Guys in LTRs, have you ever been asked which one of you is the "girl"?

[Agent Provocateur]

I've only been asked it once, but I didn't really have an answer ready so I just kind of stood there like Larry David, confused and stuttering. It was so awkward.

 

[Charon]

I was asked a few times back when I had a boyfriend, technically I was the "girl".

 

[rareboy]

Not in so many words.

But you could tell that some of our friends were dying to know.

We would just tell them we were both lesbians.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Yes, I had friends ask me this question. I just tell them no one.

 

[luckynumbah7]

It's easier just to eyeball them into submission.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

I just give them that "Rocky Horror" look of 'hunger', and ask them, "How bad do you want to find out???"

 

[peeonme]

I would never ask that, but I must confess that I find myself wondering who is the bottom or if they trade off, then I picture it, then I get horny....

 

[sixthson]

I've found that people who ask that question are asking more than just who tops and who bottoms. They are often curious about who is more domestic, nurturing, emotional, etc.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Sometimes. I don't think I've answered so far.

 

[Willie Boy]

I was asked once. I responded by asking if he would help my partner and I figure it out. He agreed and my partner and I proceeded to double penetrate him. I asked him if he could tell which of us was "the girl". Turns out he was. He cried like a little bitch at the pain.

 

[jensu846]

i tell them that it has nothing to do with a girl. That's the point.

 

[Agent Provocateur]

i tell them that it has nothing to do with a girl. That's the point.

Yeah, that's kind of my view on the matter. There's no girl in this relationship!