Guilt after masturbating

[ctrox93]

Hey everyone, just wanted some confirmation that I'm normal and not a freak! Since I started masturbating in 2007, at the age of 15, I've noticed that as soon as I finished masturbating and have done my business, I lose all horniness completely and I feel sort of bad, like a bit of guilt or something. Most of my friends are able to cum once and then keep going and cum a second time and I'm worried that something is wrong with me. Can someone help me out please?

 

[BiMike]

It is quite normal to have the post-cum guilty feel and loss any further horny desires. In the animal world the male just walks away once the deed is done. The guys who can cum in rapid succession are the lucky ones, ver much in the minority. So best of luck you will find you will be rearing to go again after not too long if you find the right partner

 

[csb999]

for me the immediate post-orgasm mood shift is so severe I call it " oh my god I did that?!!"

 

[LemonMonk]

I used to feel guilty after masturbation. I think it might be a normal emotion after ejaculation for a time.

 

[Laufey]

I sometimes guilty like a second after ejaculating when I've had sex with someone I'm not that into. It's almost like you are high when you are very horny and then you become sober immediately after finishing.

I've never felt it after masturbation. Nothing to feel guilty about.

I've never been into masturbating or having sex again shortly after. The moment I've finished I stop being horny and it takes me at least few hours to reach that point again.

 

[KaraBulut]

The research has shown that immediately after orgasm, there's a release of several different hormones and neurotransmitters. Different guys react in different ways to this release- some get sleepy, some get cuddly, some get depressed, some get migraines and some report a feeling of disgust/guilt.

We don't know why different guys react in different ways. Some of it may be psychological, as guys who have a certain amount of guilt or homophobia seem to report that they feel depressed or guilty more often than those who have come to terms with their attraction to men.

 

[thumbs]

I know exactly how you feel. I love masturbating, what guy doesn't? My point though is, after I cum I do have a feeling of disgust that runs they me as like, why did I just get off to gay porn. (Im a virgin still) I know I love looking at men, I do, but like I said I get a feeling of disgust that hits me.

I blame it n the fact that my family is homophobic, and 99/100 of my friends are homophobic too. I'm not out yet and haven't fully come to terms that I'm gay. So that may be the cause. I've had gay dreams and even dreamt of finding the man of my dreams and marrying him. But I don't know why this feeling hits me, not every time though.

I hope neurologists or whatever can figure all this out. Cause I'd like to know the reason behind all this.

 

[Laufey]

In your case you don't really need a neurologist to tell you why, a shrink can probably explain it better.

 

[thumbs]

Eh maybe, lol

 

[Telstra]

I feel relax and sleepy after cum.

 

[Audio Tech]

I used to feel that way in my Catholic days. At some point in my life I realized that masturbation is a completely natural and healthy thing. Then the guilt went away.

Everyone is different, but don't discount the power of "taught guilt".

 

[crimsonpaine]

Depending on my mood while masturbating, I can cum multiple times or just once and that's it for a while.

I stopped feeling guilty a long time ago. I enjoy it and refuse to associate bad vibes with something I love doing.

 

[palemale]

Hey everyone, just wanted some confirmation that I'm normal and not a freak! Since I started masturbating in 2007, at the age of 15, I've noticed that as soon as I finished masturbating and have done my business, I lose all horniness completely and I feel sort of bad, like a bit of guilt or something. Most of my friends are able to cum once and then keep going and cum a second time and I'm worried that something is wrong with me. Can someone help me out please?

You will get over it. Nothing wrong with masturbating, you shouldn't feel guilt about it. As Woody Allen once said about masturbation, "at least it's sex with someone I love."

 

[Chip12414]

"There's one thing to be said about masturbation: you certainly don't have to look your best."
-Boys in the Band 1970

 

[palemale]

"Do ya remember the first time you had sex? I do, and boy, was I scared! I was alone!"
-- Rodney Dangerfield

 

[IAMTHATIAM]

I used to feel physical pain.

First in my ass, and then later in my head (tension head-ache from the shoulders, neck and eventually a piercing pain)

That was in my teens, for the ass, the twenties for the head.

I JO way too much, but am free of these physical issues, and have been for ages.



Guilt? No. That was dealt with long before 15. Perhaps I grew strangely.

 

[ludolfo]

the guilt comes from the religious indoctrination. Even if your not brought up in a particularly religious household the guilt-inducing vibe can still be part of your families (etc) attitudes.

I recommend then to --next time you come, get into the orgasm. Be a devil----do you come on yourself? If you dont make sure that you choose to come on your self and get into the cum feeling on your skin and how it smell, get into the feeling, taste it... if you were thinking hot thoughts allow them to continue and get into the feelings. Your dick will feel really sensitive after you cum so keep rubbing it and getting off on the orgasmic waves of pleasure that still persist. Just keep going with that. Just feel the pleasure and dont beat yourself up for HAVING pleasure like many of the control freaks who makes us guilty about having pleasure want you to feel! Soon you will start getting over these guilt feelings if you just trust the good feelings you are experiencing
ps fior got to add--dont just rub your dick, but all over your body