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Gym Talk
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DidntMeanToTurnYouOn
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Ah, the gym scenario... I would love to hear stories on this... 
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Good question friend. Nice to see you are not out cruising for guys just to have sex with.
I figure you are should do just what you have said you are thinking about. If you meet a guy you are attracted to, ask him out for a coffee or beer. Get to know him.
Just by converstation you will soon tell if there may be something more after that. Keep in mind though that some guys may only be looking for another guy to share a beer with. Nothing wrong with that, you may meet some fine straight friends that way.
You will most likely know if another guy is gay if you spend some time with him. Not always, lot's of guys are like you my friend. Straight acting and looking to meet another person that shares their interests.
If you go to a place that is known as 'gay', any sort of hangout that gay guys frequent you can figure that the other guys there are gay. Since you seem to go to a regular gym you cannot always be sure. So man, you've got to follow your instincts and ask the guy out for a coffee or something. Just as you have said.
It will happen for you my friend. I know it will.
Good luck and please let us know how it turns out.
I figure you are should do just what you have said you are thinking about. If you meet a guy you are attracted to, ask him out for a coffee or beer. Get to know him.
Just by converstation you will soon tell if there may be something more after that. Keep in mind though that some guys may only be looking for another guy to share a beer with. Nothing wrong with that, you may meet some fine straight friends that way.
You will most likely know if another guy is gay if you spend some time with him. Not always, lot's of guys are like you my friend. Straight acting and looking to meet another person that shares their interests.
If you go to a place that is known as 'gay', any sort of hangout that gay guys frequent you can figure that the other guys there are gay. Since you seem to go to a regular gym you cannot always be sure. So man, you've got to follow your instincts and ask the guy out for a coffee or something. Just as you have said.
It will happen for you my friend. I know it will.
Good luck and please let us know how it turns out.
Therobbyshow
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Well, if you're in a gym than I'm guessing you might be into sports a little,
even if you're not...who cares. Just start up a conversation and it's
usually pretty easy to bring up sports of some sort. I've have found it
very easy to ask someone out for a beer to watch a game or something
without being "gay" about it...then just be cool and see how things go.
even if you're not...who cares. Just start up a conversation and it's
usually pretty easy to bring up sports of some sort. I've have found it
very easy to ask someone out for a beer to watch a game or something
without being "gay" about it...then just be cool and see how things go.
confusedboy23
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Lots of great advice here already.
Just take things in stride, go for coffee or a ball game, and if the end you find they are as straight as an arrow, you've still got yourself a friend!
Just take things in stride, go for coffee or a ball game, and if the end you find they are as straight as an arrow, you've still got yourself a friend!
Riverrick
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Eye contact is a good signal. A lot of straight guys won't hold it for very long (its too intimate?) and I've used this method to test guys out in the past. Its also a little flirty to give him a long stare while you are talking to him before looking away. Which may be what you want.
You'll know if you're right. You'll kind of get a charge out of it because he'll keep the stare also.
You'll know if you're right. You'll kind of get a charge out of it because he'll keep the stare also.
Just_Believe18
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Keep your requests casual. Make it sound like its no big deal that you are asking them out somewhere. Like.. a buddy buddy kind of thing. You'd be surprised a lot of gay guys feel the same as you and are just jumping at the situation to initiate contact but are too timid to just openly say it. 
yankee
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Well that should make it a tad easier, if you meet the same people every time, Get buddy buddy with em. Chat more say Hi more and leave it at that for a couple days, next week casualy say wanna get a drink after this. Take your time with it and I think you should become friends with them first. In your Original post you seemed out going and talkative.
Good Luck !
Good Luck !