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Got his number..... Now what???

Xavier_Shardae

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Hi, this is my very first post so yay. Anyways, I had been playing eye-tag with a guy for a couple of weeks now and I finally got the courage to ask him out. He said yes (W00T!) and gave me his number today, but now I dunno what to do! I've never been so forward with someone before, let alone be the date setter. When should I call, when should the date be, and where? Please help!....
 
Welcome to JUB - its great to have you here

I think you've accomplished to hard part as in letting him know you're interested and asking for a phone number. Now that you have it I'd give it a day or two and then call him. Suggest a coffee date some evening and take it from there. Make sure he has you're number so he can call you

Good luck and let us know how it goes
 
You asked him out.

He said yes and gave you his number.

What is the problem?

Usually when I ask someone out I am specific like "want to go the movie on Friday" but since you weren't specific, call him sooner rather than later, don't waste any more time, and plan your date.

I am sure he is about to post that he gave his number to a guy who never called him...

Get off the internet and call him!
 
Well, that's up to you. In general, people prefer dates on the weekends, when they don't have to worry about work the next morning. Do you know if he has a standard schedule? Next weekend might be a decent time to aim for.

As for the date. Do you know anything about him? His likes and dislikes? He might be of the "let's go to your place for pizza and sex" variety, but that's something you'd have to sort of feel out. :) So assume not until you find out otherwise. Do you know if he'd like (say) a movie, a sporting event, to go clubbing? Call him up Monday and say, "Hey, this is Xavier. You gave me your number last weekend. I was looking to go out Friday night - quick dinner, then to the clubs. You have any interest in that?" Remember that (a) he may be busy that night, so prepare to reschedule, and (b) he might not be too crazy about whatever activity you suggest, so sound open to suggestions. "Well, I'm not married to the idea of going to the clubs. Is there something else you might want to do?" (Obviously, if he mentions sex at this point, go for it.)

Lex
 
Should I call him and ask if he wants to do something tonight, or tomorrow? Seriously, I've never really been on a date before so I'm kinda in the dark here....
 
I'd say it depends on how busy you both are (or both seem to be), and how far ahead you like to plan. I'm more of a "let's do something next weekend" sort of person - I have to get up really early when I work - but if you don't have any trouble heading out any night of the week, there's no harm in finding out when he's available. Should you call him now? Sure, if you'd like, but it IS Saturday night and he might be out and about already. Sunday around noonish might be easier.

Lex
 
Ok, I'll chill and call later. I'm hoping to go to a cafe or a restaurant (im a novice when it comes to the club scene) but should we meet there or I pick him up at his place?... (I feel like I'm in high school again....)
 
Ordinarily, I'd say meet him there. If you know he doesn't have a car and/or it's going to be difficult for him to get there, sure, offer him a ride. But it'd be best if you chose a place you could both get to easily and conveniently.

Lex
 
hey welcome to JUB

you have done the first important step and that is having the nerves to ask him out because that is a very big step to take because there is a fear of rejection and being letdown but am so glad you asked and he said yes and now everything should be alright just pick a simple little date not nothing real big and on the date see how you 2 contact and bond and get to no each other see how much magic there is and if things go good go on another one I hope things go nice
 
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