Has a straight guy ever "made suggestions" to you?

[goober-pud]

I missed an opportunity in college. My roommate knew that I was sleeping nude, and he probably heard me jacking off, but didn't seem to mind. I should have suggested something to him, but didn't.

 

[sonny10305]

I also think you missed out on some fun. You did not mention if you are out to those guys. If they know you are gay there is a pretty good chance they were looking for some action, when you did not respond to their hints they prolly lost their nerve backed off. Since I came out I have had a few straight dudes looking to experiment and I am always ready and willing to oblique.
If you are not out it sounds like those guys have a pretty good idea you might be into guys, and if you are out then you need to follow up on these hints you are getting, I mean, what-a -ya- got to loose?
Next time just tell them "you may not wanna hear this from another guy, but you are looking hot" Follow up with "have you ever thought tryin something new and foolin around with a dude"? Then start out by givin them what will arguable be the best b/j of their life.
Go for it dude.

 

[jo_addict]

I have had oh so many, of these "close encounters" which I think back on again and again. I keep saying "only if I had done this done that" . I am pleased to see that I am not the only one who wonders and thinks about close shaves. I do have regrets that I did not act differently at those times.

 

[danny456]

In a situation at the moment where I want to make a move on a guy I work with. Last time we went out for drinks he ended up showing me out of his apartment with no shirt on (v hot bod) and I gave him a peck on the cheek as I left (in that jokey drunk bloke kinda way)! Have convinced myself that he's probably up for something but don't want to take the risk of ruining a good friendship

 

[drinksinme]

I'm a str8 / curious guy....I've been hit on & groped in a str8 sports bar. I welcome it, just make sure its crowded or under the bar.

 

[germanluger]

yeah a few times. unfortunately, the ones who do are always not very attractive to me.

for instance, this one guy who was datin my best friend at the time, tried to hook up with me after she passed out at a party. And i knew he had slapped her around a few times. So a cheatin, beater? no thanks. just my luck i guess haha

 

[rurudog]

yes a hot dude in h.s, was over to do homework and he started to rub my meat under the table with his feet. i got hard and shot a huge load

 

[hack24]

A straight friend of mine, also a high school wrestler, used to work out with me. We ran about 8 miles a day with each other (when I saw him) and we often wrestled together. I remember one day, after I had run solo, he stopped over just as I was about to hit the shower. After I came out of the show, still toweling off, he wanted to wrestle. We did... him clothed and me naked. Another time, after we had run together, he was the one who came out of the shower, and I was still in my shorts and sweaty t-shirt. I started the wrestling that time, and after we were done, he said to me, "next time you should get naked too." Other than catching him jerking off, I never came close to a sexual encounter with him, but I always did wonder if he was interested in more than working out, running or wrestling together.

 

[unclaimedblessing]

Gee, I thought the only suggestions straights made were things like....
"Stop talking. Suck harder. Tickle behind my balls"

 

[Claudio63]

A friend of mine knew I was gay, he was kind of curious and used to even watch porn (gay or otherwise) with me. He knew I was still a virgin and once while discussing why I hadn't ben "partnered" said he wasn't interested in cock and wasn't keen on anal sex, a kind of an out-of-the-way manner of asking for a blow job. I instinctively ignored him. I guess I was turned off by what sounded like a pity bj. Anyway, we've since dropped the friendship so, it's just as well. I feel I did the right thing, no regrets.

 

[Brett84]

several times. In college the stud..former HS quarterback, whom I secretly lusted after...one night came home drunk and was locked out of his dorm room. My roomate was gone for the weekend and he came knocking on my door for a place to crash. He was always teasing me about me being "gay". I wasnt out so he must have sensed something. Any way....he literally attacked me...in a good way after we went to sleep or at least pretended to go to sleep. Afterwards he threatened to beat me up if I told anyone whay happened. wow...what a night!!!

 

[nsguy2]

One Sunday a friend I assumed to be straight stopped in to watch a hockey game.

We drank some beer throughout the day so after the game I couldn't give him a drive home and he was going to have to call someone to pick him up. We both had to work the next day so he couldn't stay over.

It just so happened that another friend stopped in for some reason and said that he was on his way some place or another.

So, I say to the friend who needed the drive that I didn't mean to be rude but our friend was going by his place and would be able to give him a lift.

Right then, he gave me the strangest look that I'd never seen before. Almost like " I thought we were gonna get it on and you're asking me to leave?"

He gave me the same look as he was walking out the door so I'm thinking after he leaves that I'm an idiot as this guy is extremely hot.

That episode got me thinking about a few things he has said and done in the past and most likely that he's bi.

I haven't been in a situation with him since where I could find out but kind of kick myself for not acting when I should have.

 

[mascbiguy]

i had this last night. was at a party. and this guy comes up and introduces his self to me. then we go to a bar and he sits next to me. and wants to buy me a drink. and is pretty much flirting with me. and then a girl i was with asks me "whats up with that guy, is he gay. he is flirting with you"(she didnt know about me) and i just laughed. and then we got alone and did the rough house pushing thing. and then later in front of a few people. he goes "whats your deal are you bi or gay or something" and i go "yeah im bi" and then he got a little weird. and then when i left he kept on smiling at me. like he wanted to hook up.

 

[LarryBiSubBot]

Yep! In high school twice. I wasn't interested then and now as I think back to it I wish I had hopped in bed with one of the guys, he was a muscular stud, very handsome.

Oh well, I've had lots of great man-man sex since then.

 

[KnightRider]

This happened several times to me, high school and college. But I was both too stupid and had too many issues with myself at the time to do anything. I don't know why these guys who just "hint" aren't more forward. It always seems THEY are the ones who have nothing to lose even if you did reveal their "secret." Heh, well if any straight/"curious" guys are reading this--stop the hinting and b.s. coy behavior and go for it! The world isn't full of mind readers.

 

[RoscoR]

Well ... My best mate is Str8 ... although all my Girlfriends think hes gay. We became mates through work and i went upto him one day and said you will have to give me your number ... which he did ... so we started texting each other and started going out etc. He was in a relatioinship but was asking me advice on how to end it, what to say etc as hed never experienced anyting like it before and his words were 'i just see her more as a friend' so with a lot of courage and words of advice from me, he ended it.

A While after this girl at work was interested in him and another girl gave him her number. The went out on a few dates and about a month or two later she ended it. She had a party at her house and he did'nt stay the night. The next day she kinda made excuses and ended it.

A While after that at a works Christimas night out another girl showed some interest and they went out on a few dates and her words were ' i thought you were gay ' after the 2nd date she ended it.

Heres the best part .... hes 18 years old and i'm 32 and hes my best mate. We just clicked as soon as we met. When were together he goes on about girls, pussy and tits and stuff. Which to me comes across quite fake, but hes happy doing it so i respect that. Then he goes on about how big his cock is haha Add some alcohol and he gets a little camp, but i think thats just me brushing off on him.

After reading that story, do you think he might be gay ?

 

[Luv_Trail]

Well ... My best mate is Str8 ... although all my Girlfriends think hes gay. We became mates through work and i went upto him one day and said you will have to give me your number ... which he did ... so we started texting each other and started going out etc. He was in a relatioinship but was asking me advice on how to end it, what to say etc as hed never experienced anyting like it before and his words were 'i just see her more as a friend' so with a lot of courage and words of advice from me, he ended it.

A While after this girl at work was interested in him and another girl gave him her number. The went out on a few dates and about a month or two later she ended it. She had a party at her house and he did'nt stay the night. The next day she kinda made excuses and ended it.

A While after that at a works Christimas night out another girl showed some interest and they went out on a few dates and her words were ' i thought you were gay ' after the 2nd date she ended it.

Heres the best part .... hes 18 years old and i'm 32 and hes my best mate. We just clicked as soon as we met. When were together he goes on about girls, pussy and tits and stuff. Which to me comes across quite fake, but hes happy doing it so i respect that. Then he goes on about how big his cock is haha Add some alcohol and he gets a little camp, but i think thats just me brushing off on him.

After reading that story, do you think he might be gay ?

after reading the story I think you are to old for him and he's at a stage where he needs to figure things out for himself... he doesn't need some older guy (who hangs out with an 18 year old and calls him his best friend) to steer him in any direction. He sounds like he's confused/curious and/or not sure about what direction to take..

I think it would be healthier for you to make friends with people who are closer to your own age but thats a whole other topic.

 

[DL_Virgin]

one of the hottest guys in my high school- he was middle eastern, had a perfect face, a muscular upperbody, and thick, fleshy,hairy, muscular legs and thighs. We used to sit next to each other in homeroom and our lockers were in the same hallway. Everytime we left homeroom i would walk behind him just so i could watch him walk up the stairs(he used to wear these really silky gym shorts and he had the perfect combo of a fleshy/muscular ass..it would wiggle/woggle from side to side and i would get really hard and try and hide it).

Everytime we met in the hallway and noone else was around he would say "do you wanna suck my dick in the bathroom'- he said it several times throughout the school year. I didn't think he was joking because he would say it seriously--but then i would shake my head and smile and THEN he would start giggling. He also used to ALWAYS talk about how huge my hands were and press his palm against mine to compare the size.

He visited his friend in college((this is also my college) a couple of months ago and i saw him...same old thing(told his friend i had huge hands and told me to show him)..Then i saw him later on in the cafeteria and he asked for my number. He told me he might be coming to school at my college(he didn't say when) so i still have a chance to figure out what is up with this guy. I've always wanted fuck the shit outa him and suck his dick and i ofetn think of him when i'm jerking off. How i wish there was a way of telling whether or not a guy was gay/curious just by looking at him--it would make things so much easier...

 

[Danugh]

Yes, once at work this straight guy said to me, "if you were a girl, i would fu*k you silly." So i blushed and then he said, "oh you really think i am joking, anyhow you were a girl i would fu*k you"

Another straight said to me, "if i was gay i would be your man"

what the hell?


Needless to say he "allowed" me to perform fellatio on him 3 times.

 

[latinoguy19]

Alot of my friends joke, though I actually had to turn one guy down once.

He was a good friend and I didn't think giving him head would exactly help our relationship. So I said no.