Got asked out on a"bro" date

[alley]

A guy that I met at my apartments pool asked me to go to another movie with him.
He's kinda cute but not really the type of guy I am attracted to---we have discussed my coming out stories and he seems cool that I am gay--he did let me know that, quote "I am not into that myself"-----which was kinda funny. It has been nice to be able to hang out with someone with a similar type of schedule that I have been on. He has been flirtatious---he came up to the pool the other day while I was reading and told me that I had very nice feet and then ran a finger up the sole of one, which was very surprising. And then after getting some sun for a half hour or so he got up and said he was going in but before he left he reached down and tickled my foot again---not something I remember guys ever doing when they thought I was straight.

 

[kevbo]

Maybe he's just not into coming out, rather than not into being gay...

 

[gmoney]

Could he be "bi-curious"? Inquiring minds wanna know!

 

[sabot3ur]

I like to call those mandates.

yet another "straight or not" mystery hahaha, but the feet thing seems suspect!

 

[alley]

His birthday was last week ---I took him to Kung Fu Panda---he is almost the same age as I---he just turned 39, I did think he was a bit younger.

 

[alley]

Ok--he just called and we are going to a movie tomorrow at 5pm---

 

[senorserio]

I cannot remember a single time I have ever seen a str8 guy play with another guy's feet like you described. There's more than meets the eye here, I am sure......

 

[alley]

Some have been blessed with a pretty face, a tight ass, or great abs---I have pretty feet.

 

[12fear99]

Wow, sound like this guy is into you but does not know how to approach you for sure. At least you will be good friends. Do really enjoy being with him even though he is not your type? Good luck and see where it goes.

 

[josher]

As they say, denial is not just a river in Egypt.

 

[Joshua_me]

he came up to the pool the other day while I was reading and told me that I had very nice feet and then ran a finger up the sole of one, which was very surprising. And then after getting some sun for a half hour or so he got up and said he was going in but before he left he reached down and tickled my foot again

Mmm hmmm.... *triple snap*

NOT the actions of a straight guy, if you ask me....

I suspect after the movie you might just get to check out his raisinettes...

 

[alley]

Raisinettes? I was hoping for a footlong.

Really and truly I am needing someone to hang out with more than to convert a straight guy sitting on the fence, while fun sounding I think a bit of drama may be a hazard of the act. So how much beer do you think it would take?

 

[Just_Believe18]

If he's touchy feely with you, suggest a massage. Ask if he'd like a back or FOOT massage, haha. Seriously though, he's made the move that he's comfortable with physical contact. See how he responds if you give him a massage. Doesn't have to be sexual, just wait to see what his next move is afterwards.

But that's just a side-note. Enjoy his company for what it is. He sounds like a nice guy.

 

[Joshua_me]

. So how much beer do you think it would take?

Heh.

I love it.

A few creamy heads often leads to a couple more, darlin'.

Just don't let your dick hurt your heart, if you know what I'm sayin'.

 

[alley]

A little taste.

 

[alley]

Don't want to start a feeding frenzy or anything---but he did answer the door wearing boxer briefs the day we went out to the first movie---and told me any time I want to go swim in the middle of the night at the apartment pool he could get me in, just knock on his door---lolol

 

[springboksfan]

Just enjoy the friendship.

If he wants more, he'll let you know in a rather obvious fashion, one would think.

But Kung Fu Panda? Are you mad?

 

[Tadaa]

Awww, a bromance... I have mixed emotions about straight guys that pull this kind of sh*t. Since he already said he wasn't into that kind of stuff, I'd make him spell it out for you, CLEARLY. No Ifs, Ands or Butts!!!

 

[D-Base]

Maybe he's just not into coming out, rather than not into being gay...

I agree. That's how it looks like to me.

 

[alley]

Ok---we went to the movie, sorry to burst any bubbles, but he is not someone I'll be spending a lot of time with. I thought maybe he had ADD or something because when he talks he is all over the place---never finishes a thought before going on to the next one---nope----he's a crack head. Apparently before we went to the movie he spent some time with a couple at the pool who shared some with him and he was tweaking still when we left for the movie---if I had known before.....well, he would not been driving me anywhere. So, he is no longer known as cute pool guy---he's just the crack head.