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Have U been LUCKY in LOVE?

How lucky has your love life been?

  • Very lucky

    Votes: 10 23.8%

  • Mostly lucky

    Votes: 2 4.8%

  • Somewhat lucky

    Votes: 3 7.1%

  • NOT AT ALL

    Votes: 19 45.2%

  • A NIGHTMARE

    Votes: 8 19.0%
  • Total voters
    42
I've never shared a geniune romantic moment with another human being in my entire life. Oh sure, I've had plenty of sex but never with anyone I loved. Hurts to think about it. Don't understand why I can't find someone. I have looked and looked. I'm not fat, ugly or some lunatic either. Pretty normal looking, acting guy. Everyone I ever meet usually only ends up wanting to sex me. I've pretty much given up on finding love. If it hasn't happened yet, I'm probably incapable of being loved.
 
andyspete said:
If it hasn't happened yet, I'm probably incapable of being loved.
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I'm a firm believer in the notion that "you can't love anybody else until you love yourself". I hope you do love yourself and try to keep a positive outlook that there is a guy out there for you.
 
The guys I fall in love with either live too far away (try another country), have major issues with their sexuality, or simply don't have a mutual attraction for me.

A couple guys I know who are deeply attracted to me, and are good friends, are not sexually attractive to me.

I don't consider myself a bad person by any means, in fact, I'm probably excessively nice--and can't find anyone. I know a number of really nice guys who can't find a long-term mate.

Of course, I'm a rural queen, that doesn't help. But I still know gay couples who met and live in small communities.

I don't believe it's impossible for gays to find love, just harder. There just aren't as many of us as there are straights.
 
larryng said:
I resisted sharing until now.

I voted NIGHTMARE.

My HORRIFIC nightmare in a nutshell . Two years after I donated a kidney to my oldest brother, the love of my life, Todd, took his life.

After he took his life, I sank to DEPTHS that I never ever thought that I could.

It's an absolute miracle that I didn't commit suicide, turn to drugs and alcohol (clean and sober my whole entire life), get Aids or go to jail.

It has been over eight years since he suicided.....and today I'm a pretty happy go lucky guy.

I shared more about my experienes in my " Do you believe in Karma ?" thread.
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=346494&highlight=karma
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I'm sorry... That's awful. I can't imagine.
 
I wouldn't say "nightmarish" but its def on the NOT AT ALL point, slightly leaning towards the nightmarish. I am a closeted bi guy who just started acting on my feelings towards guys almost 2 years ago. It seems like every guy that I have been interested in and have went out with has ended up being the fuck em and leave em personality. I have never had a boyfriend, no one wants to be in a relationship with me. I get lied to and betrayed all the time. Idk if its me or what, cause i am kinda picky, but it seems the only reason guys are interested in me is physical. After 2 years of this, you'd think I'd find someone who isn't a jerk, but nope.
 
I took my partner home the first night I met him. Once we locked eyes with each other we knew it was something special(love at first sight), 5 years later we are still going very strong.
 
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