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Going To A Gay Club, What Should I Expect?

Mr-Brooding

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Hi, you guys!
I've never gone to a gay club before, and I've only gone to one party in my whole life. Because of this, I have no idea what to expect the first time I go to one. I'm only 18, so I won't be able to get into the ones for older people (21 and over). Is there anything I should cautious of? Is there any club etiquette I should know of? Do you enjoy the club scene, why or why not?
 
Well, the question is a bit like asking "I'm going to a restaurant for the first time - what can I expect?" Because you can get anything from a crappy diner to a five-star dining experience - it'll depend mainly on the club, and (less) on the specific date/time you go.

If it's an 18+ club, chances are it'll be more casual and fun. No rumpy-pumpy in the bathroom or anything like that. Just expect loud dance music and fairly expensive drinks. Find other solos, or small groups, work up your courage, and go say hi. :)

Lex
 
Don't expect to be respected if you don't wear homemade jewelry made out of macaroni, nylon and nail polish.
 
Presumably you won't be drinking. If you will, go VERY easy on the alcohol. Get a mixed drink, and sip it slow. Alternate with something non-alcoholic.

Do some people-watching. Look for other people who look to be alone. Those are your best bets. Go over, say hi, introduce yourself. If there's dancing, ask them to dance if you want to. Or just ask some simple questions. "I've never been here before - is it always this crowded?" "What are you drinking?" "I like your shirt." Keep the conversation going. If he doesn't seem interested at all, thank him for his time, and move on to the next one. :)

Lex
 
Like Lex said, it depends heavily on the club. Perhaps you could tell us which club you're going to, or if you're uncomfortable with that do some research beforehand. Go to the club's website to see if there's anything on, check out their listing on Google Maps and just do a search and see what comes up. :)
 
stay out of the bathrooms and back alleys.....monsters are there....hopefully...
 
You have a more insecure time going with me to the Brass Mug Bar & Grill to watch Rotting Christ, morbid angel or Deicide. it will be cool its just all new to you. Nothing happens at a gay bar that allows 18 yr old people into that doesn't happen at any other club
 
Gay people.

I hear they're all over the place.
 
FPNY said:
stay out of the bathrooms and back alleys.....monsters are there....hopefully...
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Last time I was there, someguy put his hands down my pants... It was upsetting... I haven't gone back lol
 
well, all i have to say is be prepared to have people unintentionally pushing themselves on you when they walk passed you.

but yeah, be cool. if i were you, i would go with somebody you know and trust to be on the safe side. don't leave your drink around either.

other than that, just be cool. it'll be nervewracking but you'll get through it.
 
^Seems like the people either love it or hate it.

So it's a gay club alright. :p
 
If you can go with a friend, you'll atract the type depending on how your dressed, sexy, punk, or trying to fit in, expect to dance, try to make eye contact, if you see someone who you are atracted to.
 
GiancarloC said:
Not all gay clubs are the same... and yes often on reviews people will either love or hate the club. There usually is no in between.

http://www.yelp.com/biz/circus-disco-los-angeles-2

This is one of my favorites... some call it ghetto... one night a week it's not gay though. But it mostly is considered a gay club. It's neighbor Arena (owned by the same owner as circus) is gay on saturday (but not friday lol).

http://www.yelp.com/biz/arena-los-angeles#query:Arena Club

(This one has even more mixed reviews)

It just depends on the one you're going. Circus/Arena is definitely a latino venue.

Some people really can't stand the place... it just depends on the atmosphere for me. Some on here will make very general statements about gay clubs... but I doubt they've done much clubbing.
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Thanks, this helped a lot!

jmadaf said:
If you can go with a friend, you'll atract the type depending on how your dressed, sexy, punk, or trying to fit in, expect to dance, try to make eye contact, if you see someone who you are atracted to.
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Now I'm nervous about what to wear AND what my friends wear! :eek: Great advice though!

Just_Believe18 said:
There will be gays... everywhere.
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Oh no! Not the gays! Last time I checked, being gay was "unnatural and destructive to civilization!" -Kirk Cameron

That's actually what I want though! I only have one semi0gay friend and she's a lesbian...
 
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