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Gym Attraction

impregnator

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How can I know if a man at the gym is attracted to me?

I think he is 26-27 years old, 2 years older than me.

I see him every day at the gym. Sometimes we look at each other and we hold the gaze but I don't know if it is because i am looking at him or not.

Some other days, we spend the whole gym session without even a look to each other.

I don't see him with girls at the gym, but he has that manly attitiude. Same as me.

In the locker rooms, sometimes we meet, but I don't like to be a perv so I don't look at him there.

I don't even know his name yet.

Any suggestions?

P.S. Many threads have discussed this issue but they are a bit old. Thanks for all the suggestions that will be given.
 
Why not try sparking up a conversation with him about something. If he has nice muscles, maybe ask him for workout advice and how to get toned or whatever, lol idk. Once you bond a little, go hang out in the steam room, and if he's hard then you'll know
 
impregnator said:
How can I know if a man at the gym is attracted to me?

I think he is 26-27 years old, 2 years older than me.

I see him every day at the gym. Sometimes we look at each other and we hold the gaze but I don't know if it is because i am looking at him or not.

Some other days, we spend the whole gym session without even a look to each other.

I don't see him with girls at the gym, but he has that manly attitiude. Same as me.

In the locker rooms, sometimes we meet, but I don't like to be a perv so I don't look at him there.

I don't even know his name yet.

Any suggestions?

P.S. Many threads have discussed this issue but they are a bit old. Thanks for all the suggestions that will be given.
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Why don't you...actually talk to the man? Introduce yourself...


It's like trying to decide if you like a food before you ever taste it. Just doesn't make any sense..
 
If you both are in the free weight section, then it's easy. Just say, "Hey, would you please spot me?" and go to the bench press station. I do that all the time when my workout buddy is not there. You can strike up a conversation during your exercise and see how it goes?
 
HunterM said:
If you both are in the free weight section, then it's easy. Just say, "Hey, would you please spot me?" and go to the bench press station. I do that all the time when my workout buddy is not there. You can strike up a conversation during your exercise and see how it goes?
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I will try to do that. But the thing that is driving me crazy is that i am acting the same as him by avoiding him, although when he catches my eyes he usually lingers. I wish I could know if that is because there is interest or because he doesn't understand what is going on. Although I should try what u suggested. Thanks.

LemonSquare said:
Why don't you...actually talk to the man? Introduce yourself...


It's like trying to decide if you like a food before you ever taste it. Just doesn't make any sense..
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We were once in the lockers, and I had been in the showers before him. I told him the water was cold and he said thanks for warning me. The stupid thing is that I had my eaprhones on my head agter he hit the showers. I still feel he asked me something and I didn't reply because I didn't hear him. And that is also driving me crazy. BTW, I don't like people who pry in the lockers so I never look at him when he is taking off his clothes or in his boxers but I wish i didn't have those damn earphones on. Anyway, i haven't had a crush like that in a long time. I am excited and nervous at the same time, because homosexuality isn't tolerated a lot like in the West here in Lebanon, although it is better than all other neighboring countries.

I just need a way to become friends with him... hehe... that will ease my pain a little at first, but he seems so unattainable right now. :)
 
Wander said:
Dude! He probably asked you to wash his back! Loose the earphones! ;)

Seriously, the other guys are right. Strike up a conversation. Maybe you'll get a better idea of what he's interested in.
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LOL. Man really, I feel this board is the only place where I can bring up this topic :) I should try to do that.
I am ashamed to say it, but my heart races every time I see him. And the thing is, although I don't know him that well, I just want him to be happy, whether he is gay or not. A bit naive from my side, right? hehe
 
It's happened to me where I see someone routinely and hadn't ever spoken to them...it just gets more awkward with each passing occurrence. Just suck it up the next time you see him in there and introduce yourself...something like "Hi, I see you in here all the time so I figured I'd introduce myself, my name is..." See where it goes from there...at the very least you have a casual friend at the gym you can say hi to.
 
jaysizzles said:
It's happened to me where I see someone routinely and hadn't ever spoken to them...it just gets more awkward with each passing occurrence. Just suck it up the next time you see him in there and introduce yourself...something like "Hi, I see you in here all the time so I figured I'd introduce myself, my name is..." See where it goes from there...at the very least you have a casual friend at the gym you can say hi to.
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The thing is that sometimes we say hi to each other and other times it is like we both don't even exist to each other. :P

I don't know if i am imagining here or if the situation is real, but it feels like a power game between us. Who will break first. hehe.

But I must find a casual way to at least introduce myself and get to know his name. It is driving me crazy :P
 
I've had gym hookups before.

One was with the receptionist, one an out-of-towner, another a guy I had watched for weeks before finally just asking him out for a drink. A couple more were just the result of eyeing each other in the sauna.

In all cases it only took nerve.

Just approach the guy. What's the worst that can happen? He could say no, he could say thanks, but I'm not into guys, or sorry, I have a boyfriend.

Anyway. Go for it!
 
NineOfClubs said:
I've had gym hookups before.

One was with the receptionist, one an out-of-towner, another a guy I had watched for weeks before finally just asking him out for a drink. A couple more were just the result of eyeing each other in the sauna.

In all cases it only took nerve.

Just approach the guy. What's the worst that can happen? He could say no, he could say thanks, but I'm not into guys, or sorry, I have a boyfriend.

Anyway. Go for it!
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Thanks and I agree with you on the nerve issue, but i don't know if i should directly ask him for a date. Would it be wise? If he is not interested it will become extremely awkward because I see him every single day at the gym.

But as you said, I need to have some nerve maybe to become friends at first and see what happens next :)
 
impregnator said:
Thanks and I agree with you on the nerve issue, but i don't know if i should directly ask him for a date. Would it be wise? If he is not interested it will become extremely awkward because I see him every single day at the gym.

But as you said, I need to have some nerve maybe to become friends at first and see what happens next :)
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Exactly!

Maybe asking for a date isn't the first thing you should do.

But saying hello, trying to get acquainted--is not a bad idea.

I struck up several conversations at the gym with guys who were obviously hitting on me, one or two became friends, or good gym buddies, anyway. And I didn't let it lead to sex.
 
You know, an upside for my story is that this guy is giving me the motivation to keep going everyday and to workout harder to stay in shape.

So that's good
 
willilikeit said:
Absolutely. As soon as you bag him and turn into an old married couple you'll let yourself go to shit :D:D
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LOL. I don't know if you will laugh at me but when i read married couple, my heart raced. Hehe. I don't know what is happening with me.
 
He plays squash everyday, so I am seriously thinking of beginning to play squash. hmmm
 
I had a similar encounter, impregnator, at my gym. The glances, the power game, the awkward locker room situations. I wish that I could say something great came out of it, but I fucked up my shoulder and haven't been able to workout for 5 months. Hopefully when I go back, he'll be there.
 
Damn! Sounds both exciting and hot. If it were me I'd have a tough time holding back from checking him out in the locker room.

I think you've got plenty of opportunity to go up and talk to this guy. Do it.
 
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