Has Anyone ever Cry for another guy?

[giorgiobaby]

Yes, I have.

 

[alley]

Yes, my best friend--I love him.

 

[EwanSF]

Aye. See no problem with it. I dislike this ridiculous "macho" idea that showing emotion makes you less of a man.

 

[Fire]

Aye. See no problem with it. I dislike this ridiculous "macho" idea that showing emotion makes you less of a man.

But it does. Tears are little drops of your manliness, washed away, gone forever.

 

[alley]

But it does. Tears are little drops of your manliness, washed away, gone forever.

But, there are other manly fluids that can help replace those you have lost--but you gotta swallow.

 

[jimm04]

I cry when I feel stupid..

 

[ibill1]

My Steve passed on 22mon. ago. We met when we were 18 and were together 33 yrs. I cry for that man almost everyday, and think and dream of him constantly. I'm a Flight crewmember and sometimes on the aircraft I have to excuse myself and go into the lav for a good cry. I just can't help it. I'll think of him and this total and complete emptiness comes over me and the water works just come on, I have no way of stopping it. I'm a masculine type guy and I think it would freak people out to catch me balling like a baby, so I try to be descrete.

 

[puka-pride]

yeah i'm a big sappy baby

I've cried in peoples faces when i've ben dumped or when people have told me they cheated on me.

i once cried because my (ex)bf started singing to me all romantic and shit

i tear up when i deep throat too.. but I don't think that counts

 

[hermanding]

showing emotion when there is emotion will help one stave off stress and other physical problems. it is HUMAN and HUMANE. the macho stuff keeps guys so pent up from being themselves
ding

 

[Lukeee]

I have no problem with crying. I do it a lot. I cried yesterday.

 

[Fucker29]

Crying for another man? Pathetic! Crying is for sissies.

 

[alley]

My Steve passed on 22mon. ago. We met when we were 18 and were together 33 yrs. I cry for that man almost everyday, and think and dream of him constantly. I'm a Flight crewmember and sometimes on the aircraft I have to excuse myself and go into the lav for a good cry. I just can't help it. I'll think of him and this total and complete emptiness comes over me and the water works just come on, I have no way of stopping it. I'm a masculine type guy and I think it would freak people out to catch me balling like a baby, so I try to be descrete.

I am sorry for your loss--

There is nothing wrong in showing how much you care for him.

I am a Bill too.

 

[metta]

I cried when my father past away.

When my best friend suddenly died, I felt like my entire world had been destroyed. Cry....boy did I...and it lasted on and off for at least 2 years. I still miss him dearly and still wish that he was here. It will be 4 years on April 20th.

Ever since he died, I have found that I get more emotional a lot easier. I eyes get misty really easy. Last night, I was doing cardio at the gym and watching "The Biggest Loser" or whatever that show is called....and I found my eyes watering a little. Those people....their lives are at stake....they are fighting for their lives. So yeah......uncontrollably so. I seem to often times be able to feel other peoples pain too easily. I try to be careful about that.

 

[metta]

My Steve passed on 22mon. ago. We met when we were 18 and were together 33 yrs. I cry for that man almost everyday, and think and dream of him constantly. I'm a Flight crewmember and sometimes on the aircraft I have to excuse myself and go into the lav for a good cry. I just can't help it. I'll think of him and this total and complete emptiness comes over me and the water works just come on, I have no way of stopping it. I'm a masculine type guy and I think it would freak people out to catch me balling like a baby, so I try to be descrete.

I know what that is like....boy do I. I'm truly sorry. I wish that people would never have to experience that level of pain.

 

[metta]

Metta, I've often wondered if we are given pain and tears to teach us compassion. If so, it certainly worked for me.

Have you ever seen the movie Marty (1955)? That movie will make all but the most heartless of us tug at our proverbial compassionate heart strings.

I'm not familiar with that one. I'm not really looking for reasons to cry but it sounds like a good movie.

 

[pocono]

Oh yeah....

When my dad died (a long time ago) I cried quite a bit. Ever since then I can cry or get emotional easily. In an odd twist, it kind of feels good, a real release.

 

[ibill1]

Thanks for the kind words guys. I'm new here, I've spent so much time on gay grief sites that I am so glad I found JUB!

 

[ibill1]

Thanks Ankh, I know I am. It's just he was taken away so suddenly and too soon, it just seems wrong, but I am grateful to have had all those years with him.

 

[JUB]

Yes to my best friend. He is the greatest guy in the world to me.

 

[Yuki Sohma]

Yes, I have.

Me toooooooooooooo...........................more than once as a matter-of-fact ...........................

...........................me, I can be sooooooooooooooooo emotional at times ...........................

...........................I know, I know, it sounds sooooooooooooooooo like a bad movie, but it is true, this one tyme I fell in love while vacationing & when I reached the realization that we had to part, well I didn't want toooooooooooooooo...........................sooooooooooooooooo ...........................I think that maybe sometimes I fall in love too easy............................