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Gym Attraction

^Thank you man. I didn't get if the "sweet" guy is me or my crush, but thanks anyway :D

And cncerning his question on my age, this is what I am thinking about also. I mean if he wasn't interested in me, he probably wouldn't take this much time talking to me and explainng stuff and asking about my age. I hope my gut feeling is correct :)
 
I love this thread!

It's like watching TV show- the men, the sweat, the romance, the awkwardness, the anxiety!

Go impregnator go!
 
^LOL man. Seriously, I didn't expect to find this welcoming atmosphere here on JUB. The people here have been so nice to me. I am happy to share this experience with you guys.
 
^Thank you man. I didn't get if the "sweet" guy is me or my crush, but thanks anyway :D

And cncerning his question on my age, this is what I am thinking about also. I mean if he wasn't interested in me, he probably wouldn't take this much time talking to me and explainng stuff and asking about my age. I hope my gut feeling is correct :)

Well I originally meant him because the way you describe him makes him sound that way... But now that I think about it you're just as sweet (if not more so). This thread makes me feel so happy inside lol.
 
^ I'mglad to hear that. I will keep you posted on what happens with me. ;)
 
So concerning his question about my age, some posters said that maybe I looked too young, so he asked me to make sure I was of an appropriate age.

I attached two pics. How old do I look in them?
 

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Man, you look fucking HOT! If I were him, don't think I can wait any longer to do you ;)
 
:wave: Well I'm a top exclusively, hehe, but thanks dude. That's sweet :D
 
So concerning his question about my age, some posters said that maybe I looked too young, so he asked me to make sure I was of an appropriate age.

I attached two pics. How old do I look in them?

You look great. And you definitely DO NOT look underage. In my opinion the average straight guy isn't going to immediately ask another guy how old he is. That's very gay-ish.

However, don't jump to conclusions.
Once you guys have become buddies, I suggest seeing where this line of conversation takes you: "Hey man, from what I can tell, you seem to know what you're doing when it comes to the gym and working out, so let me ask you a question: how would you judge my progress? Honestly, what do you think of my body?"

Then, stand back and pose (perhaps slightly provocatively) for him. If he stares at you like, what? your body? that's gay! then obviously he's probably not interested. If he longingly observes and lovingly comments on your body...well, lucky you....
 
You look great. And you definitely DO NOT look underage. In my opinion the average straight guy isn't going to immediately ask another guy how old he is. That's very gay-ish.

However, don't jump to conclusions.
Once you guys have become buddies, I suggest seeing where this line of conversation takes you: "Hey man, from what I can tell, you seem to know what you're doing when it comes to the gym and working out, so let me ask you a question: how would judge my progress? Honestly, what do you think of my body?"

Then, stand back and pose (perhaps slightly provocatively) for him. If he stares at you like, what? your body? that's gay! then obviously he's probably not interested. If he longingly observes and lovingly comments on your body...well, lucky you....

Excellent suggestion, man. I think that will make him realize that I am interested also. Haven't thought of it before. Thanks, dude.
 
From the sound of everything here dude, you got things going by starting a conversation with him. Keep it up ...just be yourself.
 
So I don't like to whine but this will be seen as whining.

Why The Fuck it is so much harder to have a connection with a guy? I mean with girls it is so much easier. You look at her, you smile at her, she smiles back, you go talk to her. It is obvious, easy.

Today at the gym, I was passing by the lockers to bring a water bottle in the middle of my training and I saw him rushing out the door. He seemed very much in hurry. But he stopped and said hi and how I was doing before going to the weight room.

After a while, I was on the treadmill, he was behind me in front of the squash court. i caught him looking at me, but there is no way in hell I can be sure it means anyhing. It was just a look, but maybe he didn't think I would see him. Dunno.

Then I finished and went to take a shower. I finished and wore my clothes as he was entering. So he took off his shirt and pants and I had a feeling he was parading himself. We were alone there, but of course I am too fuckin proud to even acknowledge him. I kept my eyes on my phone reading some messages I got. I could swear he was waiting for me to look at his body. But why the fuck does he never start a conversation? You know, I just need a queue from him or something.

He is even more strong-headed than me...

So that was my rant for today. i am not used to men being more strong-headed than me and I think i met my challenge, and he is making me fall for him even more.

So tomorrow, I am buying the squash raquette and I will wait for him on the court. I will see where this will lead us. I hope he slips tomorrow and gives me at least a hint...
 
It sounds like he is interested. If he were not, he surely wouldn't be bothering to keep reappearing in your area, and not to make unnecessary conversation.

The ball is in your court -- you DO have to figure out some subtle way of saying something to him that has a double meaning.

I think you could come out of the shower wearing a little less, and see how HIS eyes wander. Too much cat and mouse are going to make both of you crazy.

You have the advantage of JUB and voicing your anxiety -- maybe he has NO ONE to help him.

And you could post us a pic of you shirtless, btw, just so we could be SURE your baiting strategy will work. (!) Mwah! :lol:

Don't objectify me and treat me as a sex object. :badgrin:
Because if I let myself go, you may see much more than a shirtless pic.
But I'm a good man so... hehe ;)
 
^Typical "TOP" talking. :lol:

And your last line reminds me of my favorite short story by a Southern author, Flannery O'Connor, "A Good Man Is Hard to Find." :lol:

On a serious note, I don't think objectifying is as reprehensible as when feminists use the term, as long as that is not the ONLY way one sees another. To find another sexy is a real compliment, but in the absence of dialogue and respect, I agree it is unflattering.

In my case, I'd hope my posts speak for themselves in extending goodwill, respect, and er, um, lust. !oops!

Oh please!

I'll translate: what he really means is "cut the crap and show us your c0ck." :wave: :p :D I'm inclined to agree. ..|

-d-
 
To be fair, I've not sent any JUBbers a shirtless pic. I discriminate against all of you equally. :badgrin:

As it is, OP, I'm not sure how to read the situation. There are a couple guys like this at my gym I've wondered about and when I've really flirted back and still got no response I've assumed they're just very friendly.

The shower bit as suggested might be telling, though - you brave enough to flash your junk at him?

-d-
 
To be fair, I've not sent any JUBbers a shirtless pic. I discriminate against all of you equally. :badgrin:

As it is, OP, I'm not sure how to read the situation. There are a couple guys like this at my gym I've wondered about and when I've really flirted back and still got no response I've assumed they're just very friendly.

The shower bit as suggested might be telling, though - you brave enough to flash your junk at him?

-d-

Dude, I have no problem with walking in the lockers totally nude but I don't want to approach him like that. He is different. I don't want to seem desperate, because believe me, I may like him very very much, but I have limits.
 
You don't have to go all cocked, locked and loaded; just don't ignore him this time and see where his eyes go.

-d-
 
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