Giving a straight guy head...

[joshmode]

My best friend is having a sexual relationship with a guy. He's straight, NOT bisexual or in the closet. She is very straight up with guys. She and him have come to an agreement that they are fuck buddies- nothing else. She is very straight up when it comes to sex. He has told her all of his sexual fantasies and vice versa. One of the things he brought up was having a threesome.

My friend was telling me about how he performed when the threesome idea surfaced. My friend and I ruled out the possibility of him having a threesome with me (a guy) and she thought up a different scenario. She wants me give him a blowjob while they make out. I'm okay with that...

I know that he is straight and I don't expect anything in return. I was wondering If that seems odd? After he cums I'm (most likely) going to leave and they're going to go for another round. I don't know how to give a blowjob and I want to pleasure him better than my friend did! She told me that he didn't cum when she gave him head (he had to jack himself off).

I'm not sure what to do about his cum. She doesn't let him cum in her mouth or on her face but am I supposed to? I don't think I'll have the courage to talk to him beforehand but I've never tasted cum so I don't know If I would like the taste. Most likely I will just kneel down and do my business and leave. I haven't given a blowjob before (strangely my first blow job is a straight guy).

The reason I'm posting this in the Straight & Bi Dudes forum is because I want to know what your opinion is on the situation. STRAIGHT GUYS - would you be cool with getting a blowjob from a GAY GUY while you and a girl made out? OR would that be too awkward or seem too "gay" LOL. Please, be honest. I promise I will not get offended UNLESS you just plain out call me a whore LMAO . I get great pleasure from pleasing others.

I'm sure this sounds kind of phony but I'm being honest. Me and my friend talk about everything and we are both open to try different sexual things so before anyone claims this is a work of fiction - IT IS NOT.

The questions on how the cum would taste and blowjob tips are questions for the GAY GUYS LOL! . All she has told me about his package is that 1. he is big and 2. he is uncut.

(Just so you get a clear picture of what I'm dealing with) LOL.

Thanks

 

[Rex]

Most straight guys wouldn't be cool with it and I don't understand why he'd let you do it if he already has her to mess around with.

As for giving a blowjob, I suggest you watch some good porn and just think of what you would like to have done to you if someone was giving you head.

 

[propoolplayer99]

if he's straight he won't go for it.

and as for asking for a staight guy's advice... well you won't find any of those here.

 

[Fucker29]

As for the blowjob, as said earlier, watch some porn to get an idea...then follow your instinct.

 

[probeteam1]

Gay guy here:
It's been my experience that the best way to improve one's oral skills (short of getting lessons) is to pay attention. Notice how he reacts when you do different things. Keep in mind your own sensitive places, and try a few of those out on him.
I'll leave the mechanical pointers to the more qualified.

As for where his semen goes - you aren't "supposed" to do anything. There aren't many real rules for situations like this, nor even too much in the way of etiquette as far as I can tell. If you're not willing to talk to him beforehand, you could have your friend do it - the same goes if he's not willing to talk to you.
If the three of you don't want to discuss it beforehand, you'll just have to wing it - see if he wants to come in your mouth, and decide there and then whether you want him to. This is, of course, assuming he warns you and doesn't just let it go. And assuming you can orally bring him to orgasm where his girlfriend failed.
If you're trying to show him a better time than his lady friend, however, letting him cum in your mouth or on your face might be one way to do it, but you still have to decide whether you're willing to do it.

Finally, people have different opinions on the taste of semen. Nobody else can tell you how to feel about it.

Hope this helps.

 

[954dude]

I'd say talk about it. Think about why you're doing this and if you really want to.

 

[Telstra]

well if he let u do it and there is no mis-understanding i would say why not.

the clear watery cum (2nd or 3rd cum) should not have any taste which is good, but the white thick cum probably not very nice.

 

[tonyboy]

My best friend is having a sexual relationship with a guy. He's straight, NOT bisexual or in the closet. She is very straight up with guys. She and him have come to an agreement that they are fuck buddies- nothing else. She is very straight up when it comes to sex. He has told her all of his sexual fantasies and vice versa. One of the things he brought up was having a threesome.

My friend was telling me about how he performed when the threesome idea surfaced. My friend and I ruled out the possibility of him having a threesome with me (a guy) and she thought up a different scenario. She wants me give him a blowjob while they make out. I'm okay with that...

I know that he is straight and I don't expect anything in return. I was wondering If that seems odd? After he cums I'm (most likely) going to leave and they're going to go for another round. I don't know how to give a blowjob and I want to pleasure him better than my friend did! She told me that he didn't cum when she gave him head (he had to jack himself off).

I'm not sure what to do about his cum. She doesn't let him cum in her mouth or on her face but am I supposed to? I don't think I'll have the courage to talk to him beforehand but I've never tasted cum so I don't know If I would like the taste. Most likely I will just kneel down and do my business and leave. I haven't given a blowjob before (strangely my first blow job is a straight guy).

The reason I'm posting this in the Straight & Bi Dudes forum is because I want to know what your opinion is on the situation. STRAIGHT GUYS - would you be cool with getting a blowjob from a GAY GUY while you and a girl made out? OR would that be too awkward or seem too "gay" LOL. Please, be honest. I promise I will not get offended UNLESS you just plain out call me a whore LMAO . I get great pleasure from pleasing others.

I'm sure this sounds kind of phony but I'm being honest. Me and my friend talk about everything and we are both open to try different sexual things so before anyone claims this is a work of fiction - IT IS NOT.

The questions on how the cum would taste and blowjob tips are questions for the GAY GUYS LOL! . All she has told me about his package is that 1. he is big and 2. he is uncut.

(Just so you get a clear picture of what I'm dealing with) LOL.

Thanks

Holy cow man.
First what you are considering is not wierd... as far as sex goes there is not much that anyone hasn't thought nor done.
I'd leave you and your bestfried and her b/f alone on this one though man.
You find youself a good gay guy to date or have sex with.
As far as knowing how to give a good b/j.... well that will come perfectly natuarl when the time comes along. Trust me on that one.

Why you'd even figure that you'd have a good time sucking a a guys dick when he was interested in the girl is something I cannot figure out, especially cause you'd just leave after your part of the deal.
It may even be that your best friend (the girl) has some feelings for you sexually and wants to have you share some part in her fantasy.
Leave it alone...
You find your own sexual partner. There are lot's of very good gay guys just watiing for you out there. You find them and you will have your own fun with him.... leave your best friend and her b/f to themselves.
And btw- just cause a guy has a big thick cock doesn't mean sucking it is any more enjoyable than a guy with a thin cock. It's the guy.... not the size of his dick.
And it's much easier to take a thinner cock down your throat.

 

[GimmeADolla85]

Holy cow man.
First what you are considering is not wierd... as far as sex goes there is not much that anyone hasn't thought nor done.
I'd leave you and your bestfried and her b/f alone on this one though man.
You find youself a good gay guy to date or have sex with.
As far as knowing how to give a good b/j.... well that will come perfectly natuarl when the time comes along. Trust me on that one.

Why you'd even figure that you'd have a good time sucking a a guys dick when he was interested in the girl is something I cannot figure out, especially cause you'd just leave after your part of the deal.
It may even be that your best friend (the girl) has some feelings for you sexually and wants to have you share some part in her fantasy.
Leave it alone...
You find your own sexual partner. There are lot's of very good gay guys just watiing for you out there. You find them and you will have your own fun with him.... leave your best friend and her b/f to themselves.
And btw- just cause a guy has a big thick cock doesn't mean sucking it is any more enjoyable than a guy with a thin cock. It's the guy.... not the size of his dick.
And it's much easier to take a thinner cock down your throat.

Finding a date in the gay community isn't all that it's cracked up to be and isn't even as easy as you make it out to be. A " nice, attractive, good-looking gay guy " is like trying to find a fucking unicorn in a 7-11. They simply don't exist anymore.

Blowing the guy, is simply up to you. It's a sexual experience. Just because a guy is straight - doesn't mean that they won't accept a blowjob from a guy.. ESPECIALLY when that's a girl's fantasy. You'll be surprised what a straight guy will do, just because a girl wants them too.

I personally don't like sucking on those things - so I can't be of any help. But watch videos, and be nastier than girls ( who I here, act feeble and proper ). Smack it against your cheeks, chin, mouth and tongue. Choke the sucker. Make his toes curl. Hell, if it's spectacular you just might be able to turn the fucker to the other side.

I kid. I kid.

 

[screwnutty]

Finding a date in the gay community isn't all that it's cracked up to be and isn't even as easy as you make it out to be. A " nice, attractive, good-looking gay guy " is like trying to find a fucking unicorn in a 7-11. They simply don't exist anymore.

I found a unicorn in a 7-11 once! I did. But it was a picture on a Frosty cup!

Yeah finding a gay guy that really likes you for you and isn't interesting in just a one night stand or sex, sex and more sex is impossible!

 

[LittleGeek]

Well, if you really go ahead with it...

Just go with the flow. Instincts. It's not that hard, the taste depends on the person, so... If you are alright with it and they are too, why not? Who knows, something else might happen too...

 

[joshmode]

Your response makes it seem like I'm trying to pry in the middle of my friends sex life. NO I'm not, she invited me and I accepted. She is not attracted to me sexually. We both are very direct on what we want and we both thought it would be something fun to try.

You're also making it seem like I'm trying to have some deep emotional connection with this guy. No I am not. I get pleasure knowing I'm pleasing him and I'm sure when I go home I will shoot a huge load LMAO

You had great points but I'm just not that kind of guy. I'm totally cool with just being the "accessory". I would also love to share with everyone that among the many things he told me friend. One was that he would like to fuck her up the ass (which means he isn't grossed out by anal *HINT) and that he loves to take advantage of people during sex (have complete control).

I'm not saying that makes it anymore likely that he will want more than a blowjob but I thought you would find that interesting.

It's also 5x harder for me to find a gay guy to try anything with. I live in a very conservative town, there were only like 4 "out of the closet" gay guys at my high school and there were plenty more guys that I'm certain were gay but too afraid to admit it.

I know he is straight but so is my friend and he wanted another woman to have SEX with them. My friend is only asking for me to give a blowjob while they have sex. If he declines that would be unfair.

 

[mmoay020]

No offense... so your friend is using you sexually, to see her bf's limits? HMmmmm... Sounds to me like that could actually have some resounding effect on your sex life.

Frankly, I agree with tonyboy- you should have sex with someone who actually appreciates you- not using you to bust a nut.

And for those guys who are telling you finding a great guy is impossible- it's not. I've dated a number of guys- all of which were great, and all of which weren't slutty. We just weren't compatible. But having self-esteem, self-respect, and being positive are all important things.

Whatever you decide, I hope it's what you want- because I'm not entirely convinced it is.

 

[spikebaltar]

This setup seems really weird to me...they expect you to suck him and then just leave? Seem rude...at least they could let you stay and watch while you finish yourself off.

 

[joshmode]

mmoay020: so your friend is using you sexually, to see her bf's limits?

ME IN THE POST BEFORE YOU:
We both are very direct on what we want and we both thought it would be something fun to try.

Why are you assuming that I can't find a guy? That is not what this post was about AT ALL. It was about tips on how to please him and I asked the STRAIGHT GUYS what they would do in the situation. That is why this i posted it in the Straight & Bisexual Forum. Why has everyone assumed that he will not appreciate me?

Just because he is straight doesn't mean he would only appreciate head from a woman. I would appreciate if a girl gave me head even though i am gay. I'll let his dick decide whether or not it appreciates my tongue.

It is my fault for leading some of you to believe I was going to literally "walk in, kneel down, and start sucking". This is not a stranger, I know this guy. We aren't friends but I know of him.

 

[GimmeADolla85]

I don't think it's weird and I don't think your friend is " using " you. Why are so many people blowing this out of proportion?

 

[screwnutty]

Joshmode you seem very comfortable and you know what your doing. I say go for it. It could be good....it could be bad. But your never going to find out for sure until you try. That's how we learn.

So go get him kid!

 

[GimmeADolla85]

Good grief man.....have you forgotten where you are? .......

Lol ! Oh yeah.. now I remember.

 

[meinbruder]

I wouldn’t mid getting a BJ from a guy, especially with a girl keeping my attention centered on her. It sounds like a standard NSA arrangement but my question is this. Are you willing to do this just for the experience of giving your first BJ?

If she won’t take the shot in the mouth, you probably shouldn’t either; the whole safe sex thing should apply in an NSA encounter. The other guys are right about learning how, watch some movies, think about what you enjoy when getting one, and do you best to imitate the movies. Read this for tips, http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml . One hint; get a close shave, having ones cock smacked against stubble would likely be very a turnoff. You might want to taste your own cum the next time you jerk off to see what you think of it.

Have fun.
Mike

The reason I'm posting this in the Straight & Bi Dudes forum is because I want to know what your opinion is on the situation. STRAIGHT GUYS - would you be cool with getting a blowjob from a GAY GUY while you and a girl made out? OR would that be too awkward or seem too "gay" LOL. Please, be honest. I promise I will not get offended UNLESS you just plain out call me a whore LMAO . I get great pleasure from pleasing others.

I'm sure this sounds kind of phony but I'm being honest. Me and my friend talk about everything and we are both open to try different sexual things so before anyone claims this is a work of fiction - IT IS NOT.

The questions on how the cum would taste and blowjob tips are questions for the GAY GUYS LOL! . All she has told me about his package is that 1. he is big and 2. he is uncut.

(Just so you get a clear picture of what I'm dealing with) LOL.

Thanks