Had to move out because my older boyfriend wanted to move in with me....

[Kinkguy24]

Hey

so I lived in that apartment for about 1 year. My neighbours knew I was gay and didn´t seem to have a problem with it. I never brought guys with me either so everything was fine to them I guess.

When my boyfriend wanted to move in with me (he is 30 years older than me - judge me Idc. ) they started to get annoying. My bf was visiting me for quite a while back then and everytime he stayed over night (we haven´t had sex in a few of those nights) my neighbours started to call the police because they said we were too loud. Bullshit. It kept going on for over a month and in the end I moved away.

It´s sad that I´ve lost the apartment because it was really big and my current apartment is pretty shitty but hey.

Does someone have similar experiences? What could I have done better? Ty

 

[aaggii]

You could have done the same to them, if you had free time. Bad neighbors are so annoying, that´s why (between other reasons) we are looking for another place once we sell this one.

I think you two (or you alone?) should search for a cool place you like and where you can do whatever you want as long as you respect your neighbors and they respect you.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Does someone have similar experiences? What could I have done better? Ty

You shouldn't have moved away, probably.

 

[eastofeden]

It is hard to know the answer for this as I feel that there must be parts that are left out that might be important to understand the situation...because if there aren't...I can't understand the move.

So...It is important to know....how loud were you guys? Was there anything valid that prompted your neighbors to call the police....and by neighbors....was it more than one neighbor?

It is good to fully understand whatever the components are in order to avoid a repeat...in other words...do you think any of your behavior (noise for instance) might have been the catalyst?...or do you think it was strictly because you were gay? Does your friend have a scary look or demeanor?

 

[Kinkguy24]

I didn´t really want to stay with those neighbours so moving away seemed to be the best option to me.

Loud? Well I kept my voice always pretty low and my bf did too. I tested it with music and closed the front door unless you don´t press your ear fully against the door there is no way to hear the slightest sound. I only remember one time when they could have heard us. I am not really a screamer and my bf only moans while he cums.

I guess they just didn´t like to have us around. I live with my bf now but the apartment is as I said pretty shitty.

And yes it was more than one neighbour. I don´t think that my bf looks scary in some point. Maybe they thought it was weird that I have a bf who is 30 years old than me. Idk.

 

[Seasoned]

Please continue to look for a place where you'll be happier. That will help lessen the sting of being chased out of your old place. Bad neighbors can make life miserable and sometimes it's not worth the fight even when in the right. I think I would have tried confronting them first. Had that not worked I may have pursued a harassment complaint. The key now is to look forward and enjoy your relationship.

 

[Kinkguy24]

Well I tried to talk to them but they mostly shut me down. I have to drive about 1 hour to get to my job but for the moment it´s fine.