Guys of all orientations "experimenting"" Exactly how common do you guys think it is?

[DDre13]

it depends what sort of experimentation you talkin about..id say around 70-80% of young women will kiss another girl for fun or experiment, whereas not many gents will do this.

girls that will actually experiment sex with another girl would be more around 30-40% and similar % for men in that regards, 30-40.

I'm talking about both...but I still think men do so more than women. I don't think the percentage for women is that high...but then again I may be wrong. I was just wondering how common it was for men to experiment.

 

[seven2go]

As teens, or even pre teens, who never played the "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" game?
I think more times than not, especially among boys, things went a bit farther than looking.......

 

[DDre13]

Lol I've always wondered what do girls play this game of "I'll show you mine you show me mine with"? With their breasts? Lol I always thought that was only in movies.

 

[mario24]

I think its a lot more common than anyone would admit.

Guys who are comfortable in their own sexuality, even those who ID as 100% straight and have no romantic feelings for other men, are often willing to get a blowjob from another guy, especially if they trust him.

I can't begin to remember how many straight friends I blew in college, but it was a lot of them. Most just wanted to get off, and it was blow and go, but now and then I could sweet talk one into returning the favor or fucking me. Last time I checked, most are married with kids.

yep..often how it works. Folks often forget that a particular sex act in an of itself doesnt define one's sexuality. One of the keys is do you have romantic feeling etc for the same sex. Guys are quite famous for got a hard dick let's do something about it more then having any real attraction for the person taking care of it.

 

[DDre13]

Over the past few years I've had a few instances where people I would have never expected to be curious do something that basically confirmed they were at least open to it.

I hang with a group of guys, there's about 6 of us. All of them are straight, or at least "straight". About a year ago one of my buddies who I never really suspected to be curious grabbed my dick when we were both sleeping in the same bed and tried to get me hard. I laughed and asked him what the hell he was doing. He tried to play it off by laughing as well and rolled over. I've never spoke to him about it and I think he thinks I don't remember it (We were both drinking/ drunk).

Another one of my buddies likes to put his hand on my thigh near my crotch when he's talking to me when were drinking.

Just a few weeks ago me and a few of my friends decided to take pills for the first time. As we were all running around acting like fools one of them comes up to me and tells me he thinks he has homosexual tendencies, and then asks me if I think he has them as well. I laughed and said no. All throughout the night he kept asking me and another friend did we want to make out with him, or trying to recall if we actually did.

The shocking thing about that was that he was literally the last person I would ever suspect to be curious. He just loves women, and has slept with more than I can count. He never tries to put on a bullshit macho persona and never really speaks badly of gays and even sticks up for them. To me I always just thought that for him men do not exist in a sexual way.

Out of the 5 guys, 3 have explicitly done things that confirms they are curious. The other two I'm nearly sure of as well based on just small things that I couldn't really list but have built up over the years that I've known them. Before everyone starts shouting that we're just a bunch of closet cases, the group we run in is very liberal and open minded and none of us are into that bullshit "bro" crap. So I don't think everyone is putting on a hetero front.

I'd wager the vast majority of males would experiment in the right circumstances.

Yes I agree with that most men would do something with another man in the right situation. Just look at prison environments and boarding schools. But, I'm wondering if they already have also, not just if they would.

 

[jjonn3]

it depends what sort of experimentation you talkin about..id say around 70-80% of young women will kiss another girl for fun or experiment, whereas not many gents will do this.

Very true on the kissing - as kids we would play around - show me - even mess around with some of them - but no way to kissing or anything the showed emotional attachment - just physical getting off.

But girls would kiss each other no problem... don't know how many of them did more but would see them kiss a lot...

 

[Darted]

The guys who experiment obviously aren't 100% straight. I'm sick of that straight but one-time curious bullshit.

 

[DDre13]

Very true on the kissing - as kids we would play around - show me - even mess around with some of them - but no way to kissing or anything the showed emotional attachment - just physical getting off.

But girls would kiss each other no problem... don't know how many of them did more but would see them kiss a lot...

Yes I also think that girls are much more likely to kiss than guys are. Guys for some reason think that kissing is "more gay" than actual sex. I'm only talking about in general though about experimentation meaning ranging from kissing to actual sex.

 

[DDre13]

The guys who experiment obviously aren't 100% straight. I'm sick of that straight but one-time curious bullshit.

I personally don't think too many guys are actually 100% straight.

 

[Darted]

I personally don't think too many guys are actually 100% straight.

I really think everyone has a little gay in them, whether its 0.1% or 99.9%!

 

[DDre13]

I really think everyone has a little gay in them, whether its 0.1% or 99.9%!

My thoughts exactly!!

 

[Someguy5]

I really think everyone has a little gay in them, whether its 0.1% or 99.9%!

Go in a bar with a bunch of drunks and you will see it. I do not drink that much so I tend to be the designated driver when I go out with friends and I have seen a lot of St8 girls (in st8 relationships) kissing and feeling up other girls when drunk and I have also seen it occasionally with st8 guys.

We all go through the experimentation phase. I am somewhat still in mine.

 

[bankside]

I approve of experimenting. I think it is great when people are interested in expanding their sexual knowledge and experience.

I laugh when people try to pass it off as "but I'm really straight." Well, nooooo….. but that's better that way. People have nothing to fear from admitting they enjoyed something.

 

[blonguy]

Go in a bar with a bunch of drunks and you will see it. I do not drink that much so I tend to be the designated driver when I go out with friends and I have seen a lot of St8 girls (in st8 relationships) kissing and feeling up other girls when drunk and I have also seen it occasionally with st8 guys.

We all go through the experimentation phase. I am somewhat still in mine.

Everyone knows what u mean but just want to clarify FYI, it's str8, because of the sounds of "str" and 8 or eight, making it sound like the aight in straight, aight?

When some people post st8, it sounds like they are saying state. Just want to inform u of that because I agree with your post otherwise. I guess I'm nitpicky but little stuff like that kills great posts to me.

But yeah I think experimentation does occur and doesn't necessarily mean it's a quick, one time, or short-term thing.