Recently i've been having trouble staying hard to fuck my boyfriend. Everything is going good and i'm hard and we are fooling around. But when i'm about to enter him, my cock goes limp. It only happens when i'm about to go in and its only started happening in the last few weeks...before that i wasnt having any problems. Does anybody know what might be happening?
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You could try using different condoms. Some fit a little better and I find a better for topping.
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lol I guess that make sense
I never realized this. I guess it takes some experimenting with different condoms :/ Haha, sometimes there were single packs
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Maybe try ones that aren't too tight if you're "big", or try thin ones that give you more sensation.
Just try to relax and keep thinking about how good it feels and visualize what's going on down there
Just try to relax and keep thinking about how good it feels and visualize what's going on down there
I appreciate the advice, but we're not using condoms.
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Performance anxiety, most likely. It's a horrible, self-perpetuating cycle. You lose your boner once, then the next time, you start worrying about whether you're going to lose it again -- so much so, that you actually stop focusing on what's making you feel sexy and therefore start to lose it. Then the fact that you're starting to lose it just confirms that you were justified in feeling that anxiety in the first place.
Anxiety's like one of those Chinese finger trap things -- the harder you try to pull your fingers apart, the harder they grip. Only way out is to learn to relax by focusing on the moment instead of that anxious broken-record of "oh no!" you're playing in your head.
Anxiety's like one of those Chinese finger trap things -- the harder you try to pull your fingers apart, the harder they grip. Only way out is to learn to relax by focusing on the moment instead of that anxious broken-record of "oh no!" you're playing in your head.