Have U Ever Hesitated In Having Sex with a Guy cause You didn’t want to Fuck Him?

[ilovejstrokesdonk]

I met this dude name Marc threw mutual friends and the night we were getting to know each other better I was afraid to let him banged me because his dick was to big for me. I was sucking his dick for a good 5-7 mins and he wanted to bang me…he says to me “get naked and get on the bed on your stomach , I wanna fuck you”, and I kept hesitating, by trying to blow him fast and hard so he could cum fast. He’s kept on tugging and pulling at my boxer, trying to get them off me. Marc dick was to big, it looked like it would hurt me, and I was nervous and afraid. Now I don’t mind taking a stiff one in the ass every now and then, I’ve bottomed only 3 times before with guys whose dicks I’ll say was about 6-7 inches and wasn‘t that thick, Marc was a lean muscled white dude whose dick looks like Black Porn Star Castro’s or Maxx Blacc Dick from Monsters of Cock, he had I’ll say 8 and something inch dick, and was thicker then the guys that butt fucked me before.

 

[Hot White Trash]

LOL.

I needed a laugh. Thanks.

 

[jasoncrew03]

@ilove: There ain't no such thing as too big. You can go find some guys with smaller dicks, can I have him ?

 

[RobUK2]

You sound like a lucky guy from that account!

 

[mbamike]

Your friend Marc sounds like a real hotty! I would love to have a cock like his in me! Makes me horny just thinking about it.

You need to relax, use plenty of lube, go slow until your ass acclimates to his cock, and enjoy the ride!

I wish I was that lucky!

 

[sixthson]

You need to relax, use plenty of lube, go slow until your ass acclimates to his cock, and enjoy the ride!

Wrong. He needs to say "NO, I am not ready for that!" and not just submit against his will.

 

[ronboy]

In all my years as a gay men, the best advice I can give anyone in that situation is.....BE HONEST. Just tell him right out that you don't want to take his bigger than averaqge cock in your ass, right now.....

If you truly bond with him, there may come a time when you change your mind....

 

[mbamike]

Your friend Marc sounds like a real hotty! I would love to have a cock like his in me! Makes me horny just thinking about it.

You need to relax, use plenty of lube, go slow until your ass acclimates to his cock, and enjoy the ride!

I wish I was that lucky!

Wrong. He needs to say "NO, I am not ready for that!" and not just submit against his will.

^WRONG! He wants it, so there is no submitting against his will. He would not be asking for advice on this site if he didn't want it.

He is just afraid of something he has not experienced yet. It is like jumping in the deep end of the pool for the first time. So to overcome his fear of a larger cock, he needs to experience it with caution, like going slow and using lots of lube.

If he would have explain all this to his friend, I'm sure his friend would be accommodating. Otherwise, he will be stuck in life only knowing about average cocks.

 

[Hello-Good-Bi]

Been there(a few times), tried that, didn't work, lol. Average size only please?

 

[innocentbychoice]

^WRONG! He wants it, so there is no submitting against his will. He would not be asking for advice on this site if he didn't want it.

He is just afraid of something he has not experienced yet. It is like jumping in the deep end of the pool for the first time. So to overcome his fear of a larger cock, he needs to experience it with caution, like going slow and using lots of lube.

If he would have explain all this to his friend, I'm sure his friend would be accommodating. Otherwise, he will be stuck in life only knowing about average cocks.

WRONG. Have you even read the title of the thread? It says: "Have U Ever Hesitated In Having Sex with a Guy cause You didn’t want to Fuck Him?"

Seems like he didn't want to, but he was in the situation and didn't know how to say no, and now he's asking if anyone has gone through the same thing.

And to the OP, I have. It happened recently. First of all, I don't do penetration with people I'm not involved with, so if it's a friend with benefits or something (which I don't really have, I'm just making an example) I'll fool around or even top him, but I can't bottom unless I reaally reaaally like the guy and have a bond with him.

So anyways, back to my story, 3 days ago I was with this guy, and it was the opposite situation, he's dick was reaaaally small!!! And it was all wet from pre-cum (which I find disgusting) so I didn't even blow him (I didn't feel like it and wouldn't do it just to please him, it would've been super uncomfortable for me), I wasn't in the mood at all, plus his breath stank lol. Gosh it wasn't a good night, but long story short, don't ever do something you just don't really feel like a doing. If you're hesitating, you're probably not ready and you just have to tell the guy...Don't be afraid, there's a lot other ways of satisfying besides penetration.

 

[mbamike]

WRONG. Have you even read the title of the thread? It says: "Have U Ever Hesitated In Having Sex with a Guy cause You didn’t want to Fuck Him?"

Seems like he didn't want to, but he was in the situation and didn't know how to say no, and now he's asking if anyone has gone through the same thing.

And to the OP, I have. It happened recently. First of all, I don't do penetration with people I'm not involved with, so if it's a friend with benefits or something (which I don't really have, I'm just making an example) I'll fool around or even top him, but I can't bottom unless I reaally reaaally like the guy and have a bond with him.

So anyways, back to my story, 3 days ago I was with this guy, and it was the opposite situation, he's dick was reaaaally small!!! And it was all wet from pre-cum (which I find disgusting) so I didn't even blow him (I didn't feel like it and wouldn't do it just to please him, it would've been super uncomfortable for me), I wasn't in the mood at all, plus his breath stank lol. Gosh it wasn't a good night, but long story short, don't ever do something you just don't really feel like a doing. If you're hesitating, you're probably not ready and you just have to tell the guy...Don't be afraid, there's a lot other ways of satisfying besides penetration.

^WRONG!

Yes, I read the title and his story too. He didn't want to fuck the guy because he was afraid it would hurt. He was afraid because he had not experienced a larger than average cock. The OP writes

"I’ve bottomed only 3 times before with guys whose dicks I’ll say was about 6-7 inches and wasn‘t that thick, Marc was a lean muscled white dude whose dick looks like Black Porn Star Castro’s or Maxx Blacc Dick from Monsters of Cock, he had I’ll say 8 and something inch dick, and was thicker then the guys that butt fucked me before."

He is just afraid of something he has not experienced yet. So to overcome his fear of a larger cock, he needs to experience it with caution, like going slow and using lots of lube.

If he would have explain all this to Marc, I'm sure Marc would have been accommodating. Until he overcomes this fear, he is stuck only knowing about average cocks.

 

[fetaby]

Parallel?

You have to suck a smegma covered cock to get over your fear of the smegma covered cock. A lack of experience with smegma covered cock is holding you back from enjoying smegma covered cock.

If the man didn't want to get fucked he shouldn't have to fuck. Regardless of the reasons, regardless of the "missed experience."

 

[innocentbychoice]

Parallel?

You have to suck a smegma covered cock to get over your fear of the smegma covered cock. A lack of experience with smegma covered cock is holding you back from enjoying smegma covered cock.

If the man didn't want to get fucked he shouldn't have to fuck. Regardless of the reasons, regardless of the "missed experience."

I completely agree.

He didn't want to, he didn't have to, next time just say no and don't feel bad about it. That's it.

 

[jasoncrew03]

And thats a fate worse than death right there

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[jasoncrew03]

Seriously!

(and so there's no confusion, I got your sarcasm. I'm agreeing with you )

 

[Joshua_me]

In all my years as a gay men, the best advice I can give anyone in that situation is.....BE HONEST. Just tell him right out that you don't want to take his bigger than averaqge cock in your ass, right now.....

If you truly bond with him, there may come a time when you change your mind....

^Words to live by right there...

It's that "be honest" part that SO many people have a problem with...

 

[jasoncrew03]

^That looks like fun