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Have you ever dated someone who was out of your league?

If they dated me, they weren't out of my league, I would think. I did once date a member of the Danish royal family when I lived in San Francisco. He looked a bit like a young Dolph Lundgren, except even more muscular. His arms were so powerful that I was afraid of being crushed to death when he squeezed me. He also had powerful legs, and when he got me in a scissorhold, I was pretty much helpless. I did feel a bit like I was his toy. Generally, I don't like to date guys that are that much stronger than I am, and so I could consider him out of my league. He certainly was a much more powerful wrestler than I was.
 
GL247 said:
anybody dating me would be out of my league!

my only hope is to date within my own geek species.

unfortunately gay tubbie geek comic book collectors are a very small minority. ;)
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Why...hola....;)

Me, I've never dated out of my league...but then again, I've only ever been in one relationship.
 
DANNO said:
A pretty face and a good body mean nothing. What does popularity have to do with a relationship. This are all superficial material things that I don't need to spend time worrying about!
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I agree with you, DANNO! However, I've always thought I was never good enough for anyone. Maybe that's a low self-esteem or a body image issue. :(

One thing though, I think you're definitely out of my league! ;) Too cute and way too sweet ;)
 
ronboy said:
Oh yes.....and fate was kind enough to have him fall in love with me almost 12 years ago. Even though I know he loves me, I still look over at him in bed each morning and wonder why.....
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I can only wish he was still with me.............if he was, I'd be wondering the same.
 
i dont believe in the whole league thing

i dont know what chemistry is, but it really has little to do with the things listed in the OP

a few people have turned me down because they felt they were not in my "league" and it was a bad and awful experience everytime

one guy told me that he wasnt cute enough for me and he didnt want to be something for me to do to keep busy until the real person for me came along

it made me realize how shallow he thought i was
 
I'm not exactly sure how it happened, but I ended up with a tall, handsome guy who is frequently asked if he would like to be a model. Beyond that, he's insanely smart --graduated suma cum laude--and absolutely delightful to be with. He dresses like a movie star. He has a good heart and is involved in community affairs. And he is half my age.

It is safe to say he is well out of my league. Yet, for reasons I have yet to understand, he really loves me.

Like Ronboy, I ask myself the same question every morning. After 5 years, I still don't see it. :luv:
 
Shepherd 2 said:
NO, not dated.
Maybe I thought about them,
or they might not be interested in me.
But I have a lot of trust in who I am.
However, I am a bit nervous this thread,
for it will tap into the pained inner soul of
some of our fellow JUBbers who do not
realize what great people they are
just as they are. !oops!
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How thoughtful and sweet, Shep!..|
 
By definition, it should be easy to get anyone within your own league. So, what would be the challenge?

Yup. It works best, if both parties involved are dating someone 'out of their league'.

I thought my BF was a bit out of my league, to be honest. Much younger, very cute looks, restaurant head-turner, etc.

He thought, I was out of his league, too. Successful, stable, mature and secure about the future.

Frankly, both of us thought, we were dating totally 'out of our leagues'. That's why it has worked so well, too.

SC
 
Popularity,Status,Wealth....none of that matters, it's what is in a person's heart that matters....Respect, Understanding & Right Judgement that is what counts.
 
I did, once.

His name was Cliff, but everyone called him 'pornstar Cliff' 'cause that's exactly what he looked like. Tanned, perfect hair, impossibly ripped, he could wear just jeans and an undershirt and look like a magazine cover come to life.

*sigh* ...just the memory of him....

Anyway, I about dropped dead when he let me know he was 'interested', and on a fateful Friday night he picked me up in his convertible BMW (of course :rolleyes:) and we went out to dinner.

Gawd, I was nervous as Hell. It felt like I was 15 again and out on my first date. I was stammering and dropping silverware and at one point actually walked into a wall when I wasn't looking.

Oy.

We hung out a few times more, but bottom line nothing happened and eventually I never saw him again. To this day I kick myself for screwing things up and acting like such an idiot.
 
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