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Guy at work is obsessed with my sexuality

Georgiadude said:
Sounds to me like he's a closet case testing the waters. I'd avoid him as if he had the plague or something. He's not comfortable in his own sexuality and if you do come out to him he sounds like the type that will spread it around and make jokes about you. Stay away from him. Keep discussions professional and about work. I'd avoid being alone with him. Try and always have another person around. Don't trust this guy.

Steven.
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that sounds logical and i am beginning to think the same thing. he does have a girl friend and i can see him being a jerk if he wanted.

i think blonde canadian is right, they are curious and maybe jealous so they are in denial about something for some reason, i cannot wrap my mind around it.
 
evanrick said:
that sounds logical and i am beginning to think the same thing. he does have a girl friend and i can see him being a jerk if he wanted.

i think blonde canadian is right, they are curious and maybe jealous so they are in denial about something for some reason, i cannot wrap my mind around it.
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it's a strange game they play. His gf. is probably "cover". Hell lot's of gay guys have gf. or are even married. I was one of them. He sounds like one of those preachers or politicians that denounce homosexuality every chance they get and then are caught with an escort. They are so afraid of the truth coming out that they have to make sure everything they do shows how straight they are. Doesn't make any sense but it happens all the time.

Keep everything professional and try to have someone around all the time. Wouldn't put it past him to say that you made a move on him or something. This guy is trouble.

Good luck and let us know what happens.
Steven.
 
ok so heres an update

today at work while passing him he slapped my butt and said something like "you love it"

i have to admit it made me have to hide behind stuff for the next half hour.....not sure what to think now...
 
evanrick said:
ok so heres an update

today at work while passing him he slapped my butt and said something like "you love it"

i have to admit it made me have to hide behind stuff for the next half hour.....not sure what to think now...
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Read the other responses in this thread until you have your answer so you can stop posting about this.
 
a similar thing like this happened to me when i was just 18 and unsure about my sexuality. the "straight" coworker ragged me about never having a female date..never had sex or anything. then he got me drunk and took my pants off and gave me a blowjob. he was sober. and then this happened again.
 
evanrick said:
ok so heres an update

today at work while passing him he slapped my butt and said something like "you love it"

i have to admit it made me have to hide behind stuff for the next half hour.....not sure what to think now...
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Okay really?!?

Ask him what the deal is. Time for you to just confront him on the whole issue. I found that is that best way to bring what ever this guy wants from you to a head.

He will either ask you to screw around or back off all together. Your choice.

But if it were me next time he smacked my ass, I would calmly tell him he'd better buy me dinner and a nice gift before I allowed him to smack my ass.

Hell next thing you know he will be asking you to call him daddy every time he gave you a love tap.
 
i personally think hes a closet-case and at the least curious. when i was at the curious stage, i was TERRIFIED of anyone finding out, even if the person was gay. hell, i'm bi right now and STILL terrified of gay guys finding me out. if he is someone you'd be interested in at least having a fling with, hit on him back and see how he reacts.
 
Honestly, I wouldn't mess around with this guy. It's only going to end badly. Warm him that you'll be going to HR if he doesn't back off. And if he does it again say "you've had your warning and more than enough time" and go straight to HR. If he hassles you outside of work then get the police involved too. If he has no fear of slapping you in the ass and saying stuff like that at work, he's probably capable of full on rape outside of work. Be careful and best of luck.
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