Have I gotten looser?

[boyfriend]

Hey all. I'm concerned that my ass may have gotten looser. I have no problem with incontinence or anything like that, but I've noticed that it's very, very easy for me to have receptive anal sex. This could just be the result of knowing exactly how to relax my anus, but I'm not sure. I've been regularly penetrated for the last 4 years (at least 2-3 times a week), and I don't need real lube (just spit works perfectly fine for me) and I can't even remember the last time it hurt for me. I give myself a water enema before being penetrated. I'm worried that the reason I've gotten so good at being fucked is that I've gotten looser. Anyone have any idea?

 

[KaraBulut]

The answer is "yes" but not for the reason that you think.

There was a small study done looking at anal sex and whether people who were on the receiving end during anal sex on a regular basis were "looser".

To perform the study, the researchers put a balloon-like device into the subject's ass and measured the pressure while they were at rest and then they asked the subjects to "squeeze" the balloon.

The study found that those who were on the receiving end of anal sex were more relaxed with the balloon in their ass. When they were asked to squeeze the balloon, there was no differences between the anal sex group and the non-anal sex group. The researchers posited that people who had receptive anal sex were able to relax when they had a balloon in their ass (showing better muscle control) but when asked to "squeeze", there was no difference which evidence that there was any physical changes in the structures of the anus.

So, to translate the study to what you're reporting:
Most people during potty training are taught to walk around with their sphincters contracted. When you are getting fucked, you retrain this muscle to relax when something is put in your ass. It's not that you're being "stretched out" or that damage is being done. It's that you have retrained yourself to have more control over the muscle. When you are in a sexual situation or when someone is putting something in your ass, you instinctively relax the muscle versus the typical response which is to tighten the muscle more.

 

[Supervert]

The answer is "yes" but not for the reason that you think.

There was a small study done looking at anal sex and whether people who were on the receiving end during anal sex on a regular basis were "looser".

To perform the study, the researchers put a balloon-like device into the subject's ass and measured the pressure while they were at rest and then they asked the subjects to "squeeze" the balloon.

The study found that those who were on the receiving end of anal sex were more relaxed with the balloon in their ass. When they were asked to squeeze the balloon, there was no differences between the anal sex group and the non-anal sex group. The researchers posited that people who had receptive anal sex were able to relax when they had a balloon in their ass (showing better muscle control) but when asked to "squeeze", there was no difference which evidence that there was any physical changes in the structures of the anus.

So, to translate the study to what you're reporting:
Most people during potty training are taught to walk around with their sphincters contracted. When you are getting fucked, you retrain this muscle to relax when something is put in your ass. It's not that you're being "stretched out" or that damage is being done. It's that you have retrained yourself to have more control over the muscle. When you are in a sexual situation or when someone is putting something in your ass, you instinctively relax the muscle versus the typical response which is to tighten the muscle more.

tl;dr

Yes, OP. Even if your hole is "cock-hungry", to an average-yet-unfamiliar penis, you are loose.

Try kegels.

 

[boyfriend]

The answer is "yes" but not for the reason that you think.

There was a small study done looking at anal sex and whether people who were on the receiving end during anal sex on a regular basis were "looser".

To perform the study, the researchers put a balloon-like device into the subject's ass and measured the pressure while they were at rest and then they asked the subjects to "squeeze" the balloon.

The study found that those who were on the receiving end of anal sex were more relaxed with the balloon in their ass. When they were asked to squeeze the balloon, there was no differences between the anal sex group and the non-anal sex group. The researchers posited that people who had receptive anal sex were able to relax when they had a balloon in their ass (showing better muscle control) but when asked to "squeeze", there was no difference which evidence that there was any physical changes in the structures of the anus.

So, to translate the study to what you're reporting:
Most people during potty training are taught to walk around with their sphincters contracted. When you are getting fucked, you retrain this muscle to relax when something is put in your ass. It's not that you're being "stretched out" or that damage is being done. It's that you have retrained yourself to have more control over the muscle. When you are in a sexual situation or when someone is putting something in your ass, you instinctively relax the muscle versus the typical response which is to tighten the muscle more.

Wow, that's really interesting and makes sense. Thanks!

 

[pablo6989]

Hey

Regarding all that anal sex issues:

Where the truth lies?
I read some materials (even serious medical articles) poniting that anal sex is dangerous and, apart from STD's, causes haemorrhoids, and leads to anus incontinence. Also read survey of gay males and some of them were found with anus incontinence problems (diapers?). I do not know if the survey is authentic one.

On other hand there is lot of materials in the net that suggest anal sex is totally safe, even fisting and inserting large objects when it is done correctly.

So confused a bit

Maybe some 50 or 60 years old mature gay male or female who practised anal sex could
post here their experiences and testimony about their anus condition - maybe that would be credible.

Greets

 

[PhunkSpunk]

You don't become looser, just more compliant.

 

[r0ckst4r]

Yes, you are loose. I am hung and can tell when a guy has been fucked a lot, no amount of kegels exercises are going to help you. You now have a bucket, my advice is find a guy with a bigger cock to fill you up. Only problem with that is your ass will loosen more and you will then need a guy with a bigger cock e.t.c

You might tighten if you don't have sex for months, not even self pleasuring with a cucumber, just go cold turkey.