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Good friend's changing attitude?

I think the whole growing apart is the natural explanation at this point.

I'm gonna see if he tries anything in the coming week.
 
I had a couple of best friends and sadly I've all drifted apart from them. I wish we could have still been best friends, but we're all doing separate things now and a few moved away.

Although one of my friends who is a girl comes over every now and then. She has been my friend since we were in preschool. But her having a boyfriend and me moving away kind of made us drift apart. Though, every time I see her, it's like nothing has changed. I love that about her.

So I guess you just have to give your friends space, and if you miss them, call them, talk to them. They'll come to you if they miss you too.
 
yeah screw nutty you helped me get over my best friend i gave him so much space two weeks later he was looking for me and i kept ignoring him until one day he came to my house and we made up :P

But im careful about my emotions around him i told him that from now on tell me everything he doesnt like about me and ive been learning so much about myself that is making me change into a better person.Yeah it hurts to hear painful things from him like he said one day "Sometimes i say to myself i cant hang with you anymore" and it hurts but at least i know hes there.

Just give your best bud time and space let him miss you . If you truly love him let him go and if he loves you in retrun he will come back.I bet hell be calling you later on just forget about him for now
 
screwnutty said:
I'm sorry but if they were both really good friends then our friend here deserves an answer...even if that answer is "fuck off will you I can't stand it that your gay anymore." Saves alot of time worrying about the "what did I do to him?" regrets
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Friends drift. It's natural.

Although I do agree with "he deserves an answer", it may just be that they're seeing too much of each other. Maybe he's become introverted and needs less time with some people (ie, the OP). Or, it could be he's just drifting off, in which case, I would just say accept it as it is and move on. In any case, I think it's agreed that the person needs his space and it's in the best interest of the OP to leave the person alone for a while.

I didn't read any of the other responses here, so sorry if I repeated anything said before me.
 
To me it doesn't sound just like friends drifting apart. When friends drift apart, they just start having less in common and seeing each other as often. When they are together, they typically are glad to see each other and still have a friendly conversations. In this case, it appears that the friend is being intentionally distance and cold, which to me indicates there is some type of issue. I go more with someone is influencing with anti-gay BS or he is struggling with his own sexuality. I do however think it would be good to distant yourself and see if he takes any type of positive action to reestablish the relationship.
 
Interesting thing happened last night. I was out with a buddy last night and he called me when I wasn't home, asking to hang out next week.

I think we'll definately be having a serious talk sooner than I expected.
 
sometimes people just grow apart from each other. Thats life.
 
Hey guys. Here's an update AND a conclusion.

I ended up having to go to his place last night due to circumstances. Anyway, I got him by surprise. He was really happy to see me and kept hugging me.

We had a long talk about the last year, and I really felt I had him back. I could talk about gay stuff and he wouldn't flinch anymore.

I guess it was just a question of reconnecting after his last year overseas. He's still under pressure here from studies and his girlfriend, but I think last night got us back on the right track.

Granted some of it might have been fueled by my own fears and paranoia due to his uncooperativeness the past two weeks, but it looks like it's settled.

Thanks for listening :)
 
lol congrat on the conclusion. I wouldn't let go of afriend for the reason unknown lol
 
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