Great for anal!

[chicagobtm]

Anyone ever try a female condom (Reality Female Condom in U.S., Femidom in Europe) for anal sex?
I did once so far and actually liked it. It's like a large condom but there is a small plastic ring on the side you insert to keep it from pulling out and a large plastic ring on the outside to keep it from slipping in and easy to use. The top doesn't need to wear a rubber as he's inside the "bag" and it's not latex, so any type of lube will work. It honestly made it easier for me to let him slide inside of me because any friction was against the condom, not against my anus, and i had 100% certainty that I wouldn't make a "mess" from not being completely cleaned out.
I bought mine on Amazon.com and they came very discreetly packaged. i think they're great for when you're worried you're not clean...or if you want to have control over the safe sex rather than relying on the top to use a condom properly. I suppose you could always pop one in before a night out!

 

[luminum]

They're supposed to be pretty good, the only draw backs seem to be largely aesthetic. Like, people having issues having the ring hanging out of them.

But if it works, I'm all for them.

 

[Smitho]

I suppose you could always pop one in before a night out!

Be Prepared! Thats my moto to.

But what happens if you don't pull, it would be very sad coming home alone, just you and the Femidon.

 

[luminum]

Be Prepared! Thats my moto to.

But what happens if you don't pull, it would be very sad coming home alone, just you and the Femidon.

...That's so sad...

 

[chicagobtm]

funny! but yes, i do recommend them for anytime that:
*you don't trust the top to use a condom correctly
*the top is too big for a condom you have
*the top doesn't want to wear a condom
*you are worried about "cleanliness"
*and i suppose if you want multiple partners in one session you can keep using the same one.
*oh, and if the top has trouble keeping a condom on because he goes a little soft or you take a break or two while love making, it just stays inside, waiting for him to slide in and bring you to heaven!
i wouldn't flush one as they seem a bit big, but i wrapped it in toilet paper and put it in the waste basket.
i want to use more and i'll report back, but i really liked the first time, especially having NO worries that things could get "messy" even though i've never had a problem with that.

 

[luminum]

No, but it may draw the ring back up.

 

[chicagobtm]

don't know if i'd actually ever go out with on inside "just in case" but it only took a few seconds to put it in before we started the heavy petting. it was a bit of a challenge to get in, but next time i will know how to do it.
pinch the small ring so it's kind of egg shaped rather than a circle, slip it in the put your finger inside the "bag" to push it in and get it in a comfortable place.
i suppose if a top wanted to "seed" you he could push the outer ring aside and slide in, but i'm pretty sure you could easily tell the difference.
can you tell i've been thinking about these things for a long time? a new toy for me!

 

[chicagobtm]

Yep, it's true! And guess what my boyfriend is getting for Christmas? A box of 5 that I bought on Amazon! Came in the mail today. Can't wait to have one in before he comes home from work so I'm ready for action whenever he's ready. He's gonna love it!

 

[SilverRRCloud]

funny! but yes, i do recommend them for anytime that:
*and i suppose if you want multiple partners in one session you can keep using the same one.

Nope on that one. Tops are guys, too. Sharing the same condom exponentialy increases the risk that one or more of your 'multiple tops' might be sticking his dick into an unsavory mix of nasty bugs that previous tops might have deposited either through their precum or through their sperm.

So, nope. If femidom works for you, and you feel comfortable with it, use it. Be also aware of the fact that it was NOT manufactured for m2m sex specifically, so some risks, as always do apply. But, protect your partner(s), too.

SC

 

[Christopher123]

Okay, I'll bite and play the ignorant one; but what is a female condom?

 

[chicagobtm]

i would never really have multiple partners in one "session" - that's not my thing, so there's no risk of my man catching anything from fucking my ass with a condom or femidom. but as a bottom, i believe it would keep me safe from any bodily fluids escaping inside of me even if I did have multiple partners. like you said, though, for the tops it would be a risk, but i'm not sure how much something like HIV enters through the head of the penis...

 

[chicagobtm]

It's like a large condom but there is a small plastic ring on the side you insert to keep it from pulling out and a large plastic ring on the outside to keep it from slipping in and easy to use. The top doesn't need to wear a rubber as he's inside the "bag" and it's not latex, so any type of lube will work.
It's designed for females to have inside their vagina, but I tried it anally and loved it, and so did my boyfriend.
http://www.ripnroll.com/femalecondoms.htm

 

[dexyboi86]

Yanno...I never thought of this. It seems perfectly feasible.
Would anyone be willing to call the manufacturer and asking about m2m usage? I am sure they would not reccomend it...well, why not? But I would still be curious as to what they would have to say.

 

[dexyboi86]

Would anyone be willing to call the manufacturer and asking about m2m usage?

Answered my own question. This is from the Avert website:

Some people use the female condom for anal sex. Although it can work effectively, it is difficult to use and can be painful. There is also the risk of rectal bleeding which increases the risk of contracting HIV. So it's better to use the male condom for anal sex with plenty of lubricant NOT containing Nonoxynol 9.

Difficult and painful and rectal bleeding? We gay guys are well aware of SOP for anal sex. And HIV? not if he stays in the femidom!!

 

[DiaryOfAMadman]

All this talk about plastic rings hanging out of an anus put only one thought in my mind..............

"One Ring to Rule them all, One ring to find them, and in the darkness bind them"........... LoL Sorry that was my Clerks 2 moment of the day.

 

[condor221]

wow, learn something new everyday. Now if it just wasn't for the damn fissure I just got...........

 

[tomind]

Very interesting to say the least.

 

[chicagobtm]

i didn't have any bleeding. the rings (especially the smaller inner ring) are totally flexible and i just squeezed it down to about the size of two pencils together to slide it inside. and like i said earlier, it made it easier for him to slide inside of me as any friction was against the plastic, not my skin or anus. might even make it easier to deal with your fisure, too!
i read about pain from the inner ring, but had none. still, you are able to remove the inner ring if you choose. he could slide the femidom over his cock and push it inside of you that way. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!