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Guys who won't have sex with random guys...

I would never have sex with a random guy, no matter how good-looking he is. I'm just too cautious or too much of a prude, I suppose.
 
Random sex with guys can be a lot of fun. Society puts too much stigma on that kind of thing.
 
Sounds like you've got a major case of "as me, so for all". You know, some guys actually AREN'T interested in random hook-ups. I'm one. I don't think that makes me a "closeted fag" - I'm quite open about my sexuality - or somehow denying who I really am. Just because you're built one way doesn't mean everyone else is doing it wrong. It just means we all have different likes and dislikes, and different ways of doing things.

Lex
 
^ Relax. It's one of those phrases that says more about the speaker than its intended audience. :)

Lex
 
Thanks for all the posts. I read this today and it is sooooo true..... Dating is like apples on trees-the best ones are at the top. Most of us don't want to go for the good ones because we're afraid of falling & getting hurt. Instead, we just go for rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good but easy. Apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right person to come along-one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. I'm lookin for a good apple, but it is a really TALL tree!
 
Meaningless sex with randoms is for some theres no doubt...

We don't consider random sex "meaningless" anymore than spending money on a good inner-city restaurant with a nice terrace under the trees or spending time cycling around the countryside. Lots of people in countries without pedestrianized, walkable cities and gentle flat bike trails in the country wouldn't understand it.

I think the same about people who downplay the joys of random sex without having tried it.
 
if you mean run into...ram into...run away from sex no way.

sex is great exercise but i want to know the persons name and be able to use it in a conversation. i also would like to know their preferred libation and how they take their coffee (and i mean before getting up in the morning after the night before) now those don't seem like to big of demands.
 
Thanks for all the posts. I read this today and it is sooooo true..... Dating is like apples on trees-the best ones are at the top. Most of us don't want to go for the good ones because we're afraid of falling & getting hurt. Instead, we just go for rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good but easy. Apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right person to come along-one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. I'm lookin for a good apple, but it is a really TALL tree!
Interesting theory! My bf and I both tell each other how we can't believe how someone as fun, intelligent, and sexy as each other would want to go out with us! Maybe we're both at the top of the tree. :-)
 
We don't consider random sex "meaningless" anymore than spending money on a good inner-city restaurant with a nice terrace under the trees or spending time cycling around the countryside.

are you for real? you seriously consider putting your dick up someone's asshole/having someone stick their dick up yours* the equivalent as somebody having a dinner around you/riding their bike by you as you eat a meal? even if you did use protection, are you fine going with the fact that you've used someone just for their body for whatever purpose you've imposed on them at the time? i would think the only people ok with that would be high schoolers... and thats sick. i'm in college and i find it repulsive being used as anything close to a rebound. people are not just bait to be caught and wound.

call me old fashioned but i find that utterly insane and mind boggling.

it's 2009 dude.
and i live in Los Angeles. Some parts of west LA have an HIV rate as high as Central Africa.

PLEASE i beg of you people, please have some sense when you're horny. don't do anything you'll regret.
 
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