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Have u ever had...?

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... a boyfriend that you would like to spend the rest of your life with?

When?

What was your age at that time?

Did it work?
 
Yes, I was 32 when I met him in 1997

10 years later we're still going strong and not looking back
 
Actually I did have one that I could have seen myself with for a long time. It took a lot of effort by both of us to screw it up.
 
Yes, my first, it didn't work out, and in retrospect, I'm glad it didn't.

I can do better ;)
 
Oh yes!

My current boyfriend and partner, Dave, and I have been together for 11 years. I am planning on growing old with him.....:D
 
I find that to be a lot of pressure to put on yourself and your bf. No one has a magic ball and you have to live in the moment. I had a friend I thought I would end up with. We dated on and off for 4 years and I really cared for him a lot but I thought we were young and we had all the time in the world. Than he killed himself. Now I have a bf I have been with for 4 years and I love him everyday knowing anything could happen.He just totaled his car in an accident and walked away(thank God!) but I didn't freak out. I know all to well that someone who you love could be here one minute and gone the next.
 
Yup. I was 19 and he was 18.

I loved it while it lasted. 3 years later, he said, he had had it.

So, I met another dude and I felt the same. 2 years later, both of us had had it.

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My BF and I have been together for 5 years now. Hopefully, it is going to stay that way, too.

Do we know? Can we know? Nope. It is all in the stars.

I have grown up to accept whatever the future may bring with grace. I'll always do my very best to have it my way, if you will, but I know my limitations, too.

SC
 
thanks to everyone for sharing your experience.

It's nice to see that some of you seems to be really happy with your partner!
 
There are probably 2 boyfriends with whom I imagined futures with - although both were long term, they ended eventually.

With my present boyfriend, I have no preconceived expectations of a future like I used to with the others. I think however that is the best way to do it because this has been my happiest relationship, due to not worrying about what will happen in the future ... and taking everything in stride. If it happens, then I am blessed.
 
YES! My current bf Alex is someone I want to spend the rest of my lilfe with. I'm very much in love with him now. I could go on and on about him. The thing that makes our relationship so special is that it goes so far beyond the bedroom. We are connected on so many levels it just blows my mind how wonderful he has been and how wonderful our relationship has become. Well enough rambling, I love Alex and he loves me, it's been wonderful.
 
Several, at 25, 32, 38, and 42 plus the one I've been with for nearly 10 years.
 
DANNO said:
Yes. I think I have. We just recently broke up actually. We were together for about a year. Its sad actually. He doesn't know what he wants and has a lot of growing to do. Maybe in the future, but right now our cards are not falling together. I've done enough crying over it, so the sympathy is not necessary. Life rolls on!
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Danno, I hope he grows up, in time. (*8*) Sorry for the breakup.

You rock!

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YES!!!

I did meet someone whom I thought was worth me making a whole load of drastic decisions to be with for the rest of my life. He was the first guy I've ever fell in love with in my entire life so I guess that makes him all the more special.

It simply happened too suddenly, too without notice - and I wasn't prepared.

I was 23 and it was last year, but, fortunately or unfortunately, he decided to end it all.

I've cried a lot but I'm recovering.....:)
 
DANNO said:
Yes. I think I have. We just recently broke up actually. We were together for about a year. Its sad actually. He doesn't know what he wants and has a lot of growing to do. Maybe in the future, but right now our cards are not falling together. I've done enough crying over it, so the sympathy is not necessary. Life rolls on!
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You sound like a very strong person and I admire you for that!

No sympathy for you, just my very best wishes to you in everything that's ahead of you! :D
 
I did the tragic love thing ... I tore myself up, because of a promise I'd made myself ... I swore to myself, that I'd never be with anyone who was younger than me (I'm now 18, thus being with anyone younger is illegal, but then I was 16.) and he was fifteen, when I was sixteen...

Eleven months later, after trying to block out that I loved him, drowning myself in alcohol and painkillers, and still trying to get him to notice that I liked him, while feeling so, so guilty that I loved someone younger than me... I told him. He rang me, and I was slightly intoxicated and he asked me what was wrong, and I told him I liked SOMEONE. He asked who, and I said "You. It's been you, all along" and he said nothing - because he'd known something had been bugging me for a long time.

He said nothing, and I walked away from him, and didn't see him again for a year and a half ... We finally saw each other again, and I no longer loved him.

Worst period of my life - wasted nearly all of 2005.

-Laz.
 
yes ihave, my current b/f and I have been together for 23 yrs and love ea other very much. we are init for the long haul.
 
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