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okay, so i know this has probably been discussed before, but I'd like to ask for advice for my situation. So I am straight, most of my friends are girls, so people used to think otherwise especially when I was younger. Now that I'm older, it doesn't seem like an issue. Anyways, I have always had a hard time being friends with guys, I think its because I've been around girls for so long, so I'm not sure how to act around a guy friend. One of my friends had a boyfriend that became part of our group of friends and they broke up a while ago, but he's still around because of the fact that he is one of our friends. He has become one of my close friends and now i think i am starting to develop feelings for him... Being close friends with a lot of girls, i am used to sometimes seeing myself as more than friends with one of them, but its always been a girl. Now I think i am starting to feel the same way about him and I don't know if that makes me gay or bi or anything. I dont know what to do, if i should just see if it passes or something...

Any ideas??
 
Are you a virgin, or have you had sex before?

Which gender do you fantasize about?

Have you ever had a crush, or been in love with, a female?
 
Nothing MAKES you bi or gay or whatever. You either are or you are not attracted to girls or guys or both. Don't let it bother you. It doesn't matter. If you are developing feeling for this guy it could be you may fancy certain guys. Is it sexual? In more blatant terms would you like to get naked with him? Is he the first guy this has happened with? If not, I see a guy in your future.
 
Don't worry too much if you turn out being sexually attracted to the guy. What makes your penis happy should make you happy :)
 
if you do love him then, what can you do? You cant choose who you fall in love with really.

And just make sure you're not confusing love with just a really close friendship - i did once...nearly ruined my friendship with them.
 
Love doesn't have a gender.

I fell in love with a boy named Alex (name changed to protect him). If he didn't have a dick or ass, I'd still love him.

A vagina can be way hot, so can a dick and ass. The sexual identity thing is too egoic base and just separates ourselves from others. And while gay men usually are blamed for this, so are straight people and the fake society they create based on heterosexuality.

Everybody's straight. Everybody's gay. Stop applying categories when there isn't any. All intelligent people categorize, but when you get out in the 'real world' you see how all these different people mingle with everybody else. It's pretty amazing.

Most men like a little gayness now and then. It doesn't MEAN anything about you if you love another man. You love that PERSON not the GENDER.

So what advice you really need? If you like him then go for it, work on the relationship yourself. It's all up to you! We can only be cheerleaders here.
 
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