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Have U been LUCKY in LOVE?

How lucky has your love life been?

  • Very lucky

    Votes: 10 23.8%

  • Mostly lucky

    Votes: 2 4.8%

  • Somewhat lucky

    Votes: 3 7.1%

  • NOT AT ALL

    Votes: 19 45.2%

  • A NIGHTMARE

    Votes: 8 19.0%
  • Total voters
    42
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Is your love life a fairytale, in between or a nightmare?

Share your tale of good luck or bad luck.
 
Please vote because the implications of this vote are many. It shed indirect light on


the questions of do gay relationships and marriages work.
 
Well, nothing has really worked out for me so far for the long haul, but I have had some guys who loved me or cared for me at some point, and for that, I'm grateful.
 
When I was 18, I felt like more of a boy than a man. The only kind of love I knew anything about was the kind males and females felt for each other. Anything that two guys might have was just sex. Or so I thought. I dated quite a few girls and it always made me miserable. I loved girls as friends but dating was awkward. I knew my body would cooperate if I wanted it to sexually, but I knew something else, too. I knew I could never give a girl what she really wanted...my heart. I couldn't love a girl the way she deserved to be loved. I told my best friend that I was through dating and made no explanation for my decision. I decided it would be the solitary, loveless life for me.

Then one day, I met a boy. And what I began to feel was decidely adult. This black haired, black eyed boy was different from me in so many ways. He came from a different world and a different kind of people. He was free-sprited and openly affectionate. To make a long story short, that boy and I exchanged vows on a beach in Greece when we were 21, just the two of us and God.
Counting the 4 children we now have, I would say I have been lucky at love 5 times.
 
very lucky yes... i'm always in love with someone, the problem is no one falls in love with me!
 
I only dated/still dating one person so I can't really say much but I guess I am pretty lucky for having this person.
 
larryng said:
Please vote because the implications of this vote are many. It shed indirect light on


the questions of do gay relationships and marriages work.
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I find this statement a bit silly.

There are plenty of people on this site who have been in 20 or 30 year or longer relationships. Clearly gay relationships can "work", if a majority of people in this poll check that they have not been lucky, then that just means they haven't met the right person yet, not that gay relationships don't work.
 
I voted not at all. Which pretty much sums it up. :help:
 
hotatlboi said:
I find this statement a bit silly.

There are plenty of people on this site who have been in 20 or 30 year or longer relationships. Clearly gay relationships can "work", if a majority of people in this poll check that they have not been lucky, then that just means they haven't met the right person yet, not that gay relationships don't work.
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If the majority of people of voted that they weren't lucky......it ---------->MIGHT<------ indicate people are having a HARD TIME finding the right one.

If a lot of people are trying their luck.(at love)........and only a few have gotten lucky.. (Pun fully intended :fellate:)...it might indicate SOMETHING.

The poll will speak for itself.
 
I had the greatest fortune to meet and fall head over heels with the most caring
loving and thoughtfull man ever.
He was more than my lover he was my best friend,my soulmate and the missing
piece of me that i did not know was missing .
We spent the most happiest time of our lives together , then like a bolt from
the blue he was taken away from me .
This was just over a year ago and even though i have tried to move on , you find
yourself out with friends clubbing and having a great time then BANG the guilt
just hits you .
Yes it is hard but i know that this is not what he would have wanted and i know
my friends are trying to help but this is something that i will have to take at my
own pace. So to answer your question God YES .
 
My partner and I are celebrating our 28th anniversary today. Has it been easy? No. Has it been worth it? Yes. The key to attracting someone? A sparkle in your eyes, fun in your heart, depth to your soul, care in your arms, and surrender in your being.
 
sixthson said:
When I was 18, I felt like more of a boy than a man. The only kind of love I knew anything about was the kind males and females felt for each other. Anything that two guys might have was just sex. Or so I thought. I dated quite a few girls and it always made me miserable. I loved girls as friends but dating was awkward. I knew my body would cooperate if I wanted it to sexually, but I knew something else, too. I knew I could never give a girl what she really wanted...my heart. I couldn't love a girl the way she deserved to be loved. I told my best friend that I was through dating and made no explanation for my decision. I decided it would be the solitary, loveless life for me.

Then one day, I met a boy. And what I began to feel was decidely adult. This black haired, black eyed boy was different from me in so many ways. He came from a different world and a different kind of people. He was free-sprited and openly affectionate. To make a long story short, that boy and I exchanged vows on a beach in Greece when we were 21, just the two of us and God.
Counting the 4 children we now have, I would say I have been lucky at love 5 times.
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Seasoned said:
My partner and I are celebrating our 28th anniversary today. Has it been easy? No. Has it been worth it? Yes. The key to attracting someone? A sparkle in your eyes, fun in your heart, depth to your soul, care in your arms, and surrender in your being.
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Good for all of you.
 
medic1 said:
I had the greatest fortune to meet and fall head over heels with the most caring
loving and thoughtfull man ever.
He was more than my lover he was my best friend,my soulmate and the missing
piece of me that i did not know was missing .
We spent the most happiest time of our lives together , then like a bolt from
the blue he was taken away from me .
This was just over a year ago and even though i have tried to move on , you find
yourself out with friends clubbing and having a great time then BANG the guilt
just hits you .
Yes it is hard but i know that this is not what he would have wanted and i know
my friends are trying to help but this is something that i will have to take at my
own pace. So to answer your question God YES .
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(((medic)))
 
Even though we eventually split up, I think I was very lucky in love.
 
I resisted sharing until now.

I voted NIGHTMARE.

My HORRIFIC nightmare in a nutshell . Two years after I donated a kidney to my oldest brother, the love of my life, Todd, took his life.

After he took his life, I sank to DEPTHS that I never ever thought that I could.

It's an absolute miracle that I didn't commit suicide, turn to drugs and alcohol (clean and sober my whole entire life), get Aids or go to jail.

It has been over eight years since he suicided.....and today I'm a pretty happy go lucky guy.

I shared more about my experienes in my " Do you believe in Karma ?" thread.
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=346494&highlight=karma
 
There are really only two guys I would say I was in love with. One was a bisexual who dumped me for a woman whom he later married. The other I will just throw in the "irreconcilable differences" pile. Opposites can attract but only if there is some similar bonding. I still wish the latter the best of luck in life but the former can try asking his wife to fuck him in the ass.
 
I am now. Even if things dont work out, I've got to see the world differently because of him. Not to sound all mushy (; Though it is scary, for me at least, to give your heart out and expect it to be treated well...as well as treat the heart you've been given with care. It is risky, and makes me do stupid stuff...such as this post.
 
You know when I saw this thread, I immediately thought of the song Lucky by Britney Spears.

I feel like I have been lucky with love but not with relationships. Ive been in my current relationship with 3 years now but I am no where near as happy as I should be.

Having said that, in the end Im confident things will work out for the best
 
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