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Guy at the gas station

This is maybe something you can try - I have thought of doing this too.... Try wearing a small pin or wear a necklace that has some type of gay symbol - a rainbow triangle or some other type of gay symbol.
 
Maybe if you refer back to the conversation you already had, even it was about cigarettes. If you make it known you remember what kind he likes it could imply you weren't just shooting the shit to not be rude and actually remember the conversation? "I'll try a pack of camels since you like them so much ;-) "

If you're nervous about coming on strong just make it somewhat obvious you're going out of your way to talk to him since you said he did that to you, but without implying you wanna sex him up just yet. "Man, you're always here, don't they ever give you a night off?" or "where were you the other night? the guy working here is a dweeb and asked for I.D. just for buying a scratch-off!"
 
It's not that I don't want to its that i don't know what to say thats why i'm here to get advice not to be called a coward thats not advice thats just arrogance i think theres a topic on it some where here u should read it!
 
Well then, deal with the leftovers life leaves you then. You either take what you want or can't complain when you don't assert yourself to get what you want.

Geez, very direct.

Anyways, take a chance. It might work out and if it doesn't ... then atleast you tried.
 
This kind of thread appears over and over and over again at JUB (and I haven't been here in months! :-) ).

"How can I know if he's interested if we're both in the closet?"

And the magical answer that everyone's been waiting for is...














You can't!

There's no way to start something up if one of you doesn't come out first. There's no 2 ways about it.

You have to come out to him.

Tell him about a nearby coffee shop or ice cream shop or café that you like. See if he likes the same kind of thing. Then maybe you 2 should meet there.

Coming out can be subtle. But you still have to do it.
 
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