Hate when Straights Do This!!!

[JNewYork]

I'd appreciate you not putting quotation marks around ridiculous statements.

I never said those words or anything like them.

 

[JNewYork]

I guess my #37 post didn't offend the OP, The incident really happened.

No, why would I be offended? In that case, you were doing the flirting with the marines and they simply responded that they had wives. And they were cool about it. A happy story all around.

My situation was different. The dudes were the ones coming on to me.

p.s. Also, despite all my writings here, the situation I describe doesn't happen all the time. It's happened just a handful of times over the years. But these handful of times have been memorable (and sometimes painful) in that the supposed "straight" is very manipulative. They play you and if you respond they then run.

A former coworker when I was in college kept saying what a "handsome stud" I was. He'd say it all the time. He'd cat call when I would arrive at work and he'd frequently look at me and comment on my build. He did it all in a macho way. Then one day I suggested we hang out. He said yes. When the day came to hang out he had a smirk on his face and pretended he didn't know what I was talking about when I said Are we on for later? Then he went and told other people that I was gay.

Talk about manipulation. These are some of the types of situations I'm talking about.

When I turned the page of my newspaper in the coffee shop on 43rd and 9th in NY and looked up, I just happened to notice out the window that man parked at the traffic light was seriously burning a hole through me with his look. His face was lit up, totally and INTENSELY eyeing me. This is the look a dude gives when a hot girl walks down the street. Well, I just looked him right in the eye back for a second and he waved his wedding finger and drove off.

That's the maddening part. HE is the one practically stalking me with his look but then plays the "I'm not gay" card. I wanted to yell after him, Yeah, I know, you're straight. Straight and raping me with your eyes.

Again, these experiences have been spread out over like 15 years. Maybe five experiences in 15 years.

Another way that I've been manipulated is by an alleged straight who comes on to you but that is the ONLY way they are interested in exploring their homo tendencies. They come on strong, real strong, either to find out if you're gay, find out if they can get you. Or they just do it cause it's homo exciting without having to commit to actually sucking cock and getting intimate with a guy.

They find it's safe to get their rocks off just manipulating. No, most straights do not do this. There are a few who pretend to be straight and do it. And that small percentage totally sucks.

 

[Buckley]

"The guy is just straight," end of discussion? Oh please! As if THAT means anything. Hmmmm, 3 marriages I've known about in the past couple of years break up because the 'straight' guy can't front any longer about how much he's into dudes. Um, remind me, please, just which chapter of the gay 'He's Not That Into You' deals with that, OK? Sexuality is never rigid, always a continuum. The world will be a cooler place when we can all admit that.

 

[JNewYork]

Buckley: You know it, man!!!!!!

 

[kingzulu]

I think you guys are reading too much into this. Maybe straight guys just do that because they think you might be scoping them out and they just want to say, "Thanks but I'm straight."

Nothing wrong with that. You really expect a straight guy to make goo-goo eyes back at you?

thanks thats actually funny i agreee

 

[jaycee style]

a guy grabbing his broad in front of people is just about showing off,

its like getting your car waxed and then going to the hot spot to hang out, its all about showing off.

and for the record,
cake icing is not a real meal.

trust me.

 

[xseeker69]

Straight men do play games, especially if they suspect that you're gay.
This happened to me back in the nineties. I worked with a guy that was sort of attractive but he had long hair which isn't a big turnon for me. Anyway, he was bragging about how he could read lips. I've always had a wicked sense of humor so I silently said things like "I want to suck your cock". Well, later, we were in a room alone and he dropped his pants and showed me his cock and it was hard!
He said things like, "Have you ever seen one this big and hard?" My mind reeled. It wasn't huge but it was a nice piece of meat. I simply nodded my head, went unhunh, unhunh, and went on my way. Later that day, he went to a room that was even more private. I followed him in there but I honestly needed to get something. He started to get all scared and nervous. I swallowed my smirk and got what I needed. He had a visible phew look on his face and said, "Oh, that's why you came in here." I gave him a WTF look and said "Duh."

It was so funny. I AM gay but nobody there knew it. He thought I was gay and he had me going for his big dick and was going to probably laugh at me. Now what did I accomplish? I was cool as a cucumber, got him rattled and scared and got to see his dick in all its hard glory!! Sweet! BTW, he had been married and has a kid so I know he's straight.

Another guy at the same place. A manager, this one I was attracted to, and he almost certainly had to have guessed that I'm gay. He was touchy-feely, always patting me on the shoulders, back, butt, pinching my nips. One day, he was leading me to show me something. I followed, watching his tight butt and getting a boner. Well, he stopped suddenly in front of me. I ran into him and he actually bounced on my hardon. He felt nice. I know he had to feel my erection! It was a definite flirtation thing with him. But he was married and always bragged about not being gay. I bided my time and when he said something like sexual innuendo, I went for it. I gave him a little crotch grab (actually felt his dick). He giggled, protested, and the next day was pincing my nips.

And yet another manager (this one really HOT) came up to me when I had my hands full and and grabbed my dick and pulled on it. Yes, I went after him but he was too fast. He wasn't married and there was some evidence that he was bi. I would've been on my knees for this one in a second. A naked pic of him went through the workplace. He was bent over, showing his tight, hairy ass. Too bad he was a coke user. I know, I worked at a place that was sort of wild. I miss the nineties.

So yeah, straight guys do like to play games. But don't take it too seriously and you might just get a few thrills. And the same goes for them.

 

[innocentbychoice]

Straight men do play games, especially if they suspect that you're gay.
This happened to me back in the nineties. I worked with a guy that was sort of attractive but he had long hair which isn't a big turnon for me. Anyway, he was bragging about how he could read lips. I've always had a wicked sense of humor so I silently said things like "I want to suck your cock". Well, later, we were in a room alone and he dropped his pants and showed me his cock and it was hard!
He said things like, "Have you ever seen one this big and hard?" My mind reeled. It wasn't huge but it was a nice piece of meat. I simply nodded my head, went unhunh, unhunh, and went on my way. Later that day, he went to a room that was even more private. I followed him in there but I honestly needed to get something. He started to get all scared and nervous. I swallowed my smirk and got what I needed. He had a visible phew look on his face and said, "Oh, that's why you came in here." I gave him a WTF look and said "Duh."

That was your cue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL. You didn't act on it.

 

[kasumato]

hmm, I wonder how many guys notice me looking at them like you guys notice so much... I feel like I'm subtle and casual enough about it to not be detected at all.

 

[jaycee style]

and from these few experiences that you bought on yourself by not being proffesional in the workplace, you draw up this broad generalization?

guess should work the other way around too huh.

 

[xseeker69]

I dunno, I had a premonition that he was using me. I believe he was trying to get me interested in him and then get me to make a move on him. And then, he could point me out to everybody and have a big laugh at the gay boy.

However, I came out on top in that situation. lol He never tried anything like that ever again.

 

[honooryuu]

i have caught myself staring at quite a few people. i noticed it a lot when i was with my ex girlfriend. i think she saw me staring a couple times too, and she would start getting closer to me. but usually i do a quick glance, and then keep on moving.

 

[jude swings]

In New York City if I'm walking down a street and I pass a really handsome and masculine man, I sometimes will catch the man's eyes meeting mine. I don't stare, I'm simply looking.

Then the straight man places his arm on his girl's back as he walks by. WTF???

Is this a way of making sure I know he's not gay?

One time, I was sitting at a counter in a coffee shop and there was a car sideways in front of me waiting for the light. I looked up and the driver had been very intensely staring at me. So I looked back and he turned his head to look straight ahead and then lifted his left hand to kind of wave the fact that he had a wedding ring on.

I felt like going over to that car and saying to him, "Look, YOU were the one staring at ME. And now you're going to play, I have a wife, I'm straight?

"Straight" guys play so many games. They suck.

and you sound like you're into them.