have some balls and follow thru or be honest

[bijaxfl]

out of town on business... bi guy here and was chatting w another bi guy from a4a. He wanted to meet up said he was on his way to meet up and then he blocks me. what the fuck!! i understand getting cold feet but at least say you changed your mind and dont just no show and then block me

 

[bijaxfl]

Thanks. I have backed out but at least said i was canceling

 

[bijaxfl]

Timewasting prick, maybe his wife came home early.

What town you in ?

Welcome to JUB.

tallahassee florida

 

[panared]

out of town on business... bi guy here and was chatting w another bi guy from a4a. He wanted to meet up said he was on his way to meet up and then he blocks me. what the fuck!! i understand getting cold feet but at least say you changed your mind and dont just no show and then block me

hey, jax, fl here as well. hit me back. would love to chat.

 

[Storybook_Man]

I will admit, I have done this as well. Most of the time I get a weird feeling and I always listen to them. Sometimes ill message the person and say I can't meet up or I'm sorry im sure you are a great guy but not the right guy for me. Something cheesy and speaks to their ego lol

 

[KURT10677]

I've done it to, I'm bi so just random hookups kinda scare me some time. I believe I 've hooked twice on a4a but I talked to them on the phone first.Some of those guys on that site are really weird

 

[genthree]

gotta agree with you, just be bloody honest.

I would not know how to approach these sites, according to my friend the BS flows thick and fast, so I just give it a miss.
But if you are there don't fuck eachother over - I'll bet these guys never own up to farting !

 

[Bi Married Male]

Imagine this guys craigslist ads

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1033839676

 

[MatttheBruinsfan]

There's nothing wrong with following your instincts and canceling if you get a bad feeling about meeting up with someone, but the polite (and grown-up) thing to do is let them know beforehand.

 

[Norienne]

Yea I was talking to this guy one time for a while and we finally set up a time to meet. We talked and traded pics and videos and jacked off to one another...the whole 9 yards. By the time we were ready to meet all I could think about was bottoming for that dude and sucking his seed dry...after talking and planning and setting up a time, I'm on my way there finally to get me some lol and my car breaks down on way to see him! He actually stopped talking to me because he thought I was playing games because I cancelled (obviously) at the last minute...go figure, sometimes you just never know someone's situation...

I just figure it must not have been meant to happen.

 

[bijaxfl]

Yea I was talking to this guy one time for a while and we finally set up a time to meet. We talked and traded pics and videos and jacked off to one another...the whole 9 yards. By the time we were ready to meet all I could think about was bottoming for that dude and sucking his seed dry...after talking and planning and setting up a time, I'm on my way there finally to get me some lol and my car breaks down on way to see him! He actually stopped talking to me because he thought I was playing games because I cancelled (obviously) at the last minute...go figure, sometimes you just never know someone's situation...

I just figure it must not have been meant to happen.

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One time i was going to meet a guy... we had chatted online for a while and he came to visit friend near me... i got in a car wreck on the way.. needless to say the meeting didnt happen

 

[Str8Top14701]

I never meet someone in RL the same day I meet them online. It weeds out the time-wasters and idiots of all kinds. Bad luck's stuck me a few times with car problem, or sudden guests, and stuff; some on me, some on them. If they're people you really want to meet they'll understand. One guy sent me a pic of the tree that landed on his house, knocking out his power and everything, so that helped, not that I thought he was a jerk.

 

[blackbeltninja]

out of town on business... bi guy here and was chatting w another bi guy from a4a. He wanted to meet up said he was on his way to meet up and then he blocks me. what the fuck!! i understand getting cold feet but at least say you changed your mind and dont just no show and then block me

I had one of those. We met for coffee, hit it off, decided to meet up again later in the week. Then on the night he did a no-show and blocked me.

He later unblocked me, very sheepishly, and then told me his cold feet was my fault. Apparently I was coming on too strong, even though it was him who was texting and FBing me several times/day, and sending nude pics of himself. The last text I got, en route to the hook-up, was "I hope you're wearing some sexy underwear, because I'm looking forward to taking it off you tonight." Apparently I "got the wrong idea" and "misinterpreted his intentions."

What a loon.

-d-

 

[Norienne]

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One time i was going to meet a guy... we had chatted online for a while and he came to visit friend near me... i got in a car wreck on the way.. needless to say the meeting didnt happen

Yea that sucks. Sometimes its just not meant to happen.

 

[Storybook_Man]

I had one of those. We met for coffee, hit it off, decided to meet up again later in the week. Then on the night he did a no-show and blocked me.

He later unblocked me, very sheepishly, and then told me his cold feet was my fault. Apparently I was coming on too strong, even though it was him who was texting and FBing me several times/day, and sending nude pics of himself. The last text I got, en route to the hook-up, was "I hope you're wearing some sexy underwear, because I'm looking forward to taking it off you tonight." Apparently I "got the wrong idea" and "misinterpreted his intentions."

What a loon.

-d-

Ah the classic denial lol