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Guy half my age

pocono

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After months of dating my BF is showing every sign of being madly in love with me. ..|

Last week a delivery guy stopped in my office and we talked for 5 minutes. Later that evening he "friended" me on facebook. Then sent a message asking if I wanted to get a beer sometime. Today he sent his cell phone number and asked if wanted to get out tomorrow or Thursday.

I'm half his age and a he is a real real cutie. But I don't know if he is gay. Also, he doesn't know I'm gay. I'm a little confused as this sounds a lot like a porn plot (except I don't look like a porn actor, I look like a normal middle aged guy).:help:

Some questions:

1) Do I go out for a beer?

2) Do you think he is gay? Does he somehow know I'm gay?

3) What about my boyfriend?:eek:
 
Call him back and ask if it's cool if you bring the bf along...takes care of all those questions.
 
Run it by the bf and see what he thinks.

The guy might just be looking for a friend, but I doubt it.
 
I am obviously missing something here. You have a boyfriend, this other guy is twice your age (you are middle aged which would mean this guy is pretty long in the tooth) and he is trying to get you out for drinks and perhaps more. Unless you are very bored with your bf and/or desire additional companionship from a near stranger, this would seem like a no-brainer, i.e., ignore him.
 
Do you mean that he is half your age? Otherwise why would you be interested in a delivery guy twice your age if you have a boyfriend?
 
Danger Will Robinson! Forget the delivery guy - whatever his age is - and have fun with your boyfriend!
 
yup, pretty sure he means the Delivery hunk is 1/2 his age...

this is indeed perplexing --- why would he just ask you out for beer? is he a lonley stalker - or a hot guy in a uniform that set off your gaydar? and you his?
me thinks you def have to run it by you know who - cuz ultimately that's not worth breaking up over a beer with some guy..
maybe if you im with him some and get to know him - god forbid he's some married biguy looking for a quickie !!
gotta say - the fucker does have EXCELLENT taste HOWEVER !!!
 
pocono said:
After months of dating my BF is showing every sign of being madly in love with me. ..|

Last week a delivery guy stopped in my office and we talked for 5 minutes. Later that evening he "friended" me on facebook. Then sent a message asking if I wanted to get a beer sometime. Today he sent his cell phone number and asked if wanted to get out tomorrow or Thursday.

I'm half his age and a he is a real real cutie. But I don't know if he is gay. Also, he doesn't know I'm gay. I'm a little confused as this sounds a lot like a porn plot (except I don't look like a porn actor, I look like a normal middle aged guy).:help:

Some questions:

1) Do I go out for a beer?

2) Do you think he is gay? Does he somehow know I'm gay?

3) What about my boyfriend?:eek:
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There seems to be a more important question that is adding some confusion. See below:

glorff said:
Do you mean that he is half your age? Otherwise why would you be interested in a delivery guy twice your age if you have a boyfriend?
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I would hope this is what was meant. I don't imagine there would be very many 80 year old delivery guys still working.

The Matter Of Splatter said:
What does age really have to do with this question?

It's simple(and was already stated by alley) - ask if you can bring the bf along if you think he's hitting on you.

If he's not, a beer bud is a beer bud.
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Well if the delivery guy is half his age (20/40) there is nothing wrong. But if it is the other way around (80/40) it still isn't necessarily wrong, but I doubt he would be tempted to drop his BF.

RationalLunacy said:
Who is half who's age again?
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That is really an issue here, isn't it.


Now for my own personal 2 cents: Whatever the guy's age, are you unhappy with your BF, that you would consider cheating on him? Because that is essentially what you would be doing, unless the two of you have an open relationship.

I doubt that the delivery guy would be new in town (they usually need to know their way around, delivering packages and such), knowing the general location of offices and such, and will most likely have some friends. Then again his friends may have recently left for college and he's left alone, it is possible.

He may be gay, and assumes you to be as well based on the way you came off when he met you.

Or, he may be a test. Someone your BF knows and is using to test you to see if you will be faithful. Much like the way a girl/woman will send her best friend to see if her boyfriend might be willing to cheat on her.

No matter what, communicate with your BF and be careful in what you do. There is potential for you and or your BF to be hurt in this.
 
The question are:

"Do you value your relationship with your BF?"

and

"Are you willing to lose the BF for the delivery guy?"
 
So....

I checked in on this thread this morning prior to going to work to get a sense of the replies. Basically I herd go with the flow...be open...keep your eyes open...and, of course, remember you have a BF.

When he texted me this morning I agreed to meet for a beer tonight. So at 6PM I met him. By 7 he told me he was gay and assumed I was too (shoes and no wedding band were his clues). By 8 we were at his apartment. By 8:30...well um...yeah!.

I just got home and am sort of confused about my bf...but really happy to have a new "friend."

Anyway... thanks for the advice, even if it was confusing.

So I feel a bit sad and a bit happy that I slept with a hottie half my age (yeah I know I messed that up in the original post...sorry for the confusion).
 
pocono said:
So....

I checked in on this thread this morning prior to going to work to get a sense of the replies. Basically I herd go with the flow...be open...keep your eyes open...and, of course, remember you have a BF.

When he texted me this morning I agreed to meet for a beer tonight. So at 6PM I met him. By 7 he told me he was gay and assumed I was too (shoes and no wedding band were his clues). By 8 we were at his apartment. By 8:30...well um...yeah!.

I just got home and am sort of confused about my bf...but really happy to have a new "friend."

Anyway... thanks for the advice, even if it was confusing.

So I feel a bit sad and a bit happy that I slept with a hottie half my age (yeah I know I messed that up in the original post...sorry for the confusion).
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I guess this answers the below questions.

Quanchi said:
Here's some more questions:

"Does being in a relationship mean that you can't interact with anyone else?"

and

"Does making a new friend require you to end your relationship?"
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Typical for around here. The person requesting advice listens only to that advice which tells him to go with the choice he really wanted to go with anyway. What is the point of giving advice to those who have no ear for it?
 
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