God I love It when this happens

[TygreBryte]

I liked "wait a month."

 

[mattg88]

You two exchanged your myspaces. . . that means you are practically married now.

lmao! funny.

damn bro, that sounds pretty badass.. update!

so whats your myspace wink lol

 

[Lewis1]

You two exchanged your myspaces. . . that means you are practically married now.

lmfao oh lord its not like dat it justs gives me a clue

 

[Lewis1]

Updates:

Today we had class he was late lol
but he sat next to me and there was hardly any convo he wa slooking cute to oh um nehoo
so i was helpin him with the the assignment today in class he also complimented me on my singing (i posted a remake of a song i did on myspace)

and so after class we were walkin and talkin about stuff i dont even remember half of it i just was glad he was talking to me lmao

so yeah he was headed to his next class and he went in i shook his hand goodbye lol

um so i started walking to the next other buildings and like 3 minutes later he comes up talkin bout he lookin for the boostore to pick sutn up for his class real quick so i walked him there and afterwards i asked him did he have yahoo or aim he said he didnt mess with those lmao

i was liek(to myself) oh shit how we gon communicate without overtly askin for your phone number haha so i told him about a site he should join and wished him luck on his test and that was it god i want him now

 

[pausanias_usa]

Updates:

oh shit how we gon communicate without overtly askin for your phone number haha

Well, duh. OVERTLY ASK FOR HIS PHONE NUMBER.

But wait a month

In all seriousness, he is attracted to you but, like you, feels he has to move slowly or appear needy. Fine. Play the game but don't leave him disappointed (he wants to know you better).

I'm a shy guy, but have learned that it's ok to be a bit aggressive when it's plain the other person is receptive. There's nothing worse than someone giving out the "come hither" signals and then looking frustrated because you didn't! You'll only realize later, of course. So ask.

 

[oracle12]

Grab him by the balls!

 

[Alberto_15]

punctuation is your friend.

Ditto and Good luck

 

[Lewis1]

Well, duh. OVERTLY ASK FOR HIS PHONE NUMBER.

But wait a month

In all seriousness, he is attracted to you but, like you, feels he has to move slowly or appear needy. Fine. Play the game but don't leave him disappointed (he wants to know you better).

I'm a shy guy, but have learned that it's ok to be a bit aggressive when it's plain the other person is receptive. There's nothing worse than someone giving out the "come hither" signals and then looking frustrated because you didn't! You'll only realize later, of course. So ask.

awwww thanks alot iam somewhat scared to pursue him but i guess i gotta face the music either way lol

Updates :

lmao @ me updatin erry five minutes

but um today ok we were in class i sat at a computer and there were 2 available seats to the right and left of me . he came in late and didnt even look at me when he came in he sat like 4 seats down from me i was upset and begining to think he is losing interest (i jump to conclusions fast i guess i just dont know what to think) so the teacher wanted us to do an assignment and so he decided to sit next to me ah it was heaven and i felt relieved so we were talking about the assignments and i was helping him but then this girl next to him gave him a good idea and it got him to writting more i was jealous and mad i didnt think of it

{i dunno whenever i start to get close to someone i always feel someone is gonna pull them away with the simplest gestures}
a
nd while he was focused on his writing i just dazed for a minute staring at him thinking about possibilities i wanted to
so we kept on typing and it was almost time to leave so we left and was walking to his next class we were talking bout his math quiz and wow i am blanking on our conversations but very mild small talk stuff and so he went in to his math class and shook hands well teh first time we shook hands this time we rubbed elbows lmao

iam getting deeper....

(sowwy bout the punctuation)

 

[nihilis]

but um today ok we were in class i sat at a computer and there were 2 available seats to the right and left of me . he came in late and didnt even look at me when he came in he sat like 4 seats down from me i was upset and begining to think he is losing interest (i jump to conclusions fast i guess i just dont know what to think)

Yeah, all those "be carefuls"? I think this is what people meant. Don't start the single white female stalker thing with someone you just met, or you'll scare the kid away even if he does like you.

{i dunno whenever i start to get close to someone i always feel someone is gonna pull them away with the simplest gestures}

You need to calm down. Nothing scares people away like an insecure freakshow. You really don't want to give him that impression do you?

and so he went in to his math class and shook hands well teh first time we shook hands this time we rubbed elbows lmao

Why are you shaking hands? That is the oddest thing I've ever heard. A simple "see you later" might work better. I know you're into the skin contact and all, but shaking hands?

(sowwy bout the punctuation)

It's not so much about the punctuation as the fact that some of us just don't speak tween.

 

[Lewis1]

Yeah, all those "be carefuls"? I think this is what people meant. Don't start the single white female stalker thing with someone you just met, or you'll scare the kid away even if he does like you.



You need to calm down. Nothing scares people away like an insecure freakshow. You really don't want to give him that impression do you?



Why are you shaking hands? That is the oddest thing I've ever heard. A simple "see you later" might work better. I know you're into the skin contact and all, but shaking hands?



It's not so much about the punctuation as the fact that some of us just don't speak tween.

Oh geeee!!! your really digging into this arent you ?
I dont know shaking hands felt right
Not the formal way of shaking hands some people have certain handshakes
but um it still felt kinda weird.
No, I do not want to give off the imrpession that I am insecure
but I am and I dont want to play it cool to my detriment.
I like this guy and i have a feeling he likes me to.
i just dont want to move to fast and scare him off
or move to slow and have him lose interest.
I alredy cannot stop thinking about him and the possibilities of whatever
so thanks for the comments i will continue to update we got class on tuesday

 

[Just_Believe18]

Man, you're reading too much into this! Listen to yourself, you're talking about empty seats and jealously if he's not sitting next to you and how you think it's a "come on" that he runs back to ask you about the bookstore.

I'm not saying don't get to know him. Just chill out before you let this get out of hand.


It's just a college class. And you've made a new friend.

 

[Lewis1]

Man, you're reading too much into this! Listen to yourself, you're talking about empty seats and jealously if he's not sitting next to you and how you think it's a "come on" that he runs back to ask you about the bookstore.

I'm not saying don't get to know him. Just chill out before you let this get out of hand.


It's just a college class. And you've made a new friend.

lol yes i know its alil bit much for this short amount of time but
alot of subtle psycholgical stuff goes on with minor gestures iam just picking them out you know how ppul say certain clues give away stuff about a person well iam looking for those clues dude lol

updates:

today we had class nothing special he sat next to me again
but after class we were both alot more relaxed in our conversation
the lil episode of infactuation i had is not there like it was in the begining i think thats because ive told myself that i need to slow things down and not jump to conclusions and just let stuff flow naturally and i feel alot more confident in being friendly with him iam not sure if that makes sense but i still cant stop thinking about him i truly hope we get to a point where we can possible admit our feelings about each other no matter what they might be i think its almost time to ask for his phone number

 

[Lewis1]

ok the month mark has come and gone and i still havent asked for his number eventhough weve gotten alot closer i still feel hesitant but i think iam gonna bit ethe bullet and ask for his number
i truly hope we can we close cause iam getting feeling for this dude

 

[Lewis1]

i guess no one cares anymore

but were begining to become a bit closer and open up to each other

although its baout that time to ask for his phone number

 

[boy0boy]

So... I don't feel like catching up by reading the other post but this is the same guy you originally liked right?

If so... you've become closer? Out of the classroom right?

 

[Lewis1]

So... I don't feel like catching up by reading the other post but this is the same guy you originally liked right?

If so... you've become closer? Out of the classroom right?

the only time weve been connecting outside is on myspace and walks outside the classroom to his other class


he didnt show up to class today lol

iam affraid to come on to him or whatever

i just dont want to ruin a friendship or the weirdness after a disapointment or whatever iam rethinking about getting closer to him its just too risky and iam not bold enough to stand the rejection

 

[boy0boy]

so other than the no response on his myspace for his sexuality..

are there any signs he's gay whatsoever? i mean obvious ones.

 

[Lewis1]

so other than the no response on his myspace for his sexuality..

are there any signs he's gay whatsoever? i mean obvious ones.

umm no there arent really except our taste in music and he just seems really easy going easy going enough to try out a gay relationship i probly wouldnt be that attracted to him if he was flamboyant or something but hes a lil soft thats what i like about him lol

 

[Lewis1]

Step back and take a breath. Yes you may like it and yes your feelings are just dancing around with excitment. But don't mistake his friendship for something else and don't look at him through gay colored glasses either. He could turn out and be a great friend to you.

yes i know blah blah lol

its hard

 

[Lewis1]

Okay, you will just have to learn the hard way........

lol i know what you said and i am taking things very slow honest