A former classmate and me used to experiment back when we were younger (this before I actually found out I liked guys). Nothing hardcore, we'd just watch straight porn together and give eachother hand and blowjobs. That was years ago though, and as he's into girls and only girls now, we don't really do stuff the few times we actually hook up.
We don't even talk about it at all, and I've personally figured it was just water under the bridge. He's a buddy, not really, really close, but not somebody I'm finding super-attractive as of today either.
I hooked up and had dinner with him last night at his place watching Desperate Housewives and talking about life in general, and it seems he's still thinking about what we did a few years back, and I'm thinking he's regretting it. He never actually said it out loud, but I got the impression he's having doubts about his future (Basketball, going to college in the states) because he's afraid "embaressing things about his past" would leak incase he became "famous and succesful".
There is absolutely no sexual chemistry between us today, and I doubt there ever will be again. Still, I feel I need to convince my buddy that what happened in the past will stay in the past, and it's not something I've ever even considered telling anyone. Yet, it's also an akward subject to bring up, since its something that we haven't really talked about since we were 14.
I'm guessing alot of guys are bi-curious, growing up, and then proceed to become rather straight as adults. Perhaps I'm clutching at straws here, but do any of you have any similar experiences? Friends you've experimented with in the past and who are now suffering because of it? =/
Like I said, we're not super-close, but I'd still like him to know that I'm not going to parade around town, boasting about some basketplayer who blew me once. What's the best way of bringing such a thing up?
We don't even talk about it at all, and I've personally figured it was just water under the bridge. He's a buddy, not really, really close, but not somebody I'm finding super-attractive as of today either.
I hooked up and had dinner with him last night at his place watching Desperate Housewives and talking about life in general, and it seems he's still thinking about what we did a few years back, and I'm thinking he's regretting it. He never actually said it out loud, but I got the impression he's having doubts about his future (Basketball, going to college in the states) because he's afraid "embaressing things about his past" would leak incase he became "famous and succesful".
There is absolutely no sexual chemistry between us today, and I doubt there ever will be again. Still, I feel I need to convince my buddy that what happened in the past will stay in the past, and it's not something I've ever even considered telling anyone. Yet, it's also an akward subject to bring up, since its something that we haven't really talked about since we were 14.
I'm guessing alot of guys are bi-curious, growing up, and then proceed to become rather straight as adults. Perhaps I'm clutching at straws here, but do any of you have any similar experiences? Friends you've experimented with in the past and who are now suffering because of it? =/
Like I said, we're not super-close, but I'd still like him to know that I'm not going to parade around town, boasting about some basketplayer who blew me once. What's the best way of bringing such a thing up?
