Guys I need help...

[bigboi229]

This is so f**ked up I feel like s**t talking about it but this is what happened....

Last night I was WASTED and I made some stupid decisions and ended up with a guy for the first time really. I spent like an hour messing around, mostly doing oral on the guy and he topped me, but now I feel like s**t because I didn't even really want to and I shouldn't have let it happen that way.

I'm so worried, too, because he wore a rubber when he topped me but I sucked him for like 5-10 minutes on and off w/o a rubber on him and I swallowed...will that give me AIDS or something? I'm freaking out about this.....and I believe I even rimmed him at one point....how succeptable am I now to diseases? He said he was clean but God I don't f**king know what happened. I feel like s**t so much now, I need help.

 

[innocentbychoice]

I don't think there's any risk of you having AIDS by giving oral sex without a condom. Maybe other STDs but not AIDS. yes doesn't sound comforting but take it easy, go to the doctor, get an exam to find out if you got anything. Chances are you didn't.

And about regreting it, I know how that feels, it's terrible but you'll get over it within days. Don't worry, it happens to all of us at some point.

 

[KaraBulut]

Your risk for HIV from oral is low even if you swallowed. However, you are at risk for chlamydia and gonorrhea which are much more commonly transmitted through oral sex.

Your risk for HIV is low- if you are sure that he had on a condom when he fucked you.

That's the scary thing about being that wasted when you have sex- it's hard to be sure that he did have on a condom...

Part of the responsibility of being sexually active is to have regular STD testing. This is your next step- mostly to alleviate your worry.

Now that you've gotten past the hurdle of losing your virginity, next time don't get that wasted and try things a little slower... like dating and getting to know the person better. Just learn from this experience, move on and don't repeat.

 

[bigboi229]

I appreciate the help guys, and I did want it to be a better experience, but things just happened so fast. I felt pretty bad afterwards 'cuz he was just like "oh I've gotta go now" like it meant nothing. I'm not even sure if I was good at it or if he just got his nut and left, but I had a wild time. I just wish I could remember what totally happened. I know he wore a condom, though, because the used rubber is still in the trash. That's what happens when I invite people over to have a good time at my place, I guess....

 

[SonOfSlobone]

Actually the rimming may have been more risky, cause you can get hepatitis from it. Shit has a lot of bad germs in it...

 

[G-Lexington]

You say you had a "wild time". Dude, if you enjoyed yourself, seriously, that's all that matters. No, you didn't have a string quartet playing as he topped you on a bed of rose petals. So what? Yes, sex is amazing when it's actually "making love". But sex for sex's sake kicks ass, too. He at least had a condom on for anal, and that's the most important part (it's the most dangerous activity). There IS a very slight chance of catching things via other routes, but as others have said, they're quite remote.

So stop kicking yourself. You had gay sex, you enjoyed it. Now resolve next time to do it sober, so you can enjoy it all the more.

Lex

 

[giorgiobaby]

^ what G-Lex said.