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guys that are to young

JASON0980

JASON0980

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i know its not something that normal people complain about, but it bugs me.
lately i have been hit on by guys that are to young for me. only guys that are to young for me. I will date guys up to 35, but i don't like to date guys under 25. it just seems like i don't have anything in common with guys outside of that age range. I don't think or act like guys to much younger than i am.

in a way i am flattered by it, but really i would like a guy to hit on me that i could actually date. I'll be honest i am older than my years. i like music that came out before i was born. i like movies that are in black and white. i don't want to date someone that has no clue who bruce springsteen or fleetwood mac are. and i know they don't want to date someone who doesn't know anything by that fantasia american idol lady.

ok rant over
 
people think I'm attraaaaaaactive!

complaincomplaincomplain

;)
 
Maturity isn't necessarily proven by taste. One's taste is just that. The music my parents like certainly wasn't "old school" when it initially came out,
 
Don't get too caught up in chronological ages... not everyone fits them.

Like you, I was always older than people my own age, I loved old music and old movies, I read Victorian novels and knew Amy Vanderbilt backwards. And then all of a sudden, when I'm thirty, I meet a man who likes all the same things I do, and he's gorgeous, and he plays piano, and my family loves him. He was twenty-one. Another old soul like me.

I've also dated men who were considerably older than myself (as old as I am now) who were so irretrievably juvenile in their tastes and motivations that I couldn't believed they'd managed to stay alive so long without actually maturing.

So yeah, in some cases, age is just a number.
 
That's another myth. Preferring to date someone just like you is not a sign of arrogance.
 
i don't want someone just like me. god i wouldn't date some one just like me. but i do want someone i have somethings in common with. i don't want to have to change my whole outlook for the guy i'm dating i've seen to many people lose who they are to make there boyfriend happy. and i wouldn't want some one to do that for me.

i'm not sitting on a pedestal. i have already said that i don't think they are bad people just that they are not the guys i want to date. anyone that knows me at all knows that if there is one place i am not its a pedestal
 
No one been hitting on me lately---so congrates.
 
Nothing against you or anything, but I wouldn't want to date anyone older than 23. [right now]

Maybe it's the fact that I'm 20, but I want someone I can have a blast with. No older guys for me.

Luckily Ryan is my age.
 
Soyboy said:
Nothing against you or anything, but I wouldn't want to date anyone older than 23. [right now]

Maybe it's the fact that I'm 20, but I want someone I can have a blast with. No older guys for me.

Luckily Ryan is my age.
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and i can understand that completely. you wouldn't want to date anyone older for the same reason i don't want to date someone younger. the styles are just different.
 
Well, I guess I am unusual. I do not think of someone's age. Age for me is just a number. I used to think I wanted to be with someone close to my age, but as I got older it became harder to find ANYONE of ANY AGE to have a relationship with....I did however find the most wonderful man I have EVER met. We are married now, and he is going to be 31 this month. Some say age differences like ours will never work, etc., etc., but everyone is different.

In the end, it is how two people relate, how they work and play together, etc. My partners friends and family always ask, "How is he in bed? Does he satisfy you?" They don't get it either, it is more than sex, it is a relationship, and how w care and love one another.

Jason knows what he wants and needs. It does not make it right or wrong. We all have our own lives to lead, and hopefully it will be with someone, (no matter what their age), that we get to know, care about and love!
 
WYSIWYG said:
Well, I guess I am unusual. I do not think of someone's age. Age for me is just a number. I used to think I wanted to be with someone close to my age, but as I got older it became harder to find ANYONE of ANY AGE to have a relationship with....I did however find the most wonderful man I have EVER met. We are married now, and he is going to be 31 this month. Some say age differences like ours will never work, etc., etc., but everyone is different.

In the end, it is how two people relate, how they work and play together, etc. My partners friends and family always ask, "How is he in bed? Does he satisfy you?" They don't get it either, it is more than sex, it is a relationship, and how w care and love one another.

Jason knows what he wants and needs. It does not make it right or wrong. We all have our own lives to lead, and hopefully it will be with someone, (no matter what their age), that we get to know, care about and love!
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cool story.
 
It's okay to have preferences but you shouldn't let them rule you. If a young guy hits on you give him a chance and see if he likes fleetwood mac. I can't be the only person who knows about Fantasia and Supertramp can I?
 
Soyboy said:
Luckily Ryan is my age.
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You and Comet ???

OK, I hate you.

meh.

Not really, it kinda makes sense, actually.

Jason... I dunno, you have to date who you are comfortable with. In my experience, that's kinda 7 years or so on either side of what ever age you are at the time....

If you're the older one, you kinda feel more responsibility to teach 'the young Jedi' thing, but then again if you're the younger one, ya kinda feel a bit intimidated by the guy that has more experience in life than you do...

I'm not sure which is better or worse.

Ideally, THE GUY himself should be the most important thing, but it doesn't always work out that way...
 
ok i am starting to rethink my position. thats happening a lot lately ( i am actually thinking about church) ok i will not rule out a guy due to age. if i can talk to him and we have things in common then i will give it a shot. but i do not want to end up with someone who feels the need to change for me and i will not change to fit some one else.

some valid points have been made.
 
but jasonnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I thought you moved to the midwest to be closer to me!
 
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