canadianguy91
On the Prowl
Here's the story: This guy messaged me on grindr a few days ago, sent a few messages. Didn't think much of it. Didn't reply since there was nothing else to say. He messaged me again the next day and we talked a little more. He lives an hour away but was going to a party in my city. He suggested we go out for coffee before, but I said I was at the zoo all day and if I wasn't busy I would. He was cool with it and said another time so I gave him my number and we started texting. I was at the zoo so he didnt text me the whole time I was there, when I was leaving he texts me "how's the zoo babe" Why'd he call me babe after 2 days of talking? (Playing me?)
Oh well we get along and texted on my way home, and I suggest to meet since he's in my city anyways. He seems really eager. We talked about everything from school to family, etc. Flirted quite a bit. I think he's really attractive and he thinks Im cute.
So we meet, and I was really nervous before he came, but 2 minutes in I was so relaxed and was fine. We walked my dog, and maybe 2 minutes in we stopped and kissed. (We discussed it before that I wanted to kiss him to see how it is to kiss someone with a tognue ring in) Felt amazing. Hes 6'1 and i'm 5'5 so I was on my tippy toes. He didnt have a problem with the height though, he said it was sooo cute.
Anyways, we walked more, talked, held hands, kissed some more. We passed the street I should turn down to go back to my house but he said he wanted to walk more, so we did. I did too. We stopped every minute or so and made out. Then we just stopped under a tree and made out for a while. It was so good. Passionate and he kisses aggressively, just the way I like it. We both got a little worked up and were feeling each other up, one thing led to the next..
Usually i'm not so easy but we were both turned on. He has quite a few piercings and tattoos and he knew I found them sexy. I lifted his shirt up and kissed his nipples/ sucked on them. He moaned. He lifted my shirt up and felt my abs. He thought they were hot. We kissed more and then his friend started calling him telling him to be at the party. He just ignored her texts and said this was more fun and he was having a good time. A while later I said I should probably head home and he should get to his party. We walked to my house and held hands. It was a Saturday night and lots of parties, and we even held hand past these straight college guys in a driveway. He's not out, but since it was a different city he was fine with it. It didnt phase him at all. He stroked my hand while we held hands, like not just holding hands, but rubbing his thumb on my hand too. I also did. We kissed goodnight and he finished with a pec on the kips. So soft. He said he wanted to see me again and I said maybe. The whole time we were walking he would look over and smile.
He texted me ten minutes later and said I was so cute. We texted a few times, and I said go enjoy the party. He said he didnt want to stop talking to me. (Truth is, I didnt either but I was trying to be irriststable haha) So we texted all night and a few hours later I said goodnight. I got a text from him in the morning (I'll attach it so you can see) and the we texted all day. He also texted me and said we should have a real date and make dinner and cuddle. He said he loves cuddling and always brings it up saying "come cuddle with me"
Sorry for the long story, I wanted to include all points so you could understand better. If you read it all- thanks!!
So, My question is- Is he playing me? He said hes been with quite a lot of guys before, but now hes more looking for a relationship. I feel like he's being honest, but this has happened to me before and the guy was just playing me, so now I'm more careful.
I really like him. I know we've only known each other for a few days, but you don't choose the feelings inside. He texted me saying he couldn't believe he liked someone after just meeting. We are both on the same wave length because I ask questions and am honest. We have a few things in common, but for the most part are really different- and its refreshing! We decided we'll see each other on Tuesday. (We saw each other on Saturday night) We're both eager, so Im not going to be fake and play hard to get. I like that he sint either. I know when we hang out or whatever we do, Im not giving in this time, i'm going to wait a while before we have actual sex just to see what his intentions are. I guess this is more of me talking about my situation and seeing what you all have to say. Constructive criticism is always appreciated! I have a thick skin, I can handle it haha.
Oh well we get along and texted on my way home, and I suggest to meet since he's in my city anyways. He seems really eager. We talked about everything from school to family, etc. Flirted quite a bit. I think he's really attractive and he thinks Im cute.
So we meet, and I was really nervous before he came, but 2 minutes in I was so relaxed and was fine. We walked my dog, and maybe 2 minutes in we stopped and kissed. (We discussed it before that I wanted to kiss him to see how it is to kiss someone with a tognue ring in) Felt amazing. Hes 6'1 and i'm 5'5 so I was on my tippy toes. He didnt have a problem with the height though, he said it was sooo cute.
Anyways, we walked more, talked, held hands, kissed some more. We passed the street I should turn down to go back to my house but he said he wanted to walk more, so we did. I did too. We stopped every minute or so and made out. Then we just stopped under a tree and made out for a while. It was so good. Passionate and he kisses aggressively, just the way I like it. We both got a little worked up and were feeling each other up, one thing led to the next..
Usually i'm not so easy but we were both turned on. He has quite a few piercings and tattoos and he knew I found them sexy. I lifted his shirt up and kissed his nipples/ sucked on them. He moaned. He lifted my shirt up and felt my abs. He thought they were hot. We kissed more and then his friend started calling him telling him to be at the party. He just ignored her texts and said this was more fun and he was having a good time. A while later I said I should probably head home and he should get to his party. We walked to my house and held hands. It was a Saturday night and lots of parties, and we even held hand past these straight college guys in a driveway. He's not out, but since it was a different city he was fine with it. It didnt phase him at all. He stroked my hand while we held hands, like not just holding hands, but rubbing his thumb on my hand too. I also did. We kissed goodnight and he finished with a pec on the kips. So soft. He said he wanted to see me again and I said maybe. The whole time we were walking he would look over and smile.
He texted me ten minutes later and said I was so cute. We texted a few times, and I said go enjoy the party. He said he didnt want to stop talking to me. (Truth is, I didnt either but I was trying to be irriststable haha) So we texted all night and a few hours later I said goodnight. I got a text from him in the morning (I'll attach it so you can see) and the we texted all day. He also texted me and said we should have a real date and make dinner and cuddle. He said he loves cuddling and always brings it up saying "come cuddle with me"
Sorry for the long story, I wanted to include all points so you could understand better. If you read it all- thanks!!
So, My question is- Is he playing me? He said hes been with quite a lot of guys before, but now hes more looking for a relationship. I feel like he's being honest, but this has happened to me before and the guy was just playing me, so now I'm more careful.
I really like him. I know we've only known each other for a few days, but you don't choose the feelings inside. He texted me saying he couldn't believe he liked someone after just meeting. We are both on the same wave length because I ask questions and am honest. We have a few things in common, but for the most part are really different- and its refreshing! We decided we'll see each other on Tuesday. (We saw each other on Saturday night) We're both eager, so Im not going to be fake and play hard to get. I like that he sint either. I know when we hang out or whatever we do, Im not giving in this time, i'm going to wait a while before we have actual sex just to see what his intentions are. I guess this is more of me talking about my situation and seeing what you all have to say.
Constructive criticism is always appreciated! I have a thick skin, I can handle it haha.
