guys that are married (to women) when was your first M/M hook up?

[TylerDurden222]

curious to see if it was before getting married, after, did the wife know, what are the details of the story?

please save all the "married guys cheating is so awful" rants, not the purpose of this thread.

 

[ivor-longhorn]

First (and last) proper relationship was with a gorgeous guy when I was at uni. We drifted apart when we went our seperate ways after graduation. I wonder where he is now.....

I told my wife-to-be after we had been together for a few months. It wasn't easy and she doesn't like talking about it even now. (We've been married 9 years) I come here for that instead!

 

[PoppaJunk]

First experience was in my early teens, we just fooled around and jerked each other off, no biggie but he offered to blow me and I turned it down. I had always wondered what that would have been like. After that nothing till just a few years ago. I let a guy blow be but with a condom on, and a year later had a mutual masturbation session. Wife knows nothing of it and I'll never tell her. I have yet to get a real BJ from a guy. I consider myself "curious" still because I dont know if it will be something I like or not. Lately been chatting with someone on line who's offered so we're getting set up to meet to see how it goes. After that and an HIV test he says he'll make my toes curl up. It's my experience that women cant give a decent blowjob to save their lives and that guys are 10 times better, we'll see.

 

[brooklyn]

first time 8 mutual jerk off send 9 in shower at boys club sticking our dicks between each other's leges first blow job 14 had sex with friends males only.
First sex with female 18. Marred wife dosnt know

 

[Ocoee61]

Still looking for first time. If wife even had a suspicion I had the desire to kiss a guy it would be all over.

 

[Jamesbgck]

First sex with a woman was at 19. First sex with a guy was at 21, though I didn't fuck until 23. Married at 28. No sex with another woman since then. LOTS of sex with guys since then. Wife has no idea.

 

[jmadaf]

First BJ at thirteen school camp, continued on, first pussy at sixteen, been doing both ever since. Secretly BI wife doesn't know. Want to stay married, but love to suck gay cock.

 

[midwestfun]

Fooled around when I was a teen. 1st sex with a female at 29 ( I needed to be in love not just sex to me) meet my wife. Sucked 2 guys since. Wife doesn't know and would kill me if she found out. Last guy I found out I like sucking dick and he said I was pretty good at it. I'm picking so it's hard to find a hot guy to blow. I like shorter guys. And guys over 40 are considered perverts to most guys. I'm slim and I think I'm pretty good looking. Best asset is my small ass.

 

[conrad]

Have always viewed what happens sexually between two persons as personal and private. I have always kept it so. My first was at age fifteen with the new guy in town; we were partners for two years and learned by doing which I presume is the way it has happened for thousands of years.

We had a marvelous zone of privacy at his place. The sex was fantastic because it confirmed the bond of love between us. Many years later--the sex ended when we finished high school--he remains my dearest male friend.,

When one marries a bright gal one does not have to reveal. She has met all my former partners (three men, two women) and surely has figured out that these folks were more than just friends to me.

Keeping one's mouth shut about the past preserves the aura of mystery about sex. I like that.

 

[bangthisbi]

I'm divorced and still waiting for first MM. I used to hint to the ex that a MMFF would be hot. I don't think she would have been into me sucking a cock or getting stuffed in the ass. I am trying to hint to her brother that I want him. He has always turned me on. If I ever fuck him, the ex must never know.

 

[justlookin4hot]

My first time was when I was 15. I was sleeping at a friends house and woke up in the middle of the nice to him touching my dick. I let him continue and when he had me good and hard I "woke up". He pretended to be sleeping so I did the same to him. We played that game a few times at sleepovers until he finally broke the ice with a BJ. After that I basically considered myself BI and dated guys and girls. I was dating a guy when I met my wife and she knew that. She knows I'm BI and she is OK with it as long as I play safe and don't talk about it.

 

[stevexxx]

haha you guys are hilarious, saying the wife does not know or have a clue. come on a wife knows.

 

[Stardreamer]

First time was 18 with a guy in a booth in the back of the x-rated book store. My wife came later in the back seat of the car in the drive in theater (yep I'm that old) and was my first female sex partner. I told her about my bisexuality and my early sexual encounters because not sharing that with her was simply not an option. She accepts and though we maintain our vows to each other in RL, she allows me to explore my sexuality towards males in the cyberspace world of Second Life as long as certain rules are observed. She is the most wonderful loving mate I could ever have asked for and I love her dearly.

 

[StephenC]

This post made me think of a blog post of mine made a while back.....


Let's face it, let's be totally honest. Have you ever heard? If I knew then, what I know now, things would be different. Hell, I can't even say that. Maybe not so much in the beginning but before that summer was over, believe me, I knew. I lost my virginity, I had sex with the sixteen year old boy that lived down the road from me, and yes, I loved it. I loved having his warm wet mouth sliding down my shaft as much as I loved my warm wet mouth filled with his hardness. I still remember his hands. I loved his hands. Perhaps that is why, still to the day, I love a man's hands. Wait a minute, I'm getting carried away remembering when I should be asking myself this question. So if I knew it then, how is it I'm where I'm at today? Sitting in front of the computer screen, fingers resting on the keys, I'm thinking and for the life of me, I do not have an answer. I only know he was the first, he was my first love, to the extend of what an almost fourteen year old could possibly know about love. I do know it was a different place, a different time, certain things were not discussed, even at an early age it was something that remained secret, hidden away like a child not quite right in the head. Not talking about them (things) didn't make them go away, it just made one ashamed to have them. Perhaps I was the child not quite right, the child that should have been hidden away in the attic.

As you can see I knew before getting married but did that stop me? No! If given the chance to go back .... well that is water under the bridge. I married and wife has never known that side of me and probably never will.......

 

[stevexxx]

and that is why men are emotionally illiterate, we men hide are feelings and seldom show our emotional side

 

[luvassplay]

Never have, but I think about it all the time. I love fucking my ass with toys when I jack off. I want to have a big, hard dick in my ass so badly...legs up on his shoulders...big dick filling me up until i feel him exploding in my ass.

Can't wait...

 

[Seasoned]

I was 19 when I first had sex with a woman. Met my ex-wife at 21. Got married at 23. First had sex with a guy at age 31. Divorced at age 36. Partnered ever since.

 

[closet case]

My first encounter was when I was 12. A neighbor boy, a few years older than me, introduced me to it. He had a huge cock. After that, fooled around with a couple other boys in the neighborhood, then in high school fooled around with a friend. Then, nothing until age 33.

 

[paatreides]

Does mutual jacking off count??? Then I was probably about 13, whacking off with my brother and our friends. My first time with a woman I was 17. We got married at 21, divorced at 28. And that's when I had my first real sexual experience with a guy - meaning giving each other blowjobs, etc, etc, etc.

Met my current wife (of 24 years) after that. Yes, she knew before we got married...

 

[smoothoralbottom]

First off, I'm not married but have always had gf's. None of which have ever known about me and never will.

My first experience was when I was about 7 or 8 years old. When I was 12, I took that experience to my cousin who was the same age. We had lots of fun back then (I'm 32 now) but we don't tal about it.