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guy I'm KINDA seeing

Tommy2Tone

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Sounds to me all he is. is a fuck buddy. He is saying all the words to you to get you back for more sex.
 
What do you want here?

Are you happy being a booty call who gets laid at this guy's convenience? Are you happy with the "guy that you're KINDA seeing"?

Are do you want a relationship with someone who returns your call? A guy who is interested in your orgasms as much as he is his own orgasms? A guy who calls you instead of you always calling him? A guy who will let you stay through breakfast?

It's really your decision.
 
This is an example of where your feelings for him, don't match his feelings for you. You have to decide whether what you are getting from him is enough to keep this relationship going. From the sound of your post it's not.
 
KaraBulut said:
What do you want here?

Are you happy being a booty call who gets laid at this guy's convenience? Are you happy with the "guy that you're KINDA seeing"?

Are do you want a relationship with someone who returns your call? A guy who is interested in your orgasms as much as he is his own orgasms? A guy who calls you instead of you always calling him? A guy who will let you stay through breakfast?

It's really your decision.
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Sigh..........
 
This has always been a huge pet peeve to me, people are always willing to play the game without knowing the rules.

All men, whether gay, straight, blind, deaf or dumb know when "it's in the air". Liking someone is almost never a "maybe" thing, you just... know.

You really dig this dude right? Don't you think this guy would be reciprocating your feelings if he felt the same? You should try being honest about your feelings. Sit him down and tell him straight up that in addition to "kinda dating" you're also "kinda" falling for him.
 
It sounds like he's just a nice fuck buddy. Go and fuck with him when it works for you, but don't turn down invites to do other things when he isn't replying or isn't getting ahold of you. It's probably a good idea to talk to him and ask him what his intentions are... if he says it's a casual sex thing, just go with it.
 
I just went through the same exact thing but I mey my boy online. I found the best thing to do is just cut it off because there is no way one can have a fuck buddy relationship wheb you like the person more than a fuck buddy. It takes someone to be totally emotionless about other peoples feelings.
 
sleepswithbutterflies said:
I recognize I let myself get it this position. Like i stated originally, he "was" suppose to be a casual thing, reason being, I'm not actively looking for a relationship
I went with the flow in this case cause he was so insistent in pursuing me that i thought it was genuine, I saw a possibility for something more, he defined that. I started to really like him and I opened myself to it. Perhaps thats more of what is causing me pain, I don't usually do that,. Also, I know he likes me tremendously, but i think his attraction to casual sex was the reason for him ignoring me, and that hurts alot as well.
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It was genuine, he was genuinely interested in having sex with you and he accomplished his goal. that does not make him or you a bad person it just means that you want more than casual sex and at the present time he only wants casual sex and it is a pretty safe bet that he does like you and finds you attractive but he has no interest in being exclusive right now.
 
sleepswithbutterflies said:
LAST UPDATE:
Okay, so the dude was a tweaker [-X, explaining the personality changes i guess..... its done. ](*,) thanks again, sure i'll b back. LOL
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It explains a lot of things, doesn't it?

It's better that you found out early. Move on and just be clearer about what you're looking for (with yourself and the other person) next time.
 
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