Girls=relationships, Guys=just for fun?

[Circe Infuria]

............................ please????

 

[JOHN B]

i've created a monster. all i had was a curiosity about how many bi men felt that way, and why......

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Didn´t ya´ll checked the HUMOR tag in my post. It was all a joke

Ah, I see. So because you were KIDDING, the problem isn't with you. It's with us for being so friggin' uptight that we can't see the humor.

I apologize for being an uptight humorless gargoyle.

Lex

 

[ryankeith]

Why is it when I go on MySpace or other sites, the guys who claim they are Bi Sexual always have gay related pictures and their friends always tend to be half naked men who are also Bi or gay...but they usually have no pics or buddies who are women?

I believe their are some true Bi-sexual men, but I think a huge amount are using the "bi" title as a cop out.

 

[Jory]

Personally I would have a relationship with a bi after friendship is in its way a relationship.

 

[Jory]

There are honest bi-guys that tell you the truth upfront and tell you what to expect.

Funny thing this happen to me on a one night stand but I was the one who was upfront with him about the whole thing.

 

[Jory]

i've created a monster. all i had was a curiosity about how many bi men felt that way, and why......

Don't worry John you aren't the first and you will not be the last

 

[Swellegant]

Interesting thread. But something has always worried me about this setup:

If (girls=relationships) and (guys=fun), and of course (girls≠guys), then doesn't it stand as a conclusion that (girls≠fun)? That (relationships≠fun)?

Sounds dreary to me. I can certainly understand that one goes through phases in one's life, and that when you get to a certain stage you want to "settle down." I've certainly settled down, myself. Sex becomes less important and security and quiet become moreso. But I never quite grasped planning the future to such an extent that you automatically disqualify certain possibilities. Maybe it's just because I don't want to have kids, myself, but I've never understood that statement "I want to settle down and have kids someday." Whatever for?

I guess my policy on bisexuals and gays dating is that mixed marriages are an extra challenge. Bisexuals would probably get bashed less if they'd stick to their own kind and leave us gays out of it. But I know for my own peace of mind, I'd never make a choice as important as whom to love based on someone else's expectations, social bashing, or the dominant paradigm... clothes, maybe, but lifestyle no. I'm just funny that way. So all of the above is nothing but a personal opinion, and I'd be utterly horrified if anyone suggested that people ought to change their behavior for my comfort.

So, in conclusion: carry on.

 

[18BiJock]

I'm pretty sure I personally fall in2 this category of girls 4 dating but guys for f***ing... I didn't really know that was a widespread belief until now... Well, I think this may be becuz a guy likes to keep his "straightness" as well as his "gayness" when he's biI don't know, it's complicated...but maybe he needs to feel more straight...then again you said he was almost straight anyway... I just equate dating as straight thing bcuz that was how I was brought up, just like most other children...I don't really want to get married EVER or have children....but if I did, it would be w/ a woman... I feel romantic love towards them but only lust for men...and also women I hope this helps you understand... good luck!!!

 

[SexyLiciousBoy]

OMG i thought i was the only one who realized this about bi guys LMAO.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

But I never quite grasped planning the future to such an extent that you automatically disqualify certain possibilities. Maybe it's just because I don't want to have kids, myself, but I've never understood that statement "I want to settle down and have kids someday." Whatever for?

But I know for my own peace of mind, I'd never make a choice as important as whom to love based on someone else's expectations, social bashing, or the dominant paradigm... clothes, maybe, but lifestyle no.

Well, it's in human nature to want to be accepted to some degree. When it comes to long-term goals and outlooks, some people take family, friends, peers, and society into account in planning their lives because it makes them happier to be accepted on that kind of level.

 

[Ninja108]

wow, another bis only use men for sex thread -(again), its decended into a bashing thread-(again). can't we all get along?

 

[JOHN B]

the bashing actually has seemed to end Ninja---and thanks for your feedback guys.....