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Guy in class...

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So I'm sure you all hear it all the time, cute guy in class story. But I thought I'd share my current saga...

So if some of yal know me, I'm bi, but in the closet. I'm actually still kind of new to this side of my life, but so far I'm liking it. Anyways, to get back to the story, I have this class in this big lecture hall. I usually always sit near the front of every class and this is no exception. So I'm sitting there and this guy comes up and sits down one seat over from me. The rest of the class files in, but no one else sits on our row (which was small since it was near the front). Anywho, I'm taking notes and I notice out of the corner of my eye that he glances over some at me. I'm thinking to myself he's probably just looking around but I figure since all that there is past me is a wall, what else is there to look at? So he's staring at me from the corner of his eye and I can't help but look back at him, though until then we hadnt really made comments. I notice he's looking me all over, instead of just towards like my face or something, more at my legs and stuff. Well since I'm wearing shorts and flip-flops...I start to kinda, give him some better angles to look at. I slip out of the shoes and start to move around in my seat a little bit (hell if hes going to look this way wouldn't you being doing the same to see if he may be interested?) So I look back at him, again missing eye contact, and I notice he's moving around too, so of course I can't help but look.

Suddenly the professor says something which makes the entire room bust out laughing, and we turn to look at each other during our laugh. Straight into his eyes, they were beautiful. The laughter dies down, but we still hold our gaze for some time and then finally I pull out and look back at my professor, giving the guy a lil smile before doing so. The class comes to an end and I notice he packs his things quick then leaves before I could even look back up. I take it that maybe it was too good to be true then leave.

The next time the class meets I arrive in my same spot and low and behold he comes back in, but instead decides to sit right beside me. So I'm thinking to myself, wow...ok something is definantly up. Why would he sit right beside me when there are hundreds of seats around us to sit in. So of course the Professor comes in and starts lecturing and we begin our routine all over again....before I know it, the class comes to an end and he bolts again. So I'm left wondering....


What could this all mean? Like I said, I'm extremely new to the whole flirting with guys things and I don't really know how to read people for sure to know what they may be thinking. Any thoughts?, or any thoughts as to how I can break the ice if it does sound to be positive in my favor?
 
Honestly, you might not like my answer. But just start a conversation.

If he sits right next to you, just ask him "Hey. What's Up?" and get to know him.

I do it all the time in lecture when someone sits next to me. It will get a conversation going and then it won't be so awkward during class.

Would you rather sit next to someone you don't know at all, or someone you can talk to?

I mean the gap between you guys is already closed...take advantage of that before he decides to open it back up again and sit farther away!
 
Think up something you're confused about in the lecture and ask him if you can buy him a cup of coffee so he can explain it.
 
naw I dont mind talkin to people in class, but this to me is a special circumstance, since we're basically puttin on a show for each other in class.... Ive been meaning to say something to him towards the end or like catch him leavin and strikin up convo like....Hey, did you understand this or that or something? But like I said, he runs off....plus the professor goes quick so its hard to take notes as it is....guess I gotta sacrifice something eh?
 
i dunno if it's cus i'm gay or wat but i find it sooo much easier to talk to girls than guys. i mean it could be anywhere and i can strike up a conversation with a girl that happens to be near me but if it's a guy then it's much harder hence i have way more girl friends than guy firends. to be honest i'd be thinking the same as you in that situation but i think i'd find a way to talk to him simply cus i was in a similar situation at college (the british kind ;)) and my friend practically forced me to start a convo with this really cute guy in my class one day during lunch. anyways, i later found out he was straight and had a gf but still i tried and didn't humiliate myself or lose anything in particular.

cus its difficult to talk with him after lectures then try and find him out of lectures (he must hang around somewhere right?.) point is, find a way cus you've nothing to lose and everything to gain. at best he's gay and totally in to you and in the worst case senario you've got someone new to talk to.

ohhh i need caffine...:o
 
haha...get ya some caffeine by all means then.

I'll let ya know whats going on, wont be until Thursday that'll see him in class, so I'll give a report. lol
 
Great advice in this thread; I don't have much to add. Other than, yes, he clearly likes you, too. So relax! He seems far more nervous than you are.

Say something before lecture starts.
 
So....It turns out he is in another class of mine. I didn't know he was in there til today. I was with my best friend sitting close to the front and as we're leaving I see him walking out the door. All I could do was stare him down while we were walking out, but he was too far ahead to try and strike up some convo, not to mention I was kind of put off since my friend was walking with me. Tomorrow cannot get here soon enough
 
Can you imagine how many people probably have another person thinking about them this much and never know about it? Imagine how you'd feel if he were thinking about you in the same way.
 
Your not trying hard enough beat him too it get to class early and stand out in front of the room and then catch him but think quick on your feet so you dont stall and have nothing to say
 
Well I told yal I would update on what all is going on...though it may not be what you want to hear

So i get to class today, sittin in my normal spot...waiting. I've got my gameplan going on, and my confidence is pickin up. So the rest of the class comes in and sits down and everything...and I'm waiting for him. And im waiting....and then the professor comes in, and STILL I'm waiting. But he never showed. I crane around, not too obviously of course, to see if he decided to sit anywhere else, but he wasn't anywhere. So I sit there, start taking notes, and start to think to myself...OF COURSE. Just when I'm feelin good about everything and I decided to go all out today and look as best I could, he wouldn't come to class. I'm just hoping that he just decided to skip it for another reason, or worse that maybe he didn't decide to drop the class. But as the class went on, I began to shake those thoughts and decided to myself...there's always next week.
 
you have an opener now for next week..."hey I missed ya last class, what happened?" :)
 
Tell him you will share your class notes with him and you can offer to study together. That should give you plenty of things to talk about.
 
just wear shorter shorts - and no undies ;) - just in case he comes back to class.

and definitely talk to him.
 
Alright guys, this is goin to be the last time I'll post unless something else comes up, but he didn't show up again in class at all today. I assume he's dropped the class, and even if he didn't might have scared him off anyhow. Well, thats life for ya, but like I said, should anythin change I'll let yal know. Later
 
How about the other class? You know if it was meant to be you'll probably run into him, but I doubt he dropped both classes.
 
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