Guy from military I think is bi

[lambdaboy]

Hi All man

Sometimes you just have to sit back and shake your head and laugh at them, and let them continue to enjoy their world of delusion.[/QUOTE]


I agree I can tell you that in the years I was in I serviced a few str8 ones that were at the least curious although I got off seriving them which was fine as they were so hot. Acutally found it easier to get a cock in my ass then my mouth by using the line hey man ass is ass right grin

 

[StlKj]

It's also an Epic Fail to respond childishly to someone's view of your opinion by attacking the person's "entire life" in a comment, rather than addressing the discussion in the thread.

Not something I would expect from someone who is supposedly "all man."

 

[he11ien]

It's also an Epic Fail to respond childishly to someone's view of your opinion by attacking the person's "entire life" in a comment, rather than addressing the discussion in the thread.

Not something I would expect from someone who is supposedly "all man."

Why rekindle a fire that's already been put out? JDN spoke their opinion and got checked by All man. JDN knew what to expect when they put their opinion out there. Sultan shouldn't have said that on the forum. Sucks to make a mistake out in public. It's just something us unperfect beings do sometime, ya know?

 

[StlKj]

Why rekindle a fire that's already been put out? JDN spoke their opinion and got checked by All man. JDN knew what to expect when they put their opinion out there. Sultan shouldn't have said that on the forum. Sucks to make a mistake out in public. It's just something us unperfect beings do sometime, ya know?

JDN did the checking. I felt the need to also point out how bad the advice was, and I got attacked in private comment by Allman. I publicly expressed an opinion about advice; he privately slammed my entire life. I don't think it's fueling the fire to point out aggressive, bullying behavior; I think it's a responsibilty to shed light on such a person's behavior.

 

[AllMan]

Why rekindle a fire that's already been put out? JDN spoke their opinion and got checked by All man.

Exactly!

I felt the need to also point out how bad the advice was...I publicly expressed an opinion about advice.

First of all, that's your problem right there. You claim that you "felt the need to point out" somthing...well it's none of your business; this conversation was between the OP and I. He moved on from it, and I moved on from it, so you had no right to REKINDLE A FIRE!!!!!!!! You're just an instigator. If anything, YOU are the bully, trying to call someone out in public and put your nose where it shouldn't belong!!!

Secondly, how in the hell do you feel that your opinion (that's what you refer to it as, but it was actually a personal attack towards me and a degrading declaration) is more valuable or noteworthy than mine is----you are a dummy, that's the whole point of opinions, for them to be different from different people. If you feel that your opinion is the only correct one, then you have missed the whole point of intelligent life.

 

[AllMan]

BTW, the moderator, mike_n_herrin, removed my "asshole" comment because he said it was so-called "inappropriate for the forums"...but yet he allows jdnaplaza to keep his attacking, and waaaaaay more expicit comment towards me saying "Dude you are fucked up"....go figure!!!!!! Must be nice to have crooked/biased moderators for friends, huh?

 

[MindBlast]

BTW, the moderator, mike_n_herrin, removed my "asshole" comment because he said it was so-called "inappropriate for the forums"...but yet he allows jdnaplaza to keep his attacking, and waaaaaay more expicit comment towards me saying "Dude you are fucked up"....go figure!!!!!! Must be nice to have crooked/biased moderators for friends, huh?

He probably removed your comment because you're derailing Sultan's legitimate thread, but that's just an educated guess.

In any event, my opinion, Sultan, is just be nice to the guy. If you're maybe a little extra friendly he might come forward a little more if he's really bi. Otherwise, are you interested in being better friends with him? If you are, even if he's totally straight, you've gained a good buddy, and if you end up being good friends, you could tell him that you're bi eventually (telling a guy first always makes it much easier for him to tell you, if he's really bi or gay).

 

[AllMan]

He probably removed your comment because you're derailing Sultan's legitimate thread, but that's just an educated guess.

How could I possibly be "derailing" his thread????? If you had read the entire thread from the beginnning and paid attention, Sultan and I have been having a great, positive, intelligent back-and-forth conversation/discussion on the matter. He respected what I had to say and I respected what he said. There was nothing wrong with anything I said, as long as Sultan had no problem with anything, that's all that counts!

But I like how you tried to defend the moderator...nevertheless, wrong is wrong--fair is fair! He removed my logical comment, but left jdnaplaza's demeaning and blatantly explicit comment in place!

 

[StlKj]

Love how you act like this thread was just between you and the OP, and anyone who had something to post against your comment is the bad guy here. The OP is posting to get other peoples' take on the matter; you offered what some found to be bad advice, and we decided to express that it was bad advice.

Granted, JDN should have stuck to just comments about the advice--I actually found the "dude you're fucked up" part to push the boundaries of acceptable as well if it's compared to "asshole." But you don't own your part in all of this by playing the victim here. Again, my post addressed the ADVICE given, not you--and your response has been to attack me in childish and bullying ways. To post a negative comment to someone's private comments page instead of addressing their point in the thread is completely inappropriate. You aren't some victim here. You suggested gay bashing as a way to find out if someone might be gay in an advice thread; don't suggest such insane things if you don't want people to call attention to how insane they are.

I won't engage you on this anymore. I'm sure that while I continue to talk about your BEHAVIOR, you'll just keep attacking me as a person. Not worth any more of my energy at all.

 

[LonelyFace]

I'm in the service and there is a friend of mine. I always knew who he was from basic training because we were in the same squadron but we didn't become friends until about a month ago. We hit it off pretty quick and are good friends. He is a little bit metrosexual but very masculine and I always thought in the back of my mind he might be bi from certain mannerisms but I didn't think much of it because we always hang out with the same girls together and go to bars with them and he's interested in girls.

Anyway I started noticing that during conversations when we're alone he will make direct eye contact and sort of gaze into my eyes and give me this look as he's talking to me. I don't know how to describe it but it's the same look I will get from a girl when they look at me and the same look you'd give to someone when you're checking them out, like gazing deep in their eyes for a second subconciously as you talk to them.

So not only that but there is this pool that opened up on my base recently and I've been going a lot because it's really hot here. When I first mentioned about the pool I told him "i can't wait till it opens up" and his responce was "can't wait to show off those guns huh"? I never thought anything of it at first but when I put all these things up together I sort of get the impression that he's interested in me or something. Maybe I'm wrong but I know "the look" when I see it.


Does anyone out there know a way I can know for sure without putting myself out there or directly asking him? Like a non verbal way? I'm thinking I should go to the pool with him and see how he acts when I'm in my swimming trunks. It might give me a sign lol, but if anyone has any other bright ideas lemme know.

I know I'm kinda getting into the game late here, but reading this thread reminded me of when I first fell in love. If you could even call it that... I think you're just fooling yourself, to be honest.

What could be "the look" to you isn't the same thing to everybody else. As for his "can't wait to show off those guns, huh?" comment, I have absolutely no idea how you could rationally conclude that he was making a pass at you.

My point is that I think you're reading WAY too much into it. The guy sounds completely normal. Your attraction to him is causing you to hope that he likes you as much as you like him, therefore you're misinterpreting everything he does to have a hidden meaning that isn't there.

What you're doing isn't healthy. You're only setting yourself up to get hurt even worse when you finally wake up from your wonderful living dream. I know how you feel because I've been there before, and I know how bad it hurts when you wake up after falling off Cloud 9. Believe me, it's no place you want to be in. I'm not trying to insult you or anything, I'm just trying to warn you not to make the same mistakes I made.

Just be honest with how you feel about him. It's the only way you'll know anything for sure. The truth may hurt at first, and the pain might linger, but it's far better than hoping and never knowing.

 

[genthree]

i think you seem well aware of all the pitfalls. i would relax a little more with him and let it happen. the real problem is , how does this play out in the future. tongues will start wagging if you two live out your emotions, it could all get a bit too hard.
men are worse than women when it comes to gossip........
good luck, keep us in the loop.

 

[paatreides]

When I lived in the barracks, my roomie used to always get out of the shower and walk around with just his towel draped slightly below his waistline...just enough to show the upper part of his pubes and upper part of the crack of his ass---it was a teast; bait----what normal guy does that???

I was in the military for 9+ years... Never once did any guy wrap a towel around his waist. Every single one of them to and from the latrine for showers had their dicks swinging free as a dove in the breeze and the towel would be draped around the shoulders.

Were some of them teasing and baiting? Could be...

And my first roomie in the dorm-like barracks I stayed in unashamedly jacked off on his bunk every night while he leafed through his porn mags. And told me to feel free to either go to the Dayroom while he was doing it or I was welcome to grab a mag and stroke my own. I chose the latter, of course. Didn't think he was trying to bait me... But maybe he was considering a few weeks later he invited me to a circle jerk.

I'd just advise anyone in the military these days to be cautious if they intend to make it a career....

 

[Charmander]

were the small guys just as nonshy

 

[paatreides]

were the small guys just as nonshy

Charmander - If you were directing that question to me, the answer is "yes." Noone thought there was any reason to be ashamed, or embarrassed, by what they were born with. Actually, it truly got to a point where a cock was a cock was a cock. When someone new showed up in the barracks, of course you'd check it out, but it was no more than a cursory glance.

(sigh) How I wish our society would get over this obsessed negative view of male nudity.

 

[Charmander]

i wanna know how the story ends sultan

 

[Trevor6]

please give more details of the happy ending