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Guy i talk to online in my house! What to do

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Okay, I came back to my dorm and my roomates are out talking and siting there is this guy i talked to on okcupid. Its been months since I talk to them and we just casually talked. I guess him and my roomate have mutual friends. I got past him without him seeing me but, if he does what do i do? it feels so awkward. Luck this shit just doesnt happen without reason.
 
I take you are not out to your room mates? Just smile at the other guy, may lead to a bit more :)
 
Once you're out to one person anywhere, anyhow you've begun a coming out process. If he's not out to anyone else it's a wash. If he is out and accepted you will be also.
 
Therein lies the rub. Using these media outlets are not a good idea unless you are prepared to be totally caught off guard. I mean you have to be prepared for anything including being outed, humiliated, threatened, stalked and a host of other things, some of which are very very bad.
 
most likely, nothing will happen. introduce yourself, pretending you have no clue who he is. then if you catch him alone, explain to him that you arent out. outing someone is not something people generally do, since they can relate to how that would feel.
 
Durango95 said:
Therein lies the rub. Using these media outlets are not a good idea unless you are prepared to be totally caught off guard. I mean you have to be prepared for anything including being outed, humiliated, threatened, stalked and a host of other things, some of which are very very bad.
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I got vertigo from the utter inaccuracy of this generalization...
 
First my roomates know I am gay. The thing is I was more worried about the whole online dating thing. And I'm pretty sure the guy wasn't out. Anyways I just went straight to the room I don't think he recognized. I looked a hot mess so I change clothes and got the courage to go out to where he was but he was gone. Now I kinda want to know what would have happened had I gotten faced to face with him.
 
Be honest and let him know what happened. It could be a nice bonding moment. Best wishes.
 
That is totally up to you. If you want to talk to him, meet him for real, be friends with him, then go for it. But if you just wanted to ask if he saw you or something, then there isn't much of a point to it.
 
hi tbtmo02,

I tend to think that it's a good idea to send him a friendly message on Facebook. Be honest and friendly to him, and explain a bit about the situation. I would not bother too much that both of you have met through okcupid.

Good that you are open to your friends (and to the rest of the world), and I tend to think that it's up to him if he wants to continue to have contact with you.

Good luck and please keep us informed.
 
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