Group sex strange experience.... for me!

[WetDan]

Hi,

I really need to get this experience off my chest and get advise, basically ive been with my partner for a while now and the sex was fantastic, hes alomst double my age and im only 18/19.

Over the last few weeks ive been asking my boyfriend to try fisting me, he was getting close and it was going well until last weekend. We went out of the night and ended up in a club called Vibes, i got pretty drunk, and according to my mate i was begging my boyfriend to fuck me in the toilet. I honestly cant remember any of this. My boyfriend met up with some mates he knew they were in there late 40s and pretty large men. All 6 of us (me, my boyfriend my friend and the 3 men) went back to my boy friends place. By the time we had got back i had started to sober up.

My boy friend started drinking games which were pretty fun, however one of the men called colin was really pervy and kept comming over to me and asking for a shag, he would then stair at me and lick his lips. I was disgusted, i explained to my boy friend and he said colin was just joking around.

As the night went on my boy friend asked how i would feel about group sex, i was unsure but i like to give everything a try, so i agreed it would be something id try. We carried on drinking more and all went to the bedroom. I couldnt see my mate, just me my boyfriend and the three men. My boy friend asked me to strip off, so i did because i love and respect him. I laid down on the bed, colin came over and said omg this is gonna be awesome, I just felt slightly sick. the three men stripped down to there boxers and so did my boyfriend. I was in the middle on the bed and the three men around me. My boyfriend was kissing one of the men. I saw and became even more unsure. Colin grabbed my penis and went to put it in his mouth, i pulled back and moved away.

My boyfriend whispered in my ear, "i love you", it kind of reassured me.

I went to the kitchen for a drink and saw a bottle of vodka, i drank half the bottle and returned to the room, feeling out of it, i can slightly remember my boyfriend getting out some bondage gear and handcuffing my hands to the top posts of the bed. I also remember my friend returning to the room and he grabbed a chair and watched. The next thing i remember was talking to colin about fisting then one of the other men getting out this huge penis and putting it in my mouth. The other man began putting his penis in my boyfriends mouth. The next thing i know i have the large man fucking my face with his legs either side of my chest, and my legs tide to the posts of the bed. Then my legs were pushed up into the air and i felt lube being applied to my anus. I couldnt see my friend again. Then i saw coling put his hand inside me. at first there was a sharp pain inside, it felt like he was playing around with my insides it started to hurt abit then i just felt myself having t cum, i was guessing colin had found my prostate, he began applying more pressure and as he did this i had to cum more.

Colin licked his lips and put my penis in his mouth, i couldnt move i had a fat cock in my mouth and colins mouth around mine with a fist up my ass. It was starting to give me pleasure, then colin removed my cock from his mouth and said he loved my teen body and penis and said he couldnt believe he had me. the large fat man removed his cock from my mouth after cumming inside. I swallowed and surprising it tasted quite nice.

The next thing i remember was everyone leaving the room except colin and then him releasing the handcuffs, he rolled me onto my front, spreaded my ass cheeks and then entered me. It seemed to go on forever, he was fucking me and it was a nice feeling as he had an enormous cock.

He gave me some shots as he fucked me, i just downed them to get over the night. The next thing i know im in bed and its morning and next to me is colin. My ass was so sore and my penis felt as if it had been sucked dry.

Colin rolled over and said "that was an unexpected night, i neer thought i could crack into you, i cant believe ive fucked an 18 year old lad and made him orgasm,"

he then said that after the fucking he inserted an 12 ich Dildo in me and i orgasmed all over the bed, he then said i was a dirty little boy but he loved it.

I felt sick got up grabbed my clothes headed for the bathroom, in the bathroom my friend was asleep in the bath full clothed, i woke him and had to ask if i gave conscent for colin to do what he did. My friend said yes i was very horny and let everyone have a fuck, He said colingot very pervy and had me in upside down, with my legs spread over the bed fisting me deep and laughing as i orgasmed a small amount, and he even came all over my body and rubbed it in. But yes i said he could do it all, i didnt believe my friend even though i usually trust him, he handed me a video tape and said heres your proof.

I fast forwarded at parts but yes i had agreed to it all and at times asked colin to do some of the stuff.

I freshened up and tried finding my boyfriend, i couldnt so i tried calling, he answered and said im dumped, he told me to go get fucked by colin, he also said even though i was beautiful he couldnt date a lad who enjoyed being fucked by others more. he hung up and i havent heard from him since.

Im so confused what to do, he asked for group sex yet dumps me, option 2- theres always filthy colin who actually loves me and wants me, maybe i could find it in me to love him..... please help

 

[WetDan]

NOTE- Ok to be honest this isnt my story ive just made it from my point of view, it actually happened to a friend of mine in canada but he didnt want to post, so he asked me if i could post t for him from my point of view, please respect this and post.

 

[LiimiitedEdiitiion]

he should try to have a relationship with colin and if that doesn't work out, then...........

 

[JoshNYC21]

It all sounds extremely unsafe and alchohol driven. Your friend is going to end up with HIV for sure if he hasn't already.

 

[Mercury]

This sounds like a setup. Why would your boyfriend bring up group sex if he didn't expect you to have sex with everyone else in the room? Why would he handcuff you and then blame you for the fact that you agreed/consented/asked for what happened? If it really made him sick to watch other people fuck you, why didn't he stop it? My opinion is that he wanted to break up with you before the group sex even happened. At 36 years old, I'm guessing this isn't his first time in an orgy and he knows what to expect. And the video tape??????? Who taped this? Why? and why was it so handy to prove how much you were "begging for it"?

As for Colin, why would you want to date someone you don't like? Read over this story (or tell your friend in Canada to read it over, I'm assuming this is the version he gave to you before you posted it here) and ask him why he would want to start a relationship with someone who fisted him at an orgy even though it doesn't sound like the narrator wanted to do it with him that much.

Move one, move out, move up. The group is bad news and your friend should have come to your aid if you were that out of it.

One thing that bugs me about this story is that the person involved comes off as a victim the way its being told. It was his boyfriend who wanted the group sex and reassured him while he was being handcuffed, this wasn't the narrator's idea. Colin made these very forwarded and seemingly unwelcome advances the way they are described in the story. The boyfriend kept getting him more drunk. Someone video taped it to prove that the narrator is a slut. But at the same time, the narrator takes very little responsibility for agreeing and consenting to the orgy. There's a lot of reluctant yes's and pulling away from unwelcome advances until someone says its okay. Yet now the narrator wants to know what to do so that someone, it doesn't matter who, will love him. To that I say the situation was unfortunate, but what did you expect would happen? It comes as no big surprise that everyone wants you to get tested. You can't have been that blind to the downside before you agreed to go ahead with it. If you were crazy out of your head drunk (or if someone slipped something into your drink) and you were "begging for it" against your will, then you've got every right to be mad at the boyfriend for getting you that sloshed, but to me this story sounds like someone's upset that they were used like a cheap piece of meat and they are looking for someone else to blame their own self pity on.

My advice is to move on and leave the pervy fuckers to their own devices. You know better now for the next time.

 

[bagley]

Sounds like my life adventure when I was in my 20's.....I had an older dom butch b/f ....lots of drugs and alcohol....and my insatiable desire to be penetrated.....but it was the 70's & I assumed it was normal young gay male behavior. I stopped the mass consumption of drugs and alcohol in 1981 and my life has been less reckless and more fulfilling since.

 

[Eagle653]

Does your friend in Canada have a brain?

First off, the whole mess is alcohol-driven. Secondly, his choice of partners and "friends" stink. Third, hook up with Colin? He can't stand that person. Is it him or nothing? Isn't "nothing" a choice?

This is too weird. Tell your friend to write off men for a while and get dried out. Then, do whatever it takes to get some self-esteem. Right now, he's everyone's lap dog and being treated as such (actually, worse).

What a mess. Your friend is not going to live to his next birthday if he doesn't get his act together.

 

[Ohiospeedo]

^^ - No offense, but I don't think so. First of all - if it was in Canada, he was of legal age to drink so no one was contributing to a minor. And just because he was intoxicated and his judgement wasn't fully there, it was consenting. In the story, he apparently never said no or stop. So I don't think any charges can be filed.

Just tell your friend to learn from his mistakes, and not put himself in that situation again.

 

[Just_Believe18]

What a total nightmare.

Your friend could be HIV positive. Were they wearing condoms? It doesn't matter since "Colin" rubbed his semen into your friend.

The boyfriend is a monster for initiating the group sex with his older friends and letting them abuse his boyfriend. Where was he when Colin was rubbing his semen into his boyfriend? The fact that they videotaped it is even more creepy. Was that his first time being "tied up" and in bondage?

The whole thing is just creepy and weird. Your friend got into the worst group of men to hang out with.

Solution:
- Your friend needs to get tested for STDs fairly soon.

– Your friend needs to test three times for HIV: 1 month after exposure, 3 months after exposure, then 6 months after date of exposure. He will not be able to know for sure for a long time. It's very sad and a horrible waiting period but HIV is an elusive virus and may not be detected after the first time of testing. It needs more time to spread around the body to become detectable.

- Your friend should not attempt to contact his ex-boyfriend ever again. Even if the ex-boyfriend calls back apologetic and misses him, he should hang up. His boyfriend was bad, bad news.

-Your friend needs to stop drinking at parties. The fact that he "drowns out" his insecurities and common sense is a disaster waiting to happen. Actually, it did happen. He had to watch a videotape of himself just to remember what happened. That is messed up.

So your friend needs to get himself tested several times, find new people to hang out with, and sober up. Maybe, just maybe, he'll come out of this alive.

 

[rareboy]

I think it is a complete train wreck.

But to really frank, I also smell a whiff of bullshit in the air here. The details are too salacious for this to be just a post on behalf of a friend.

It is a description of really bad behaviour, particularly being drunk and not aware of the sexual choices being made.

Sorry, I think everyone in this little tale probably deserves everything that comes out of it as a result and I hope this little piece of embellished reportage is actually someone's wildest fantasy and not everyday behaviour.

 

[youngnihilist]

you (or your "friend) were gang raped. end of story. if your much older bf was truly in love with you he would have protected you from gang raped. dump the bf and stear clear from the 50 yr old obese borderline pedophile (he sure as hell doesnt love you... nobody who loves you would hurt you like that)...and drinking among older gay men for that matter.

you dont have to go through the rest of your life in shame. you had an incident and hopefully learned a lesson. its sad that people prey on kids.

 

[bluedragon4]

I am always saying things on here about age and how young guys are and why they shouldn't date older men so to keep from sounding like a broken record I won't say a word.

 

[boy0boy]

Real or not this story is my worst nightmare. Full of shady characters with little to no values.

I'd have to agree with Just Believe18.

 

[TygreBryte]

I'm not sure whether or not the story as told really happened. If it did, the guy it happened to was raped/violated.

Regardless of whether this particular story happened, I know for a fact that there are guys out there who will set up scenes essentially exactly like this.

 

[theblackajah]

I suggest you see a therapist. You obviously have a group sex fetish, where you sexualize violence for pleasure.

I applaud your writing skills though- it's a cute story, decent storytelling but bad choice of words every now and again that ruins the suspension of disbelief (kinda faded after the second paragraph).

But once again, the fact that you'd come to a forum and write about this semi-twisted fantasy... well... either write to Dan Savage or go see a therapist before you take it beyond fictitious writing and into real, dangerous practice.