently do at home. I don't like being all gross and sweaty in front of people. Not attractive at all. But I'm curious as to what you mean with the word "hard". Because I really am not all that interested in become super hugely buff just want to get rid of my tummy and moobs lol. Yes I am probably the only guy in the world who could care less about having a six pack. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't I could care less. I am already proud of the accomplishments I've made regarding my body. I used to wear a size large now I'm a small. I used to wear like size 38 or 36 (can't remember now) jeans, now I'm down to a 31/32. And here's the real kicker! I used to weigh 185 lbs (84 kg, 13st 3lb) and now weigh 145 lbs (66 kg, 10st 5lb)! Ya sure I may have a shit ton of stretch marks on my body that are way more noticeable now that I'm not hairy, but if any guy gives me shit about them I'll just say "I'd like to see you lose 40 lbs and 5 inches off your waist! Let's see how perfect you look then?" "And I'm spent"

*applauds* I know how hard it is to loose 50+ pounds. I also know how hard it is to keep it off -I failed 3 times- lol! Good job shedding the weight and keeping it off. It's not all about the 6 pack. Some guys like a little something to hold onto anyway I would know!

 

[metta]

That is awesome...I could not imagine having to do that. I think that because you are so young that your skin will probably tighten up pretty well over time all by itself. Congratulations!

If you do decide to workout with weights, that should also help. There are also natural creams that you can use to reduce lines, a lot of women use them for after pregnancy for stretch marks. You of course don't need to do any of that...just wanted to let you know that there are things that can help repair it more quickly.

 

[Latimer]

Not super hugely buff but leanly muscled hard and defined. Now that you're smooth and can actually see your body, good definition becomes more important. At your age it's never going to be easier to accomplish.
Some other thoughts: good, hard workouts aren't going to necessarily make you "gross and sweaty in front of people", particularly now that you've shed the hair, and sweaty can be a turn-on. Now that you've lost the weight and the hair you need to re-evaluate your self-image, and really understand and enjoy how handsome you are. A good-looking guy like you can get away with a lot--including a little sweat now and then.

 

[BrownBoi89]

That is awesome...I could not imagine having to do that. I think that because you are so young that your skin will probably tighten up pretty well over time all by itself. Congratulations!

If you do decide to workout with weights, that should also help. There are also natural creams that you can use to reduce lines, a lot of women use them for after pregnancy for stretch marks. You of course don't need to do any of that...just wanted to let you know that there are things that can help repair it more quickly.

Thanks for the info. metta! I should probably just ask you stuff from now on. I thought my stretch marks were permanent but hey if they go away by themselves by working out with weights (which I've been doing for the last few months) then yay! And even though I'm really into my appearance I really don't care about my stretch marks all that much enough to you creams or anything, they don't bother me, so I doubt they'll bother the boys. But thanks again! You're the best!

 

[BrownBoi89]

As promised here are my after pics. Enjoy making the comparison while you can because tomorrow night I plan on removing all my before pics.

 

[metta]

thanks for sharing. looks really good.

i'm surprised that the skin is not even red. did they tell you to put lotion or anything on your skin to prevent your skin from getting irritated?

 

[Wonderwall]

You look good I hope you feel that way to!

 

[QuinnRider]

Omg! That's a crazy difference, you look so soft now!

 

[SilverWolf]

I love the new look.

 

[BrownBoi89]

thanks for sharing. looks really good.

i'm surprised that the skin is not even red. did they tell you to put lotion or anything on your skin to prevent your skin from getting irritated?

No they didn't actually, but even though it doesn't look red anywhere it did sting in random spots when I took a shower today and yesterday. So am I supposed to be using lotion? When and how frequently? Is there a special kind I'm supposed to use? lol Metta you seem to have all the answers or at least you tend to make good recommendations.

And I wanna thank you all for your compliments on my new pics! I love the way I look and I totally think I feel so much more confident now! I just need to make that last appointment to get the bikini area done and I'm good to go! But thanks again you guys for all your support, advice, encouragement, compliments, praises, and opinions!

 

[metta]

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That is wonderful...because you should not do it for anyone else but yourself. As for lotion, yeah....that can help prevent skin from getting inflamed. It does not have to be expensive. You want one that will not plog up pores, be gentle to your skin. There are a lot of good products out there that can help if you need it.

 

[Nomenclature]

LOVE the way you look now!

Be sure to PM me pics after you get your bikini wax. lol

 

[BrownBoi89]

LOVE the way you look now!

Be sure to PM me pics after you get your bikini wax. lol

Thanks Nomenclature!

And yeah right to the second part lol. Since you've seen like a shit ton of half naked pics of me, maybe you should PM me some half naked ones of you first, and then I might consider sending you post bikini waxed pics of me, lol.

 

[benners]

You look amazing, BrownBoi89! ^.^ I love that you love how you look--I think you're adorable! I'm so happy for you. ^.^

Do you know how often you'll need to go back to maintain it? Or is it manageable enough now that you'll be able to keep up with shaving at home? I'm really curious. I've been really tempted to get my legs waxed lately and but I don't know much about maintenance.

 

[BrownBoi89]

You look amazing, BrownBoi89! ^.^ I love that you love how you look--I think you're adorable! I'm so happy for you. ^.^

Do you know how often you'll need to go back to maintain it? Or is it manageable enough now that you'll be able to keep up with shaving at home? I'm really curious. I've been really tempted to get my legs waxed lately and but I don't know much about maintenance.

Thank you so much Brenners! That means a lot coming from a gorgeous fellow like yourself!

As for your question, they told me to wait til my hairs are a quarter of an inch long before coming back to get waxed. Since it was my first time getting waxed I have no idea how long that will be til they're that long. And I actually haven't decided yet if I'm going to shave or keep waxing. But Brenners have you gotten anything waxed before? If you have, do you remember how long it was before they were a quarter of an inch long? If you do then that's how often you're supposed to maintain it. So I guess you have to decide for yourself if getting it done is worth all that maintenance. Or you could just wait til my hair grows back and I'll let you know how long it took. But I have a feeling everyone's hair grows at different rates, so it may not be all that helpful. Good luck if you decide to get it done! In my opinion the legs were worse than my arms and back, but that's because they were hairier than my arms and back, but not as hairy as some parts of my chest or stomach. I hope this helps!

 

[metta]

Have you ever noticed that hair generally grows a little faster during the summer. Some people don't notice it...but I do on me. Hair growth also slows down a little as you age but may also appear in more places, depending on genes.

I'm guessing that hair grown also grows at different rates depending on the part of the body...but that is only a guess.

 

[BrownBoi89]

Update!

Made an appointment for my bikini area to be waxed thursday! And then I will be done! Finally! It's been a little weird looking at myself naked being completely hairless everywhere else except the part where my underwear was covering when I was got waxed the first time. It's a good thing we're not allowed to post nude pics in Hot Topics, because I ain't doing before and after pics for this one!