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I got a comment from a guy on adam4adam a few days ago (he said I had a sexy body) and started chatting with him a bit. He is really cute and I found out he was in the military as am I. He seems like a really nice guy. He's going to school and seems to really have it together.

He wants a relationship with someone and he isn't just about sex. The thing is that he lives over 2 hours away from me. I don't know if I should bother talking to him online still since we are kind of far away from each other. BTW he already invited me to go spend a weekend with him;) Should I keep getting to know him so maybe I could go visit him sometime and have a new friend?
 
I'd say a weekend is a bit much to start off with. Why not go spend a Saturday afternoon there first?

Lex
 
Sounds about right to me, Lex. Commit to an afternoon. See what he is like in person. If it turns out to be love, two hours isn't much. Good luck!
 
Two hours may seem like a lot in SC but that's a daily commute to work in most major cities.

Assuming you have your own transportation, make plans to meet somewhere halfway or drive to his city for an afternoon movie and dinner.

If it goes well, make plans for the next weekend and talk about whether to spend the night (and if you aren't comfortable sharing a bed, discuss where you will sleep).

Good luck and let us know how it goes.
 
I had a long distance relationship with someone when I was first coming out. He lived over two hours (by plane) away. Our first in-person get together was for a weekend.

Weekends are a great invention, really. I think they were made for situations just like this. They're long enough to get to know someone, and short enough to get rid of them if you don't like them.

Anyhow, I say go for it. You have a great attitude about it--if it works out, fine; if not, maybe you at least have a new friend. Mine did not work out, but we are still friends and have kept in touch over time.

Good luck--let us know how it goes.
 
I'd personally meet up for coffee/dinner&a movie first. If that goes well, then you can consider spending an entire weekend with him.

And even then, I would make sure the weekend had an escape clause, i.e. that it would be possible to end it prematurely.

Use your own insight and judgement in this. Your intuition is usually correct. :)
 
Thanks for your responses guys, but you can disregard this post. He stopped responding to me so that's the end of that. I guess he found someone closer to him or something.

Oh well... Better now than after I meet him face to face.
 
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