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G-Lexington

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A couple people. Hopefully fewer and fewer as the years go on.

Not me, though.

Lex
 
I am going to be honest, and I know this will put a negative image on who I am if I tell the truth; I did. I started out as homophobic str8 kid myself and now ending with bisexual leaning toward gay side more. I haven't gotten to the flaming queen or the married with children either.

I learned a lesson through this though. Life can be so complicated. I think its part of maturing and becoming wiser. I never regret though, because if I did I will never turn out to be who I am, and that is just lying to myself.

I am glad I have turned out to be who I am now and not what I started out with. Blame it on being young or naive, I still blame myself for hurting those whom I've hurted. I was just a young boy growing up and listening to what society tells you what is right and wrong. I finally realize, when I grow older, that society can be wrong.
 
Why is "flaming queen" the end of the road instead of "out gay man?"

What's this obsession with "Flamers" or "Flaming queens" and hating on obviosuly gay men? Fuck, what's the disconnect around here?
 
Why not?

we all came out.

I'm only hard on guys who aren't out yet.

Once they come out, no matter how they got there, I'll at least give them a bit of credit.

It's the losers who only have sex with men, shit-talk "flamers" and call themselves "Curious" that deserve our ire. (oh, and straight acting.. we can dump on them, too)
 
There was a time when I was 'straight' and homophobic, as much as it pains me to admit it. I hurt a lot of people with my words and my attitudes, and I turned away disgusted at anything even remotely queer. Up until about ninth grade I was adamantly opposed to homosexuality, and I both believed AIDS to be a gay disease and I can even remember conversations where I would say shit like 'People ask "what did gay people ever do to you?" -and I say "well, they brought us AIDS."' How horrible.

I was deeply contorted by ultra-conservative viewpoints, and under the influence of my radically homophobic uncle and my bigoted father. My mother was always much more accepting, and even though she did converse with me on pretty equal terms about homophobic things, I feel she developed in understanding, even if by coincidence, alongside me.

Honestly I can say I did develop my homosexuality, well, not so much that, but I cannot really remember a time when I was a kid and knew I was gay. I did not know I was straight, either. I was a sexual late-bloomer, and it was natural that when I started getting into sex it was in the socially accepted manner. But I never really 'got' pornography, and junk like that. I was pretty much asexual until I was like 16 or so... in fact, I did not ejaculate until then, either. A late puberty, but when it hit I began to be attracted to men, and, although scared, began to become the gay individual I am today.

I can even remember the moment it was solidified... it was during the musical tour of 'Fosse' when it came to the Walton Arts Center, my dad used to work there so he got us tickets (he is homophobic but a drama major with gay friends and shit, believe me, my family does get more complex, I could write volumes). At one point, two (really cute) guys clothed in as little as possible dance very, very sensually with one another. There was a gay couple, a straight couple, and a lesbian couple. Very dark, just a few spotlights, smoke and all, and a very heavy musical accompaniment. I could not stop staring at the men... it was a very distinct moment in my life where something clicked. I knew that was me, and I changed. I was no longer disgusted, I was entranced. They had a little donation for AIDS research, and I emptied my wallet, and I got my first little red ribbon. It was an absolution for all the ill will I had wrought. I left that building gay.
 
I'm gay, and basically as I hit puberty, I realised this pretty much straight away.

Weird, huh? I've always been gay, not even tried to pretend to myself I was bi... I once contemplated dating a girl just for the sake of rumours, but dropped that swiftly - it wouldn't be fair on her, and frankly I've never been the cool kid. Therefore, me not dating girls just means people assume I can't get one, not that I'm not into them.

Of course, now I'm a bit more mature, and I couldn't give a fuck what they think.

I'd like to think I'm a bit cooler, too :cool:
 
windowtopacaya said:
Honey, you still have a looooonnnnnggggggg way to go, but don´t worry you´ll get to flaming queeensville, just give yourself some time :lol:
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LOL!!!!!

I've had alot of gay family member so i've grew up without the hate omg my aunts ex g/f whoaaaaaaaaa SUPERRRRRR DYKE i think she had a bigger dick then me hahahaha :(
 
I think all that stuff about categories is useless. Who really cares?
 
Homophobic? Is that what they call it when you are afraid to come out of the closet?
 
I never once tried to deny who i was. Ever since i realized i was gay, i was just like "Oh..ok! :D" LOL
 
never been homophobic- though have been married and now divorced and now living gay life.
 
Just_Believe18 said:
Yes, as if married with children is something to laugh about.:rolleyes:
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why not? it was great to laugh at.

it was an awesomely funny show:

marriedwithchildren1.jpg
 
I was homophobic in the proper sense of the word -- afraid of gays -- for a long time. But I was just plain sexophobic for most of my life.

Right now I'm just naked and want a sweet slender buddy in my bed.
 
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