Have you ever dated someone who was out of your league?

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

By this I mean not only looks but also things like popularity, status, wealth etc etc- people whom you and others think was out of your league. I was just walking past this random gay bar with my friends and as my friend was talking about this he fancied, I saw this fit guy standing outside the bar. He was just beautiful- the perfect actor to star in your wet dreams. He had a nice boyish face but he also had an air of masculinity as well. We stared at each other for a split second and then I quickly looked away. When I looked back he was looking elsewhere. I can't help thinking what would have happened if my friends weren't there?

 

[Paws]

I'm planning to. So far, I had no success with my elected person.

 

[Horschallen]

Yes and it was painful.

 

[theFallenGod]

sorry... but no one is out of my league....

most people just aren't lucky enough to have me...

 

[S60Turbo]

I feel like everyone I've dated was

 

[GL]

anybody dating me would be out of my league!

my only hope is to date within my own geek species.

unfortunately gay tubbie geek comic book collectors are a very small minority.

 

[Shepherd 2]

NO, not dated.
Maybe I thought about them,
or they might not be interested in me.
But I have a lot of trust in who I am.
However, I am a bit nervous this thread,
for it will tap into the pained inner soul of
some of our fellow JUBbers who do not
realize what great people they are
just as they are.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

sorry... but no one is out of my league....

most people just aren't lucky enough to have me...

see see see

all toronto men are so hot it hurts

and no one is out of my league.

so why would be scared to talk to me.
we don't bite

 

[jetsonboy]

Danno, you are so gorgeous, inside and out!

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

Thats what you said the last time and you still bit me

because you were so hot dear boy

loved it.

 

[G-Lexington]

I don't think I've ever thought anyone was out of my league since...I don't know, high school? At least, not in the "he's too attractive/rich/popular" kind of way. I HAVE thought that certain guys and I have very little common ground, which might put us in DIFFERENT leagues. But "out of my leauge", no. If I'm interested, I'll talk to them. If I get a feeling they're not interested, I back off. No biggie.

Lex

 

[Swellegant]

I've only ever dated ugly people. They make me look better

 

[nitish]

To the people that say "no one's out of my league." or "looks don't matter." Stop arguing about the author's points and answer the question. GAH!

Out of your league doesn't mean that person is better than you. It simply means other people, superficially, will rank this person as hotter, more popular, smarter, etc. etc. Notice that what you think of yourself, or what you think of him is irrelevant to this discussion.

 

[backpacker]

No, but that's because I don't put people on a pedestal.

 

[JayHew]

No because I don't consider such things.

 

[Franion]

Back in the day of blind dating from magazine small ads, I met a few who thought they were out of my league.

I realise some people like to make others look small to compensate for their own inadequacies.

So I dumped the fuckers before they could dump me.

Very satisfying to tell them "You're not my type".

 

[Danugh]

Yes so i just got all the hot sex and all the material things i could get out of him fast, then dumped him before he wised up and dumped me .

 

[ronboy]

Oh yes.....and fate was kind enough to have him fall in love with me almost 12 years ago. Even though I know he loves me, I still look over at him in bed each morning and wonder why.....

 

[timnmostud]

While I may not have used the term "out of your league", I do understand your point. So, yeah, in a way I have done that. I have known some really great looking successful, etc. guys that had a lot going for them that everyone assumed were asses because of how they looked. Getting to know them, I found that they just happened to be great looking successful guys and were also really NICE guys! By talking to them and not having any preconcieved notions, I had a lot of fun with them. On the other hand, I have known some guys who had nothing going for them that were asses as well! I have no problem with someone knowing they are hot! What a shame to be really hot and not know it! That would a shame, I think. Looks don't make anyone any better, though. There is a lot more to a guy than how he looks. If he thinks that is all that matters, then he is a loser. Hell, I'll talk to anyone! It's amazing how far you can get smiling at someone, speaking to them and seeing where it goes! I did that years ago and ended up with the greatest guy in the world!

 

[Soilwork]

no.

but many of my boyfriends have.