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Have you changed since joining JUB?

I think I've changed - a little. I've been able to take myself a little less seriously and to laugh more at life.

JUB has also allowed the repressed smart-ass in me to appreciate the followship of my fellow Jubbers and their lives. Some have a sense of humor - some don't... the poor things. :lol:
 
Its given me gay friends that I can come home to every night and chat with, not to mention the supercool straight girls on here as well. In that sense, its a little gay island that is always waiting for me in my otherwise predominently straight world. And that I appreciate greatly. (*8*)

Its also made me a little more social - online and offline. Which helped me go out and meet a great guy this past year.
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And finally, its taught me how to find some great smileys!
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i believe so - as the saying goes wat we are never changes - who we are never stops changing
 
Yes i learn a lot of stuff on here. This website opened up my eyes a lot



Im out to a few people


I would date a totally closeted guy. He will understand what im going through
 
Yes, I've learned to keep my guard up alot more because gay men are more bitchier than any of my chick friends. :(

and crushing on someone is incredibly easy but un-crushing on them is SO much more harder.
 
Changed ? Not really. JUB just made me realize just how shallow, dense, hollow, revolting, over sexed, selfish and how rude i am. Thats about it.
 
It has made me comfortable with who I am. Plus it has expanded my friendships !!
 
Jub has given me people to talk to when I'm down, people to give me advice, and it's made me feel useful, too - it's nice to hear when people benefit from my advice.
 
Comrad said:
Changed ? Not really. JUB just made me realize just how shallow, dense, hollow, revolting, over sexed, selfish and how rude i am. Thats about it.
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"That's one small step for man; one giant leap for mankind".​

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Oh Yeah!! When I first joined JUB I was just divorced and discovering the new me. I was very much in the closet, I am out to almost everyone now and I really like the new me. Yes I am a "Gay daddy". Jub had a lot to do with me accepting that.
 
jub's given me a better understanding of what we gays are like and it's taught me that i'm an ordinary, common garden variety gay guy (and not the strange freak i thought i was) ;)
 
Tremendously.

When I first came to JUB, I was crushed and heartbroken; I'd lost all my friends. For a long time I felt like I had met a new group of friends. But after a while I realized that the :D and the (*8*) and even the :sex: weren't providing what I came to recognize as a real need in my life...

Oh, I've had some wonderful chats and PM exchanges with at least a couple of my fellow participants, and they helped me feel warmer and more OK....

but as soon as I logged off the cold empty feeling was still there. As a matter of fact, it still is, but I have realized that if I want that to change I'm going to have to work on that myself and it means getting out there in the world and interacting with other people face-to-face.

As a result I have spent less time at JUB ;)

To the (several) posters who've commented that they "trust less," implying that they've had some rather unsavory or at best disappointing "encounters" through JUB, I have to say I don't feel the same. I was pretty down on men, especially many types of gay men, before coming to JUB. I had given up any hope of finding prince charming up under a toadstool, so I never got trapped by my own expectations.

I asked myself, "Okay, say the worst happens, and I'm going to die ugly and bitter and alone...and I know this for a fact. What am I going to do to deal with that TODAY..." That has helped me a great deal; it's certainly helped my sense of humor.
 
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