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Got hit on?

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There is a guy that hits on me through whole class.I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend.I don't know what to do.This guy, the one that hits on me is kind a handsome and attractive.But i really love my boyfriend and i don't want upset him about it.Any advices.
 
It seems pretty simple to me, If him hitting on you bothers you simply tell him you're taken or give him hints you're not interested. If you are, interested that is, make sure you know what you'd be losing (your boyfriend) and if that's what you really want, AND if that is what you really want tell your boyfriend this is the end of the road and don't cheat.

PS: I'm sorry if i sound like a mother lol
 
Tell the guy that you have a boy friend and that maybe he will find a guy that is in love with him someday
 
"You know, it's really flattering you'd say these things, but I'm already seeing somebody else now. Thanks, though." If he persists, try once more. "Seriously, I'm with somebody else. I'm not interested." After that, if it continues, sit somewhere else.

Lex
 
Casually let him know you have a boyfriend and aren't interested.

For example.
You two are in class talking about [subject matter].

Him: Hey! Did you hear the new thing about [subject matter].
You: Oh yeah! My boyfriend was telling me about [subject matter] last night. He thinks that [subject matter] is only going to get better now!
Him: I think so too. I'm looking for to more improvements regarding [subject matter].
You: Tell me about it. My boyfriend and I might go see that new movie, I hear it deals a little bit about [subject matter].
(By now he should be getting the hint.)
Him: That sounds cool. Will you guys see it opening weekend?
You: Naw, we don't like to go to crowded theaters. We've been dating for a while, so there is no rush to see it right away.

And so forth...
 
There is a guy that hits on me through whole class.I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend.I don't know what to do.This guy, the one that hits on me is kind a handsome and attractive.But i really love my boyfriend and i don't want upset him about it.Any advices.


The easy part: "I have a partner"

The hard part: Why are you having such a hard time telling a "handsome and attractive" guy that you're in a relationship?
 
Just because someone may be "enamored" of You, doesn't mean that You have any "obligation" to Them! To put it quite bluntly ... that is Their "problem"! :cool:

However, that does not mean You need to be rude, or mean, in letting them know that ... "Thanks! I do appreciate Your attention/interest, but I'm already taken!" [-X

It is always nice, however, to know that You are "appreciated" above/beyond/outside Your "official" relationship! That also enhances the fact that Your Boyfriend is One Lucky Guy!! ..|

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Good advice here.

Try to remember 'the hittin' on part' by a hot and handsome dude... . This does not happen all too often and this may be a memory to treasure and not a problem to worry about.

SC
 
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