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Does anyone have any experience with them/have opinions on them? Just curious, I've never been in one.

Whenever I think about it, a relationship between three people sounds kinda odd- one person would be left out of makeout sessions, and it'd be kinda weird to give heart to hearts to two people at the same time. Not to mention finding a third person the two initial people both love. But I've always thought it would be interesting to sort of have a couple relationship- like, there are two couples, and each couple constitutes one 'boyfriend unit' of the relationship. So the two couples go out on dates, have sex (with all four people usually present, unless otherwise is allowed), etc, but you still have the two base couples to work off of.
At the very least, if someone wanted a group relationship, it would seem that an even number of people would be optimal.
Your thoughts/experiences?
 
Sounds Great!

Why be nagged for my lack of attention span by just ONE fucking bitch when the whole world can chime in...

It takes a village to give me a hard-on...
 
I'm in one and it's been great so far. All three of us have been really close, im *kinda* the 'third wheel' in the fact that i joined later but im not bothered at all. Its really cute watching them make out. We all find it hot if two of us just have sex and we obviously have threesomes too. Ive had sex with them both and seperately for literaly hours so they much enjoy it lol. I never get jealous and neither do they. One of the guys works A LOT so its nice that im there when hes not and vice versa. I love them both, they both rock my world.
 
ixthrock said:
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It takes a village to give me a hard-on...
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and a city to get you off!

to the OP ... although i fantasize and *|* to porn about group sex, intimacy ... whatever

i'm a monogamous person when it comes to the "relationship" ... which includes sex, so .... i've never actually done it

hottTTT idea, though
 
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Yeah, no offense, OP. I was only trying to sum up my "thoughts, experiences..."

Sure, I fantasize about a sandwich with "dem Duke Boys," and have been involved in numerous group sex scenes - all very hot.

I've had friends of both genders take things a step further, and I suppose they may have been a little more enlightened/emotionally stable than I am, but neither seemed to work out in the long run.

Then there's the "open relationship." I've only got so many hours in the day - if I'm not using my spare time nurturing the side of my bread that's buttered - i.e, my primary support relationship - then what sort of support will I deserve when I need it the most?
 
I've watched Sister Wives, does that count?


;)
 
Aguy666 said:
Does anyone have any experience with them/have opinions on them? Just curious, I've never been in one.

Whenever I think about it, a relationship between three people sounds kinda odd- one person would be left out of makeout sessions, and it'd be kinda weird to give heart to hearts to two people at the same time. Not to mention finding a third person the two initial people both love. But I've always thought it would be interesting to sort of have a couple relationship- like, there are two couples, and each couple constitutes one 'boyfriend unit' of the relationship. So the two couples go out on dates, have sex (with all four people usually present, unless otherwise is allowed), etc, but you still have the two base couples to work off of.
At the very least, if someone wanted a group relationship, it would seem that an even number of people would be optimal.
Your thoughts/experiences?
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I can understand open relationships to an extent, but personally the idea of having a simultaneous relationship with more than one person seems weird.
 
I would only do it if my partners twin brother agreed. But then again 3-somes suck and I'm not a fan of his brothers..
 
Join me now as we set out to enjoy the commanding heights of my equine mount.

So many people I've met aren't even capable of getting one relationship right. I think it's a logistical nightmare. Sometimes a hot fantasy, but a logistical nightmare.

Also, at least as far as I can see, I think it would be far easier and more stable for two close couples to share the occasional naughty evening than to sustain a multi-person, on-going, relationship.
 
Sociologically speaking a dyad is the most volatile of all relationships.


That being said, I would never pursue this type of relationship. Something about it just seems wrong to me..
 
The concept is something I find rather intriguing to be honest...

Though I doubt I would ever find myself in one, or even with someone, who wanted to consider such a thing...

And here comes the amateur evolutionary biologist in me; the idea of monogamy is by itself a strange one, even in couples which aren't capable of producing offspring.

Given the desire to 'sow wild oats', it may very well be better for a couple who love each other to find a means to allow themselves to act on these desires, but still be able to be with each other.

Granted, the concept sounds strange. If you loved someone, you wouldn't want to be with someone else...and all the other arguments that exist against the idea of treading outside of the bonds of a relationship...

Yet, I think there may be something to the idea of being able to have an addition, either temporary or permanent, to a relationship.

Again, I'd likely never find myself in the situation, but I can certainly understand the thought process behind it.
 
SuperDave said:
I'm in one and it's been great so far. All three of us have been really close, im *kinda* the 'third wheel' in the fact that i joined later but im not bothered at all. Its really cute watching them make out. We all find it hot if two of us just have sex and we obviously have threesomes too. Ive had sex with them both and seperately for literaly hours so they much enjoy it lol. I never get jealous and neither do they. One of the guys works A LOT so its nice that im there when hes not and vice versa. I love them both, they both rock my world.
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This is one of the best posts I've read in days! ..|

Thanks for sharing your personal story.

I've always wanted a Triad relationship, but I've "settled" for an open one and we both often have had a third join us but not permanently yet, alas.
 
I can do monogamous and poly-amorous relationships. Who said you can only fall in love once? If you and your partner are open to it, get the third guy or gal.
 
I've had threesomes (before getting engaged) that were hot but they did not progress to relationships. Last summer seemed to be a lot of "thrupling" in DC; several of our friends were in them. Only problem was that as winter came, it seems many of the thruples became couples and the old went out with the new (two are now engaged to be married with the oldest couple split and the newcomer marrying one).

We've gotten together with another couple and it was really hot watching someone else having sex while I was having sex with my hubby....kind of like a 3D porn movie...lol!
 
SuperDave said:
I'm in one and it's been great so far. All three of us have been really close, im *kinda* the 'third wheel' in the fact that i joined later but im not bothered at all. Its really cute watching them make out. We all find it hot if two of us just have sex and we obviously have threesomes too. Ive had sex with them both and seperately for literaly hours so they much enjoy it lol. I never get jealous and neither do they. One of the guys works A LOT so its nice that im there when hes not and vice versa. I love them both, they both rock my world.
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Sounds hot! I see from your profile you are young , how about the ages of your 'friends' ?
 
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