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Have you ever been obsessed with a guy?

It fades, but the feeling stays...
when will that feeling go away ??
 
Yes, and he knew it and used it to play mind games with me. :(
 
it has nothing to do with him

it has everything to do with you

allowing a person to take over ur thoughts - and dominate - is debilitating

first thing is to become aware of it - that it is NOT good - it is horrible as it trumps everything else

once ur aware, u can deal

and it goes away

but u have to see it for what it is - unhealthy

before u can deal

but it is all about u - not about the other person

u can't let someone else define u

only u can do that

spoken from experience
 
Yes, twice. First time was my flatmate at college; we shared a flat for a couple of years, good body, didn't mind showing his cock but I never had the guts to suggest anything. Currently, can't stop thinking about a guy I work with ... mediterranean features (gorgeous), nice rugby player body (which he doesn't mind showing me!) and decent personality. Unlikely anything will happen but does keep me awake some nights wishing "what if..."
 
yeah I am obsessed with one guy and its driving me insane (figuratively) because he is straight and I know I will never get anything with him. So I am trying to forget about it, but its hard when he is around you a lot due to work. Its best to just try or even forget because obsessing about the person who you can't get (in my case) is bad.
 
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